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First they included the ex Zinhle in the video montage...




Was her father in denial and blamed drugs not mental health issues...










Kiernan is going through it.

 

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Drugs, alcohol and depression can coexist, what kind of statement is that? Poor woman probably never got the support she needed from family
 

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I’m assuming her autopsy revealed some things. AKA is known for doing drugs so why he even agreed to marry her off (so young at that) confuses me.

even if she was deliriously high when she jumped, is that not suicide? His whole response is troubling honestly. He could’ve said less if this was gonna be what he said.
 

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I think the cause of her death should not even be the focus at her funeral. Why is it being discussed like this?

Celebrate her life and remember the positive. Inadvertently blaming her or others at her funeral is just gross.
 

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I’m trying to think of a plausible context whereby Zinhle is on the slideshow, but I’m coming up with nothing. Whose idea was that mess?
 

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When I heard, I was so sad... I felt triggered even... some fonts will remember that I didn't even know she existed and was with AKA until a while ago. I felt so sad for her, that she was in a space like that she would even take her own life. And she was so young, we're the same age which made it that more painful. Yoh, I couldn't even say anything.

People were on some, why would you take your life when you don't have to worry about money? People are still people at the end of the day and bathi she was depressed. Depression doesn't have a class or income level. Hugs to her and her loved ones.

Ai I can't with this world anymore, so much sadness and pain and it just goes on and on, stealing your joy. I'm so jaded.
 

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Also, is it not alleged that she tried to do the same thing last year? How is that not being suicidal? All things can be true, as another font pointed out. Suicide is not an easy thing to navigate (understatement of the year) but you cannot ignore the effects of struggling with mental health issues like depression and suicidal ideation... for all we know she could have been suicidal her whole life and using to mask/numb the pain. He just sounds out of touch with her emotions and in denial.

Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think drugs and alcohol can make you suicidal if you aren't already.
 

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The girl tried to jump off a building less than a year ago. They should just focus on the funeral. And the ex thing is weird, like how could that mistake be made.
 

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I’m trying to think of a plausible context whereby Zinhle is on the slideshow, but I’m coming up with nothing. Whose idea was that mess?
Apparently if you Google Nelli, Zinhle comes up. But it's far far down. It seems messy from me.

NTZ.jpg
 

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Maybe he is using it as a cautionary tale that drugs are robbing the youth of life or are not the answer. He knew better the life they lived together. He also was cautioning AKA to change his ways.




Also the daughter he knew is not one the public can only speculate on.






Drugs, alcohol and depression can coexist, what kind of statement is that? Poor woman probably never got the support she needed from family

I’m assuming her autopsy revealed some things. AKA is known for doing drugs so why he even agreed to marry her off (so young at that) confuses me.

even if she was deliriously high when she jumped, is that not suicide? His whole response is troubling honestly. He could’ve said less if this was gonna be what he said.
 

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Also I'm concerned with all the parent bashing as if you've never been 21 and full of your own arrogance. What could a parent do or say to stop Nelli dating and following AKA around?

 

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I speak my thoughts later, cos respectfully it will be distasteful to say my thoughts now when her body is not even cokd on ground yet.

I have excellent intuition and discernment and they are never wrong. I will tell what instantly i felt in my heart when i heard of her death.

That's my believe and im sticking to it and will speak on it later
 
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The Zinhle pic just doesn't make any sense to me...

Her dad like the tweeter said probably just saw what was presented to him, he also has more information and was her father. But suicide is such a shameful thing in our culture, there is so much stigma attached to it, whether you're Christian or not. And from seeing in real life, our elders will sometimes deny mental health issues, sweep it under the rug and not deal with it properly. And yeah, you can be suicidal and taking drugs at the same time.
 

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