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Do couples need to share a bathroom?!

Should couples share a bathroom?

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beau is upset because I said ideally in our future house I want my own bathroom. He talking about oneness. Why must I smell this mans boo boo for 60 years? I think a bathroom is a little piece of sanity. What says you lsa?
 

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In a relationship Noooo, I will need my own beautiful bathroom unless I want him to join me . I like my space and don't want to feel rushed when getting ready .
 

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beau is upset because I said ideally in our future house I want my own bathroom. He talking about oneness. Why must I smell this mans boo boo for 60 years? I think a bathroom is a little piece of sanity. What says you lsa?
I don’t think it’s necessary. What he mean oneness?! Tell that man get tf!
 

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I would prefer not sharing a bathroom with my spouse. I don’t like cleaning the bathroom behind anyone but myself. I can tolerate my kids because I teach them how to be clean.

When my ex and I were living together the master bathroom was mine and he shared the other bathroom with the toddlers.
Seemed pretty fair to me.

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My husband and I have never shared a bathroom (over 10 years married). The master bath is mine, he uses every other bathroom in the house. Lol. Our son uses his own bathroom.

When we got engaged, I sold my condo and we moved into his house for about a year, when I moved in, he moved out of the bathroom and the closet.
 

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beau is upset because I said ideally in our future house I want my own bathroom. He talking about oneness. Why must I smell this mans boo boo for 60 years? I think a bathroom is a little piece of sanity. What says you lsa?
And your own closet and office sis!
 

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I’m sorry this is my only home nonnegotiable. I need a separate bathroom. My skincare and shower routine is ridiculously long plus, if I had a dollar for everytime someone told me their SO peed on the toilet seat and they got a rash :dontknow
 

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It’s based on what people can afford not superficial fantasies. Millions share a bathroom everyday and the world continues to turn. Many don’t even have a bathroom to share. I live with my parents. There are two bathrooms but one is only a half bath. We all know people who have one bathroom, two bathrooms and even three bathrooms. It can a house, an apartment or townhouse. It’s about what people can afford. One bathroom is better than homelessness.

@soclothesminded What?
 
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“Oneness” doesn’t mean yall have to smell each others caca if you don’t have to LOL

I think the ideal is to still have separate bedrooms/bathrooms so both parties can have their own space if need be...that’s my ideal I know everyone is different
 

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Nooooooo I cannot share a bathroom with anyone!!! He can take the one in the room I’ll take the private one lol.
 

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No, in my dream home, we’ll both have his & her bathrooms and closets connected to the master bedroom. I spend a lot of time in the bathroom doing my skincare routine and what not so I kind of think of that time as my time. I don’t want any interruptions, especially if it’s been one of those days lol.

As much as he eats, I’m considering separate fridges too.
 
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It’s not even the toilet that bothers me. I hate sharing a shower. Pubs on the soap and whatnot, ugh. Luckily for the most part I have the master bathroom to myself but only because my skin care, hair care and toiletries take up all the space. It’s not something my fiancé and I discussed, it just happened that way. If needed be, I would have demanded it.
 

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fµck my own bathroom and bedroom, I told my man I want a separate house to myself. I need my own space... I can't share a house. :bashful























#LSADelusions
 

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We've always had at least two bathrooms, but we've both usually used whatever bathroom was most convenient at the time, so there's always been a bit of overlap. Still, we each had a bathroom that we used most of the time.

1. Currently we both use the master bathroom--him more than me, because that's where the closets are and where he gets dressed on days he has to go to the office. 2. There's a guest bathroom that I use sometimes that he never uses. I guess that's "my" bathroom, but I feel weird calling it that. 3. There's a guest bathroom that he uses a lot that I don't use much. 4. And there's a bathroom neither of us really uses; I just go in there to clean it and wash the dogs.

It hasn't been a real issue to us, who uses which bathroom. We're flexible. I'd never say I need a bathroom all to myself, but it is kind of nice not being forced to share. There are only two of us, so it's pretty nice knowing we can each do our own thing whenever we need to.

I will say, though, that whenever we've had at least three bathrooms, he's typically just let me use one of them exclusively, the way I do now.

But I guess if we had to share it wouldn't be the end of the world.
 

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He uses the restroom in his own bathroom but bathes in ours. Once we have my dream home, I hope to have a private bath. I like things a certain way.
 

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My husband and I have never shared a bathroom (over 10 years married). The master bath is mine, he uses every other bathroom in the house. Lol. Our son uses his own bathroom.

When we got engaged, I sold my condo and we moved into his house for about a year, when I moved in, he moved out of the bathroom and the closet.
He gets it. Happy wife. Happy life.
 

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He has money. He has 4 bathrooms right now. It makes no sense.

Now he wants to talk more about it lol. I want my bathroom LOL
“He wants to talk more about it.” There’s four whole bathrooms! He wants to be under your skin so bad. This is so cute. I cannot.
 

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I cannot and will not share a bathroom.

Now, having my own bedroom would be a dream but my husband absolutely refuses. He thinks separate rooms equals a bad relationship. I think it’s healthy. You have your own space and can sleep more peacefully. Tugging on covers, not being able to totally stretch out, not agreeing on the room temperature which sounds to put on and having to listen to snoring is not relaxing. In my own room, I can wake up relaxed, well rested and be dressed and made up when I emerge from my boudoir sanctuary, lol. And it’s not like he can’t sleep over sometimes, lol.
 

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beau is upset because I said ideally in our future house I want my own bathroom. He talking about oneness. Why must I smell this mans boo boo for 60 years? I think a bathroom is a little piece of sanity. What says you lsa?
No my parents have been married 37 years they have separate bathrooms, separate closets my dad’s closet is bigger lmao...my sister n brother in-law same set up.
 

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I need my own bathroom and own space in a house when I am in a relationship. Just works better that way. My last boyfriend knew not to use my bathroom when he slept over. He had a whole bathroom all to himself to do whatever he does to prepare for the day and vice versa.
 

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Do you want a separate bed/ bedroom too? Lol . Girl what if he gets disabled and you end up his caretaker? You ain’t gonna clean him? I bet you the type to just throw him away in a nursing home. So you don’t want to watch your man get ready. Men stink! I’m sure you have odors as well that he endure.
 

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I cannot and will not share a bathroom.

Now, having my own bedroom would be a dream but my husband absolutely refuses. He thinks separate rooms equals a bad relationship. I think it’s healthy. You have your own space and can sleep more peacefully. Tugging on covers, not being able to totally stretch out, not agreeing on the room temperature which sounds to put on and having to listen to snoring is not relaxing. In my own room, I can wake up relaxed, well rested and be dressed and made up when I emerge from my boudoir sanctuary, lol. And it’s not like he can’t sleep over sometimes, lol.
I think this is what he thinks. I think each relationship is different and I don't see it mandated that every couple has to share haha. I want my own glam bathroom and I will still love my man. But it was a lovely discussion. Thanks LSA
 

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beau is upset because I said ideally in our future house I want my own bathroom. He talking about oneness. Why must I smell this mans boo boo for 60 years? I think a bathroom is a little piece of sanity. What says you lsa?
I need my own bathroom. Oneness sounds cute, but I’d never let a man watch me put myself together plus, I’m a product hoe and keep bottles/stuff everywhere.
 

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beau is upset because I said ideally in our future house I want my own bathroom. He talking about oneness. Why must I smell this mans boo boo for 60 years? I think a bathroom is a little piece of sanity. What says you lsa?
I mean, logistically it makes sense to. I think that's why most married people do it. How many homes do you know with two master bathrooms (though it would be nice)? Theres an easy compromise that can be reached here somewhere, though. If he proposes and you get engaged and buy a house together, maybe you can get a bathroom with double sinks or a separate tub and shower. I know those things will be on my wishlist.
 

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We have three bathrooms. He has just as much hair and body products as me. I have my clothes and bathroom in one room and he has it in the other. We only share the king size bed lmbo.
 

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