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True or nah? I wanted to buy my bae a pair of kicks and my friends were like fµck nahhh! You want them to walk out of your life? 😰 . sh!t. Well can I get bae a gift card to the shoe store?


Do you believe if you buy shoes for a person ...they can walk out? How about if you help with car payments ..are they going to drive out your life too? 😥


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I don't spend excess amount of money on guys. cars, shoes, etc hell naw. especially cars. you crazy? i haven't even bought my mama a car yet.

They can spend that money on ME tho.
 

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True or nah? I wanted to buy my bae a pair of kicks and my friends were like fµck nahhh! You want them to walk out of your life? �� . sh!t. Well can I get bae a gift card to the shoe store?


Do you believe if you buy shoes for a person ...they can walk out? How about if you help with car payments ..are they going to drive out your life too? ��


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7 years of shoe buying and we still together. Buy your Bae some shoes before he walks to somebody who will.
 

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I've never heard of that before. Does it apply to married couples too? Cuz my mama has been buying my daddy shoes for a while now and he hasn't walked out on her....not that he hasn't had women throwing themselves at him.
 

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Whoever I'm with is the provider..don't get me wrong..but I like gifting my bae..just like they gift me. [emoji39]


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Yes and don't buy him a watch either because you are putting a time limit on your relationship.

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Lol. So does that mean if we want they ass to leave and they won't go we should buy them sneakers? No shade, no no.

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And don't fix him up, you getting him pretty for the next woman.

My mother's superstition game was tight
 

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Kids did that when I was in middle school and high school. I doubt they are still together. They weer young too.
 

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Don't buy him a pacemaker either if he needs one. You should be the ONLY thing in his heart. :laugh:
 

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Lol. So does that mean if we want they ass to leave and they won't go we should buy them sneakers? No shade, no no.

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Yes it's true I buy my baby father some sneakers from the mall & 2 month later we end a 8 year relationship best blessing ever for me because he was no good & I'm happy with out him in my life, so if you want your guy out your life go for it
 

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And don't fix him up, you getting him pretty for the next woman.

My mother's superstition game was tight
If only i would have abided by these rules...smh oh well lol
 

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All relationships aren’t meant to last. People look for the slightest reason why their relationship didn’t last. Nobody left because of shoes, a watch, or a tattoo.
 

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My grandma (mom's) always said that. Never buy a man shoes, he'll use them to leave you.

I'm not superstitious but I've never brought a man a pair of shoes.
 

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I ve heard both old wives tales dont buy the shoes he'll walk out of yor life, dont buy a watch time will fly on your relationship, I recommend shoes for my husband of 9 yrs but never have bought him a pair, I've bought several watches though.
 

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I think this is true but they could always come back...
 
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The older women in my family have said this
for as long as I’ve been alive...Never put your purse on the floor ( bc you’ll lose money if you do)

*dont let a bird make a nest using your hair ( or you’ll be striken with headaches.) This basically boiled down to this: after cleaning your combs/brushes, not putting the hair in the trash. Because the trash could end up being scavenged by a bird & used to build its nest-and now you’ve got chronic headaches. And this was why we had to flush our old hair down the commode during my entire childhood as opposed to putting it in the trash. Or vey, the plumbing problems this superstition created.
 

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Yes and it's figurative. If you pay a man's way. Pay for his foundation FOR him, as soon as he improves and is up on his feet, he will resent you for it and cheat/leave. This is why you cannot buy a man. This is why you cannot rescue a struggling man and clean him up...he won't stay with you. It's against a man's nature to be cleaned up and taken care of financially by a woman. Let men build on their own, let them pay their own clean up bills.

Dudes will resent the hell out of you for giving them everything they claim they want. Don't listen to it!
 

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