Thanks for telling me that I will never be in a happy marriage and will be suicidal? I really needed that dose of pessimism. Also I know the nature of men because my mom was with my dad who hasn't been in my life for 10 years and died when I was 16. But does this mean all men? No. I have a happily married uncle, and cousins, and have seen marriages that have worked and will continue to work. No suicidal wives and no cheating.Don't get married. You may end up devastated and suicidal. I've seen it happen to too many women who though they had a "good" man. You don't understand the nature of men. Good luck to you.