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Do you get mad at or jealous of women that you catch your man checking out in public?

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I ask because there are chicks who give other women the STANKEST look when their man looks at other women. Like girl, check your man because that woman is literally minding her business. She's also not the one who took weeding vows or made any promises to you. If your man looks at other women who are just shopping or with their kid, why are you mad at those women but not your mans? Chile...
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I will NEVER date a man that does this. Men like this have No respect for their girlfriends and are extremely thirsty and desperate.

It screams a man that has no self control, no respect for women in general and doesn’t actually get laid.

Men that actually get women don’t do this. It’s weirdos who don’t even deserve to have a girl, that act like this.
 

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I wouldn't be mad at the girl, she can't help that she's pretty but I'd be annoyed at my SO because of the disrespect
 

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I think it's some kind of primal instinct some of them have. I notice they check themselves quickly and dart away after a quick glance because they caught themselves. But I also notice some who set in on their gaze far too long while their girlfriend is next to them.
 

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My boyfriend has never checked out a woman in my presence, I know that's a trope but that's crazy disrespectful. I couldn't be with a guy like that lol

Men who do sh!t like that seem like desperate lames.
 

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My ex use to do this and I felt so disrespected. If you want to look be discreet about it and have some damn self control. You don't have to stare like you've never seen ass before.

I think it is disrespectful and I can't tolerate it but sh!t, I be looking too.
 

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I will NEVER date a man that does this. Men like this have No respect for their girlfriends and are extremely thirsty and desperate.

It screams a man that has no self control, no respect for women in general and doesn’t actually get laid.

Men that actually get women don’t do this. It’s weirdos who don’t even deserve to have a girl, that act like this.
Same. It's not something we just have to resign ourselves to, as much as some men and women like to make it seem.

It can go both ways too, very easily.
 

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Nope cause if its a pretty woman 9/10 I noticed her too. Looking is one thing but don't be all over the top with it.
 

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I hate when a niggaa breaks his neck to look. I've seen my BD eye women as we're driving or out somewhere. I peep it, roll my eyes, but don't say anything. I ain't worried about what he does anymore. He can do him, because I'm doing me.
 

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I hate when a niggaa breaks his neck to look. I've seen my BD eye women as we're driving or out somewhere. I peep it, roll my eyes, but don't say anything. I ain't worried about what he does anymore. He can do him, because I'm doing me.
Aww sweetie. I was in the same position before. You deserve better.
 

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I ask because there are chicks who give other women the STANKEST look when their man looks at other women. Like girl, check your man because that woman is literally minding her business. She's also not the one who took weeding vows or made any promises to you. If your man looks at other women who are just shopping or with their kid, why are you mad at those women but not your mans? Chile...
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i've never caught my husband scoping out other women. ever. if he notices, he does a great job of acting like all other women but me are invisible lol
ironically, i've recently experienced being on the receiving end of stankness and jealousy from another married woman mad that her husband seemed to prefer talking to me rather than her. i aint lookin at ya man, becky. i have my own. trust!
 

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My ex used to do that all the time. I can understand a quick glance.,but he was doing too much.


That's why I was forced to cheat on him :cry:
 

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No. I don’t pay attention to where he’s looking when we go out tbh. Part of me doesn’t care and the other half just doesn’t think about it. Safe to say if I haven’t noticed it by now if he is looking then he’s not over doing it.

I have an associate like this and she does nothing about it. She may pick a argument with her man about it but in the end does nothing. & he’s out here screwing everything that moves. Hard to feel bad for her
 

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I will NEVER date a man that does this. Men like this have No respect for their girlfriends and are extremely thirsty and desperate.

It screams a man that has no self control, no respect for women in general and doesn’t actually get laid.

Men that actually get women don’t do this. It’s weirdos who don’t even deserve to have a girl, that act like this.
My first ex did this to me a few times and it was embarrassing as hell! When I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, he said "hey I can look but can't touch"... He was/is a POS, and as I later came to realize, has always been a loser like that and will forever be one! (And I was ofc a fool for entertaining him longer than I ever should have, smh.) :beauty
 
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If my husband does it I honestly can't tell. One time my husband and I were in the car at some stop lights, when this girl with no bra and big boobies passed by. When she passed I looks at my husband and was like "did u see that! She's not wearing any bra!" He kept his head straight with his dark shades on and said to me "My head and eyes were straight!" While trying real hard not to laugh. I laughed cause honestly it was hilarious.
 

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I ask because there are chicks who give other women the STANKEST look when their man looks at other women. Like girl, check your man because that woman is literally minding her business. She's also not the one who took weeding vows or made any promises to you. If your man looks at other women who are just shopping or with their kid, why are you mad at those women but not your mans? Chile...
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What did the girl he was checking out do? Only disrespectful thirsty men do this ..
 

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Nope cause if its a pretty woman 9/10 I noticed her too. Looking is one thing but don't be all over the top with it.
Ngl, if the woman is pretty or even beautiful, I'd be shyly staring from the distance too. But oogling is weird and I wouldn't do that.
 

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I hate when married men do this their wives be ready to kill me. But no I haven’t experienced if it happened a knee jerk quick glance wouldn’t bother me tbh, I look at other ppl that are well dressed, pretty, or carry themselves well. So I understand what it means to be intrigued. But if someone I’m with is ogling somebody I’m leaving.
 

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Everyone is going to say "no I dont get angry at the woman" because that is the popular thing to say on this thread but in reality too many of yall get angry at the woman in the defense of these dusty ass men that most likely couldn't even pull her anyway.
 
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Everyone is going to say "no I dont get angry at the woman" because that is the popular thing to say on this thread but in reality too many of yall get angry at the woman in the defense of these dusty ass men that most likely couldn't even pull that woman.
Exactly! Now that you say it, I love the responses in this thread HOWEVER: only one font answered the question in the OP :disdain
 

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I do not want to see any of the fonts who defend men liking pics on IG in here singing a different tune. He's not touching them, remember? Just looking because he has eyes.
 

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Idc anymore. I used to make a scene years ago. One time my man threatened to call the police on me because I was beating him up in public.
 

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I wouldn’t get upset because I tend to look too. If I see a very pretty woman, I’ll sneak a look but no stare.
 

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nope, i don't get jealous. i'm secure.
my man isn't thirsty, so it's not a problem. also, if a girl is attractive or has a nice body, i've probably already commented (positively) on her lol. i appreciate beauty
 

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I don’t get mad at her mainly because she’s not paying HIM attention anyways. If she was eyeballing him and he was doing the same I’d have a problem. He is the common denominator here. I’d have an issue with him if his staring lingered longer than it needed to. However I’d had issues with women claiming I wanted their man in the past when I was around and I wasn’t even paying either one attention. They can check their man and themselves at the door with all that.
 

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i wouldnt date a man who does this sh!t tf
i dont check out men either so...my bf doesnt do that
 

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Not at all. My man and I both appreciate a beautiful woman or body. When we are out he will be like damn she got a fat ass or whatever and I'll look and vice versa. I mean it's prettier ladies than me out there why would I be mad at my guy looking if he ain't blind. Now if he was gawking and staring causing a scene then yea its a problem. But hell look and be on his way

I'm very secure in my relationship. Hell he be telling me storied of ladies tryna hit on him and I be clowning. My boo ain't thinking about no one else but my silly ass
 

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My ex used to get really, really angry about this. I didn't see it at the time but maybe I was overdoing it...

There's nothing wrong with a glance. Ogling someone is an issue, I still think it's overblown if that man or woman isn't actually trying to pursue that person or anyone else. But yeah you can limit your notice of an attractive woman to a quick glance rather than a staredown...
 

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If any guy I’ve dated has done this, I’ve never noticed it, but that’s probably why I have been called oblivious all my life lol. I do feel like if a man is that obvious with looking at other women while his gf is around, he lacks self-control and is disrespectful. Attractive people don’t disappear because you’re in a relationship, but doing the most to look at them, staring at them or saying “he’s/ she’s fine” in your mate’s presence is rude af.
 

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I'm not in a relationship but I think I'd feel sad and get insecure. I wouldn't be mad or jealous.

I've been on the receiving end and didn't even notice her man was checking me out until she gave the stank look.
 

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My ex used to do that all the time. I can understand a quick glance.,but he was doing too much.


That's why I was forced to cheat on him :cry:
I'm so weaaaakk @ forced cuz I'm sure it didn't take much force if you had to stoop to that level I know thats right
 

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Honestly I used to date this guy who used to dramatically gaze at other women. I was tall & slim at the time so u had my own minor insecurities but he was extremely disrespectful about it. I never got mad at the girls he was looking at I always pressed him about it & then gaslighting would ensue. All in all I say I would not feel some type of way for the women but mostly my man cuz wth??
 

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No...I literally will point them out to him. A waitress the other night had her ass all out and I was like "damn look at her ass bae" lolll. IDC cuz at the end of the day he chose me.
 

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