Yup.I don't think OP's intentions are sincere either. This post is giving the impression that she's trying to date or f*** the dad, hence the unnecessary superhero and sleuthing activity. Maybe she thinks that if she makes nice with the girls, she'll complete step 1 of becoming the beloved stepmom in the future. I don't think OP is as obtuse about divorced family dynamics as she's portraying in this thread.