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You lost me at "hairstyles". How many he got?
Right! Is he gay???
You lost me at "hairstyles". How many he got?
*ourOP girl don’t do it. If your little hot pocket is going off like that you need to look elsewhere!
1. He’s married.
2. Never sh!t wear you eat.
I once had relations with a coworker, not married, we were both single. Dick was great until he started following me around the office like a lost puppy and making it obvious to are coworkers we were fµck!ng. I had cut him off and from then you could feel the resentment coming from him which made work a little uncomfortable.
I eventually got fired. Wasn’t communicating with him before it happened and didn’t care to keep communication after. He would hit me up here and there until eventually he stopped.
Nothing worse than having to see the man you’re fµck!ng (and worse when y’all stop fµck!ng) M-F for 40 hours a week. Don’t do it.
probably florida or georgia
eta : or Texas
End of thread. And her anxiety is bad because she knows she's wrong.Why y’all so f*cking dumb? Instead of trying to figure out why your self-esteem is so f*cking low that you would sleep with a married man, you run on here claiming “anxiety” and start boohoo crine like you’re not going to get dragged. Get yourself the f*ck together before you come here talmbout some women’s man, with your masochistic self. God
So you are self aware enough to know this is wrong..dont sh!t where you eat ...thats all I gotI started a new job, and the person I've been training with is my type in almost every way. Physically, personality, even the way he dresses and his hairstyles. I've even been reading articles on how to stop crushing on a married man. I can't sit here and say "oh I would never act on it" because I honestly don't know. I can say I wouldn't pursue him or flirt because I don't do that anyway, but if the opportunity ever presented itself, I probably wouldn't fight it. Anyway, I don't necessarily think he would go for me anyways so that's good. But when all that desire builds up and knowing nothing will come of it...is giving me anxiety. It's making me sick. How do I cleanse myself of this? He probably knows.
I started a new job, and the person I've been training with is my type in almost every way. Physically, personality, even the way he dresses and his hairstyles. I've even been reading articles on how to stop crushing on a married man. I can't sit here and say "oh I would never act on it" because I honestly don't know. I can say I wouldn't pursue him or flirt because I don't do that anyway, but if the opportunity ever presented itself, I probably wouldn't fight it. Anyway, I don't necessarily think he would go for me anyways so that's good. But when all that desire builds up and knowing nothing will come of it...is giving me anxiety. It's making me sick. How do I cleanse myself of this? He probably knows.
Why y’all always bringing up GA in the negativityprobably florida or georgia
eta : or Texas
Lol if you’re from the DMV and this IT guy was darkskin, I think I know who you are. If not, just ignore me, I’m just being messy lmaooooIt’s just temptation and endorphins. I once started a new job and this married IT guy was very friendly and seeking me out at lunchtime. I found myself thinking about him and looking forward to seeing him. Then I got mad, like how dare he! We’re both married and this is NOT OK! Thinking he’s getting off on me talking to him at lunch. I started going to the park for lunch. He was then like - where you be at? I miss you. I started feeling annoyEd, like get AWAYfrom me! You’re not paying my bills. You just want a fan. Well, NOT ME BUSTER! Find somebody else!
ps. If you are single, it’s worse. Just ask yourself- is he paying my bills? No he’s paying his wife’s bills and you’re just a sucka!
I say his name unnecessarily (always "thank you, Josh" 100% of the time. instead of just "thanks"). Too much eye contact/gaze when we're speaking. If someone behaved the way I do to me I'd suspect they had a crush.What makes you think he knows?
It's usually just some variation of a slick back, like below. Not saying he resembles JG necessarily, but it's a similar "tall, dark-haired" aesthetic he's got going on.You lost me at "hairstyles". How many he got?
How about get off that married man's nutz. People will always be attractive and that's normal but you need to have boundaries.I started a new job, and the person I've been training with is my type in almost every way. Physically, personality, even the way he dresses and his hairstyles. I've even been reading articles on how to stop crushing on a married man. I can't sit here and say "oh I would never act on it" because I honestly don't know. I can say I wouldn't pursue him or flirt because I don't do that anyway, but if the opportunity ever presented itself, I probably wouldn't fight it. Anyway, I don't necessarily think he would go for me anyways so that's good. But when all that desire builds up and knowing nothing will come of it...is giving me anxiety. It's making me sick. How do I cleanse myself of this? He probably knows.
He is, but we’re not up there what is it with IT guys? They get around!Lol if you’re from the DMV and this IT guy was darkskin, I think I know who you are. If not, just ignore me, I’m just being messy lmaoooo
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It's usually just some variation of a slick back, like below. Not saying he resembles JG necessarily, but it's a similar "tall, dark-haired" aesthetic he's got going on.
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I started a new job, and the person I've been training with is my type in almost every way. Physically, personality, even the way he dresses and his hairstyles. I've even been reading articles on how to stop crushing on a married man. I can't sit here and say "oh I would never act on it" because I honestly don't know. I can say I wouldn't pursue him or flirt because I don't do that anyway, but if the opportunity ever presented itself, I probably wouldn't fight it. Anyway, I don't necessarily think he would go for me anyways so that's good. But when all that desire builds up and knowing nothing will come of it...is giving me anxiety. It's making me sick. How do I cleanse myself of this? He probably knows.
You need a COLD shower and a swift kick in the ass !!I started a new job, and the person I've been training with is my type in almost every way. Physically, personality, even the way he dresses and his hairstyles. I've even been reading articles on how to stop crushing on a married man. I can't sit here and say "oh I would never act on it" because I honestly don't know. I can say I wouldn't pursue him or flirt because I don't do that anyway, but if the opportunity ever presented itself, I probably wouldn't fight it. Anyway, I don't necessarily think he would go for me anyways so that's good. But when all that desire builds up and knowing nothing will come of it...is giving me anxiety. It's making me sick. How do I cleanse myself of this? He probably knows.
OP is just hormonal and probably never had a work place crush before. But it's derogatory and silly for you to say grown women don't act like that and infer she has a mental problem cause she a little too hype??Oh, he knows alright.
Just like the guy in the office that barely talks to you but you can tell he watches your every movement ... is a guy you can sense likes YOU.
And if this guy is obviously attractive,.. where you know most women around him must see this ... this kind of stuff happens to him every day. :/
I think we all recognize an attractive man when we see one - that's only being human... but the crushing on him and being preoccupied with him to the point of anxiety is something different. Adult women don't act like this. :/
And certainly, decent women with a strong sense of their own VALUE are not thinking that they don't honestly know what they would do if he made a pass at them. Duh! You know.. you would go for it. LOL!
If a married man thinks I'm attractive but does not come on to me etc. that would be normal because I see married men I think are attractive but I don't flirt etc with them either.
But if a married man made an outright move on me (and this has happened many times) I would take it as an insult because I know he just wants me for xes.
So all you would be is a 'piece' for him. Even if you DID get involved with him ... you would be dating a man that cheats on his wife. What kind of man is that?
I say - see a therapist to treat your anxiety from being around this man. It's not normal.
Norwegian pop artist Maria Mena just released an excellent 7-track project last fall titled "They Never Leave Their Wives" which you should totally listen to which describes her journey as the other woman. Ultimately, as she finds out in the projects closure:
"I guess you live and you learn
At that point it was my turn
But no man is worth losing yourself
Take it from me." - "You Live and Learn"