Does any one else follow hayet rida ?

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Hayet has gotten to be too much. The constant demands and "boundaries" on her followers is exhausting. People can't ask where she buys things etc. Shoot, followers can't even give compliments unless it's delivered a certain way. Filtering through her trauma and mental health issues to consume fashion and lifestyle content just ain't worth it for me. Her efforts at weight loss with the help of surgery has taken an emotional toll. She should consider a real time out from social media.

Is there Tea embedded here?? Did she pull a GarnerStyle and get VSG or whatever? It’s a good guess since her portion sizes are very small.

I assume Ms Thang does sensible Keto and works out. Workouts and low carb works and I hope the new lifestyle brings health.

I’m very glad I missed the Skims post. Collarbones are enough, I do not want to see any more bare asses on IG.
 
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It's possible she had surgery, she's lost a good amount of weight in the last year. But she doesn't have the typical VSG scars (if I remember correctly though, neither did GarnerStyle even though she definitely had surgery). Hmmm...
 
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Is there Tea embedded here?? Did she pull a GarnerStyle and get VSG or whatever? It’s a good guess since her portion sizes are very small.

I assume Ms Thang does sensible Keto and works out. Workouts and low carb works and I hope the new lifestyle brings health.

I’m very glad I missed the Skims post. Collarbones are enough, I do not want to see any more bare asses on IG.

Someone asked a week or two what she did to lose weight and she said “surgery, eating disorder rehab....” and some other stuff I can’t remember. She said she wouldn’t recommend for others. At a point she was eating three wings and like ten frozen grapes as a meal then posted an apology for how it could be a trigger for those with ED. In general, acts not 32 years old
 
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Is there Tea embedded here?? Did she pull a GarnerStyle and get VSG or whatever? It’s a good guess since her portion sizes are very small.

I assume Ms Thang does sensible Keto and works out. Workouts and low carb works and I hope the new lifestyle brings health.

I’m very glad I missed the Skims post. Collarbones are enough, I do not want to see any more bare asses on IG.
 
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Sis made a whole Dove style campaign, named her front curl, and everything. Now she’s scared of her own reflection sans wig.

Was the natural hair lane not gonna be lucrative enough for her? I couldn’t imagine being on social media telling anybody that’ll listen that I hate myself.

chile.

 
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Sis made a whole Dove style campaign, named her front curl, and everything. Now she’s scared of her own reflection sans wig.

Was the natural hair lane not gonna be lucrative enough for her? I couldn’t imagine being on social media telling anybody that’ll listen that I hate myself.

chile.

Smh yes! She has some serious issues. I hope she is talking about this with her therapist!
 
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said I was gone but I still lurk. Here’s that epic read. I thought what she did to that girl was straight up bullying. I’m not negating her hurt feelings. However she has but a large following and therefore there’s a power dynamic being introduced. As a FB employee she should really know better and I wonder what their policy is on Social View attachment 2267550 View attachment 2267550 media bullying. Not that I care enough to report her, but that was very mean.
“You’re very faux smart” has me gagging. She deserved tf out of that shit.
 
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Hayet has gotten to be too much. The constant demands and "boundaries" on her followers is exhausting. People can't ask where she buys things etc. Shoot, followers can't even give compliments unless it's delivered a certain way. Filtering through her trauma and mental health issues to consume fashion and lifestyle content just ain't worth it for me. Her efforts at weight loss with the help of surgery has taken an emotional toll. She should consider a real time out from social media.
Wait hold on which surgery did she do? Is she pulling a Garner Style?
 
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Rich Aunty can definitely afford to get better fitting and flattering undergarments. She says we deceive luxury....that should include properly fitting undergarments, not candles. Your undergarments can make or break an outfit. More that that it should do it’s job and hold things in. This “up a notch” vals shoot is a no.
 
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I started following her because I liked the way she decorated her place, but I quickly unfollowed when the rich aunty vibe got annoying. Also, her Ghana stories were so irritating. We get it, your family apparently has money. It was just in bad taste. The whole tone/vibe of her brand became off-putting fast.
 
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This thread barely 3 pages and she so sick she won’t post on her stories and engage anymore smh. I know she’s still healing from grief but she has not been herself lately, I can tell she trying to fake it and push through. This thread isn’t bad at all toughen up.

About them over priced “luxury” candles. Anyone else find it strange there is no mention or reposts of them after the initial unboxing? No one is begging her drop more? The campaign and visuals for it was great but I knew the quality was going to be iffy. When people asked her to give the notes of the candle and how many hrs it burned a week before it dropped she said she didn’t know. That told me she didn’t even test the candle enough she just wanted a cash grab with pretty packaging for branding aesthetics.
 
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Is there a Luxury Candle scheme that I need to be aware of? Why’s everyone pivoting to candles lately? Hayet and Jackie Aina stand out to me. Like of all things, you went all out to pivot candles? When you’re known for beauty?
Does that feel weird to anyone else?
 
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Is there a Luxury Candle scheme that I need to be aware of? Why’s everyone pivoting to candles lately? Hayet and Jackie Aina stand out to me. Like of all things, you went all out to pivot candles? When you’re known for beauty?
Does that feel weird to anyone else?

Inexpensive start up costs
With the whole ‘black woman - self care’ movement it’s seems a candle fits that motif
 
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This thread barely 3 pages and she so sick she won’t post on her stories and engage anymore smh. I know she’s still healing from grief but she has not been herself lately, I can tell she trying to fake it and push through. This thread isn’t bad at all toughen up.
I peeped this as well and I'm kinda glad that she took it down a notch. She was doing too much and had gone from benignly annoying to downright irritating in a very short amount of time. The less time she spends on social media, hopefully the more time she can spend healing and working through her deeply rooted emotional issues.
 
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Whew. Sis went in and I do not blame her one bit. Ironically, Hayet has gotten worse since this was written!

Just came across this thread. Honestly with Hayet, it is a love hate relationship. I love her hustle culture and how she gets things done.

but sometimes her tone. Tsk tsk . I am even scared to comment on her posts or engage when I like something, before I am told I didn’t say please or express myself in a particular way. I honestly wish her all the best . But sis has a lot of growing up to do.

what happened between her and Jesse though ?
 
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Just came across this thread. Honestly with Hayet, it is a love hate relationship. I love her hustle culture and how she gets things done.

but sometimes her tone. Tsk tsk . I am even scared to comment on her posts or engage when I like something, before I am told I didn’t say please or express myself in a particular way. I honestly wish her all the best . But sis has a lot of growing up to do.

what happened between her and Jesse though ?
He cheated and the person (I believe was her follower) reached out to her to inform her.
 
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He cheated and the person (I believe was her follower) reached out to her to inform her.
Not for nothing but I was pretty surprised when that happened. He seemed like a stand up guy and they’d recently gone to Ghana together. When she had surgery, he was by her side for the whole thing.

I do remember her going overboard for one of his birthdays and thinking that I hoped it worked out because she was doing a whole lot. Then it was over...and so began her weight loss journey and “boundaries” nonsense.
 
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Dude's had the same follower count for damn near a year. She put him on and he fumbled it, now he's doing some podcast with his bros or whatever.
Thanks he looks like a F boy and Hyat before the weight loss doesn’t seem like she would be his type. He was probably using her from jump and got caught too early before he could really benefit from the relationship which is good for Hyat.
 
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He cheated and the person (I believe was her follower) reached out to her to inform her.
A Jamaican man cheating. Surprise surprise. When she did that Disney princess photo shoot with him for valentine’s day that year I knew she’d been scammed and was in too deep. Naming the dog “Kingston” and all of that... She was def doing too much where that r/ship was concerned. It’s unfortunate.
 

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