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Do you want children? why?

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Yes


As we speak I am working on creating a legacy for my children.


I am thinking of generational wealth.
 

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Yes I would love to have kids with my partner. I want her to carry if not I'm super down with adopting too..
 

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I’m on the fence. It used to be a no-brainer and I had baby fever just a few years ago, but as I get older (30 now), the true gravity of being a mother gives me pause. If you’re doing it right, your life isn’t really your own anymore. Every move you make ain’t for you anymore. Someone else is dependent on you in so many ways for the rest of your life probably, not just 18 years.

I get exhausted just thinking about it. My set up would have to be ideal. Married and able to stay home comfortably. Otherwise, I don’t see the point.
 

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Still unsure...

I love my body so I don’t want it to be messed up after kids lol...

I’m pretty vain
 

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I used to want a lot of kids (like 6) when I was young and as I’ve gotten older it’s went done by one every year. No lie the movie Bird Box really woke my ass up. Like I gotta take car of and tote these buggers with me everywhere at a time like this?!? No thanks.



Maybe 1 tho.
 

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I worry about the climate crisis and if it’s even ethical to bring another person into that. I worry a lot and love my family dearly, a kid? I would probably drive myself crazy worrying about them and their future.

As of right now, I do not want kids. I have myself to work on and worry about. Life to enjoy, independently.
 

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I think that I would be a good mother, and I want my values to be instilled in another person and live on after I'm gone.

However, I'm not having children until I'm in my mid thirties, and I will never have children unless I am married.
 

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The thought of a little human being dependent on me is crazy. So probably not.
 

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I'm 26 and I want children; I want em to pass my legacy onto the next generation.
 

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No. I would never want to bring another life into the world of my own choice.

I don't want to adopt or foster, either. In order for a child to be properly raised, loved, and cared for, it takes way too many resources than I'm willing to dedicate.
 

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Yes I do want a child and plan to ttc in 2022.

I am an only child. . When my parents and husband pass I will feel so sad and alone as I am closest to these three people in my life. I know people keep saying kids sometimes don't visit their parents regularly. I don't care if they move abroad. I want my future son/daughter to live their life. As long as they are there and I know I have company in the world then I will feel good in old age.

I look forward to raising a child who calls me mummy :heart:
 
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No. The whole pregnancy thing doesn't attract me and I'm scared. I've heard some horror stories and wow...
I WOULD like to adopt though.

I’m pregnant right now and very much so scared so I totally understand you. There’s so many possible risks and complications, but there’s also beauty in it. I try and think positive <3.
 

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No. The whole pregnancy thing doesn't attract me and I'm scared. I've heard some horror stories and wow...
I WOULD like to adopt though.

I’m pregnant right now and very much so scared so I totally understand you. It’s so much possible risks and complications, but there’s also beauty in it. I try and think positive <3.
Wishing you a safe pregnancy!

thank you love
 

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