ya'lls feelings do not get hurt. stop lying. lolThus, when you inevitably stop throwing it back... our feelings get hurt. (&i think that happens a lot.)
okay uncle bernie. lol.Why does what he feels or thinks matter ? b!tch , shut up all that hollering and buss a nut :highly_amused: ! This is why FWB arrangements are not for all women.
Right. I think when you mutually agree on fwb situation ... there's no need for him to 'lose respect' for you.It depends on the man, sweetheart.
But if he makes a habit of being discourteous, rude, disrespectful, and any other negative synonym, then I think it'd be obvious how he views her.
Side note: I don't think it's an issue when fwb was a mutual and planned agreement between those involved. If it happens involuntarily, and the woman hopes for more ---- then, YIKES.
Do men then less of a woman that has agreed to xes without commitment? Do they lose respect for the woman, especially after the xes is over?What do you think?
It depends.
As a man... I either like you, or I don't.
I know from the jump if I want you to be my girl or not.
Women don't 'grow' on me.
So, it's great and actually a lot stressful when we can be upfront with the women that we can't see ourselves with: "I don't see this going anywhere... but, we're both fine af and i'd like to blow your back out!!!". lol So... No, I don't lose any respect for my FWBs.
With that being said... a man that truly likes you may fake the funk and pretend like he's down for a FWB, when in reality, he's hoping it will eventually turn into something more.
Thus, when you inevitably stop throwing it back... our feelings get hurt. (&i think that happens a lot.)
It depends.
As a man... I either like you, or I don't.
I know from the jump if I want you to be my girl or not.
Women don't 'grow' on me.
So, it's great and actually a lot stressful when we can be upfront with the women that we can't see ourselves with: "I don't see this going anywhere... but, we're both fine af and i'd like to blow your back out!!!". lol So... No, I don't lose any respect for my FWBs.
With that being said... a man that truly likes you may fake the funk and pretend like he's down for a FWB, when in reality, he's hoping it will eventually turn into something more.
–––Thus, when you inevitably stop throwing it back... our feelings get hurt. (&i think that happens a lot.)
It depends.
As a man... I either like you, or I don't.
I know from the jump if I want you to be my girl or not.
Women don't 'grow' on me.
So, it's great and actually a lot *less* stressful when we can be upfront with the women that we can't see ourselves with: "I don't see this going anywhere... but, we're both fine af and i'd like to blow your back out!!!". lol So... No, I don't lose any respect for my FWBs.
With that being said... a man that truly likes you may fake the funk and pretend like he's down for a FWB, when in reality, he's hoping it will eventually turn into something more.
Thus, when you inevitably stop throwing it back... our feelings get hurt. (&i think that happens a lot.)
Do men then less of a woman that has agreed to xes without commitment? Do they lose respect for the woman, especially after the xes is over?What do you think?
at the end of the day as a fwb you are still not the chick they are trying to propose to or be committed with so you can't get caught up. you can't expect much. like if you need help with something even though they have been your fwb for a long time, you can't look for that man to help you. you also can't get mad when dude gets the chick that he really likes a present for v-day or xmas and you just keep getting the remains of the day dick.
so he might respect you enough to let you sleep over some nights. but he still doesn't respect you enough to tell his friends about you.
so he might respect you enough to call you every now and then rather than text. however, he still doesn't respect you enough to call you before 9 on the weekday or automatically return your text.
you also can't get mad when dude gets the chick that he really likes a present for v-day or xmas and you just keep getting the remains of the day dick.
Exactly. I don't understand why these b!tches love painting a FWB situation as a one way street. Both parties are getting something out of it.Why does what he feels or thinks matter ? b!tch , shut up all that hollering and buss a nut :highly_amused: ! This is why FWB arrangements are not for all women.