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Do you regret ghosting a person who wanted to be with you?

Do you regret ghosting someone?

  • Yes

    Votes: 26 32.1%
  • No

    Votes: 55 67.9%

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Lucy95

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I ghosted some guys when I was college and now they don’t want nothing to do with me. I don’t blame them but it was not the right time for me
 
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No ma’am. If I ghost, it’s done for a reason.

You know you better than anyone else. If something is telling you that’s something ain’t right, trust your gut.
 

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Nope!

I made it perfectly clear countless times my soulmate is dead and it is what it is.

It's not a game,It's not a joke, it's reality and people will deal just like I do.
 

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Never. If you’re missing them or mulling over past relationships you may be in a rut or feeling a bit low.
 

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Nope, never. For the most part, when I ghost it’s because they were on some fµck sh!t.

But I have been known to ghost when I’m trying to date multiple men (not having xes) and I find my favorite and stop talking to the others.
 

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Never can regret a decision like this. if I don't want to be with them, there's a very good reason.
 

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I always think I regret it, then I admit that I'm actually just feeling sad or lonely. Trust your gut, even when you're busy you wouldn't ghost or pass up an option you truly valued.
 

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No, because I'm really in a vain relationship with myself
 

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Nope, anyone I ghosted was for a damned good reason. The last guy I ghosted I was actually into, but after we were together physically for the first time he became possessive, demanding and attempted to be controlling.

I don't believe in ghosting people just because you don't want to talk to them anymore. They have to do something toxic to deserve it. If the person is decent and chemistry or timing isn't right, or they just aren't a good match for some other reason I break it off without ghosting as if they've done something wrong.
 

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Yes I regret it. This guy had almost everything I wanted in a man, attractive, funny, nice, great personality, great job, etc. I just found him a little too sensitive so I let him go. I haven’t met any guy as good as him, that actually cared about me since.
 

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Regret is a big word, but I could have just told them I wasn't feeling it because they were genuinely nice guys.

I wish them nothing but the best.
 

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Not necessarily ghost but I cut off someone who was genuinely nice, we had good conversations and mutual attraction but I was still hung up over my ex. Sometimes I wish that I could reverse time and take it back but I just have to take the L, lol.
 

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Absolutely not. I follow my gut.

I also don’t believe I’m ghosting without good reason.

So if it got to the point where I had to ghost you, chances are you already know the reason why.
 

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Only the guys who liked me in Elementary school.Who loved me purely and with no bad intent. But I wasnt ready.
 

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Really only one. And I can’t say I regret it I just am curious to see how it would have turned out.
 

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Men are way more likely to regret ghosting than women are. Any guy who's been single a long time can probably name at least a few women he regrets ghosting. Ive never met a woman who regrets it. When women are done with a dude they're done.
 

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No because they were using manipulation to get me into a relationship.So they intentionally underestimate my capacities to understand what was going on.Even if the person likes you I cannot accept that.
 

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No, because he ended up being a delusional stalker who harasses any man he thinks I'm friends with, he even joined LSA just so that he could argue with me because it makes his dick hard.
He said if he can't have my love then he will gladly accept my hate, but I don't hate him EVEN THOUGH I SHOULD, I just want him to move on and be both happy and blessed..

That is all..
 

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Gosh no! Then again I don’t ghost. I’ll let a man know exactly why I’m not gracing him with my presence any longer if it comes to that. But men filter themselves out if you are quality and they are sorry.
 

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No, because he ended up being a delusional stalker who harasses any man he thinks I'm friends with, he even joined LSA just so that he could argue with me because it makes his dick hard.
He said if he can't have my love then he will gladly accept my hate, but I don't hate him EVEN THOUGH I SHOULD, I just want him to move on and be both happy and blessed..

That is all..
Chile, what his font name?
 

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No because they were using manipulation to get me into a relationship.So they intentionally underestimate my capacities to understand what was going on.Even if the person likes you I cannot accept that.

I have witnessed this type of manipulation, and it makes absolutely no sense to me..

Ridiculousness!

Kudo's to you for catching on..
 

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Chile, what his font name?

He changes his font name's, he has several, he'd get pissed and use to lock me out of threads so I couldn't/can't respond back.

ETA: I'll send it to you
 
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No, because he ended up being a delusional stalker who harasses any man he thinks I'm friends with, he even joined LSA just so that he could argue with me because it makes his dick hard.
He said if he can't have my love then he will gladly accept my hate, but I don't hate him EVEN THOUGH I SHOULD, I just want him to move on and be both happy and blessed..

That is all..
This guy is very insecure and it’s can be dangerous.
 

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This guy is very insecure and it’s can be dangerous.

I sent you something, and yes I know he admitted he was insecure. He has zero problems telling me how he feels. Even though he and I NEVER really dated, and I'm married now.

He get's jealous if I even chat with other men and even harasses them, he feels cheated on. He tells me that he loves me, but he doesn't really know me..

Craziness..
 

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I sent you something, and yes I know he admitted he was insecure. He has zero problems telling me how he feels. Even though he and I NEVER really dated, and I'm married now.

He get's jealous if I even chat with other men and even harasses them, he feels cheated on. He tells me that he loves me, but he doesn't really know me..

Craziness..
Unfortunately they are a lot of men like this. Every women need to stop giving these men their positive energy and time.
And that’s not love but obsession. Kids usually act like this when they lose something . So immature...
 

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Unfortunately they are a lot of men like this. Every women need to stop giving these men their positive energy and time.
And that’s not love but obsession. Kids usually act like this when they lose something . So immature...

ITA!

It's sad, because I was always positive, nice and respectful towards this guy. I saw red flags then kindly let him know that I no longer wanted to be friends, he didn't want to accept that, so I ghosted him which set him completely off..

Ridiculousness..
 

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No, because he ended up being a delusional stalker who harasses any man he thinks I'm friends with, he even joined LSA just so that he could argue with me because it makes his dick hard.
He said if he can't have my love then he will gladly accept my hate, but I don't hate him EVEN THOUGH I SHOULD, I just want him to move on and be both happy and blessed..

That is all..
Where the hell is the shocked emoji? Cause honey that man is just smh. You have my empathy.
 

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