itsmianya
Guyanese Princess
i feel the same way. I'm grossed out by the thought of having casual xes like this.So I never could get into the mindset of hooking up with a stranger. Maybe I’ve been watching too much I.D channel but the thought of meeting a stranger at a bar or going on tinder for a one night stand sounds frightening. I feel like a woman does not know what that stranger man is capable of. He could beat, rape, remove the condom without your consent, lock you up in his basement for 25 years, or murder you. I had a friend who hooked up with a stranger once and he treated her poorly afterwards for no damn reason. After they were done, he threw a towel at her and demanded she leave.
Actually this goes for men too.
Back in December a man was killed by his Grindr date. The killer hung him upside down and cut off his scrotum then killed him, his name was Karl bacon. I knew a guy who would invite women from tinder to his place and he was robbed twice. Years ago there was a story on Fox News which described a man meeting a woman off of the internet and meeting at a hotel. Well when he walked into the room, there were men hiding and waiting on him. They raped and robbed him. Whenever I see my friends hookup with strangers, I can’t help but think they are bold. I’ve lost count of how many men from bumble gave me their address after a few of talking.
Am I the only person who thinks this way?
The possible diseases and the dangerousness associated with it is a huge turn off for me. I do not knock those who engage in that but can't be me
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