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I’m a bi black male college senior with a gay black male friend also in school
we’ve both been on and off dating apps, but he gets dates and has been in relationships, and I never get any mutual attraction.
he can literally download an app today, get matches and dates within the day
and I can be on that same app and not get a match or match that actually replies in months or years
even if I get a match it never makes it to a date.
it just feels so unfair
And it’s not like he’s a supermodel or i’m an ogre either
our looks aren’t that different for him to get all this attention I never can
how do you deal with your friends getting attention and dates using the apps you have used but never get anything out of
especially in a Non-lgbt populous area
It just feels so unfair, and it’s hard to not resent the people in your circle who do find dating success as time passes you by with no progress whatsoever for years.
It makes me feel jealous and not good enough
we’ve both been on and off dating apps, but he gets dates and has been in relationships, and I never get any mutual attraction.
he can literally download an app today, get matches and dates within the day
and I can be on that same app and not get a match or match that actually replies in months or years
even if I get a match it never makes it to a date.
it just feels so unfair
And it’s not like he’s a supermodel or i’m an ogre either
our looks aren’t that different for him to get all this attention I never can
how do you deal with your friends getting attention and dates using the apps you have used but never get anything out of
especially in a Non-lgbt populous area
It just feels so unfair, and it’s hard to not resent the people in your circle who do find dating success as time passes you by with no progress whatsoever for years.
It makes me feel jealous and not good enough