Bakhita
Free Spirit, INFJ
I feel like I'm one of the very few women I know that has 0 interest in being with a man. And I mean none whatsoever. I do not want one romantically or xesually. I do not want to be xesually objectified, devalued or otherwise mistreated by these creatures ever again. Being raised by one of them has resulted in years of wounds that I may never truly heal from. They feign desire for "friendship" until you tell them (because friends seems to be code for hook up these days) you will not be having xes with them. Of course, they disappear or reveal for first time explicitly that they were mainly interested in fµck!ng you. Of course only a minority if any will say it so crudely, they often use other language like "cuddling" or "physical affection."
Literally, all they seem to value or think about is xes. I think it's a coping mechanism for the lack of either financial stability, meaning among other things in their lives. You dig deeper and they are emotionally barren. How often they will try to explain away my experiences as a Black woman as me being too sensitive, irrational. Meanwhile, dare to hold them accountable for their problematic behavior or give honest feedback however respectfully is often met with denial, stonewalling or insults hurled. They are so pathetic to me. I cannot stand thought of being in relationships with one of these creatures, let alone bedding them. I can never find such a misogynist, gaslighting, dysfunctional and otherwise repulsive population attractive.
Literally, all they seem to value or think about is xes. I think it's a coping mechanism for the lack of either financial stability, meaning among other things in their lives. You dig deeper and they are emotionally barren. How often they will try to explain away my experiences as a Black woman as me being too sensitive, irrational. Meanwhile, dare to hold them accountable for their problematic behavior or give honest feedback however respectfully is often met with denial, stonewalling or insults hurled. They are so pathetic to me. I cannot stand thought of being in relationships with one of these creatures, let alone bedding them. I can never find such a misogynist, gaslighting, dysfunctional and otherwise repulsive population attractive.
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