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Extremely attracted to a married man to the point of anxiety

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I honestly have no idea how some of you women do it. When I find out a guy I have a crush on is married or in a relationship, my coochie just dries up fast and the crush dies. Its like my eyes become opened and I start to see the flaws that I didn't see before.

Leave that man alone OP.
 

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I started a new job, and the person I've been training with is my type in almost every way. Physically, personality, even the way he dresses and his hairstyles. I've even been reading articles on how to stop crushing on a married man. I can't sit here and say "oh I would never act on it" because I honestly don't know. I can say I wouldn't pursue him or flirt because I don't do that anyway, but if the opportunity ever presented itself, I probably wouldn't fight it. Anyway, I don't necessarily think he would go for me anyways so that's good. But when all that desire builds up and knowing nothing will come of it...is giving me anxiety. It's making me sick. How do I cleanse myself of this? He probably knows.
Put this same energy into your mental health
 

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Limerence and loneliness, that's all it is. Don't screw up your livelihood over domesticated peen, OP.
 

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I say his name unnecessarily (always "thank you, Josh" 100% of the time. instead of just "thanks"). Too much eye contact/gaze when we're speaking. If someone behaved the way I do to me I'd suspect they had a crush.

The good thing is, I'll be done training after next week and no longer helping him with his work. So that should put some distance between us.

All of the fonts are right about me being lonely and horny.
It'll be over, soon. :) Hopefully, you'll find someone else who's single... outside of work.
 

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From what I’ve been told, in these types of situations the reality never lives up to the fantasy, so best to just fantasize.
 

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I say his name unnecessarily (always "thank you, Josh" 100% of the time. instead of just "thanks"). Too much eye contact/gaze when we're speaking. If someone behaved the way I do to me I'd suspect they had a crush.

The good thing is, I'll be done training after next week and no longer helping him with his work. So that should put some distance between us.

All of the fonts are right about me being lonely and horny.

Is he participating in battle of the “Joshes”?




 

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Oddly.... my friend is going through a similar situation. I’ve told her a dozen times that he’s up to no good. It wasn’t until she saw pictures of his real life wife and family, then she came back to her senses.

Anyway it’s just a crush girl. Be cordial and you can fantasize in private. You’ll be over it soon.
 

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I feel like attraction to married folk is an indication of attachment and abandonment issues. It goes for both single and married individuals as well.

It’s like y’all know deep down that person can never fully commit / offer you anything substantial outside of dick, but you desire them anyway.

You usually build them up in your head as this amazing, attractive person and create all this imaginary chemistry based SOLELY on your xesual/physical attraction to them. Then if y’all act on it you wind up disappointed and often hurt.

I have seen it happen with so so many friends and I’m just like why? Why subject yourself to that when it’s so many single people out there.
 

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Girl no, you fumbling the bag and his peen may be small and not worth it. Just think if you were his wife and someone was obsessed over your husband?
 

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Having an innocent crush is normal, but if you find yourself regularly being attracted to emotionally unavailable/spoken for men, that speaks to a deeper issue that needs to be addressed and worked on
 

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I feel like attraction to married folk is an indication of attachment and abandonment issues. It goes for both single and married individuals as well.

It’s like y’all know deep down that person can never fully commit / offer you anything substantial outside of dick, but you desire them anyway.

You usually build them up in your head as this amazing, attractive person and create all this imaginary chemistry based SOLELY on your xesual/physical attraction to them. Then if y’all act on it you wind up disappointed and often hurt.

I have seen it happen with so so many friends and I’m just like why? Why subject yourself to that when it’s so many single people out there.
This is very insightful, thank you.

Having an innocent crush is normal, but if you find yourself regularly being attracted to emotionally unavailable/spoken for men, that speaks to a deeper issue that needs to be addressed and worked on
It's definitely not a habit. The fact that he's married is not a draw at all. It's just him being my type and working close to me.
 

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