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I’m just going to say what I always say about foolishness like this. 9 times out of 10 a “man” who would treat you this way showed you who he was long before you got married or pregnant and you chose him anyway. Some women really just want two legs in a pair of pants and quality be damned.
 

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i feel bad for women stuck in marriages like this. sometimes it's better to be single. once again, mother's raising boys, please teach them how to cook and clean as soon as it's possible.
 

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I've never heard of anything like that before. I still wonder how in the hell oow women do it all by themselves with no man in sight.
 

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i feel bad for women stuck in marriages like this. sometimes it's better to be single. once again, mother's raising boys, please teach them how to cook and clean as soon as it's possible.

Water seeks its own level. I've seen plenty of women in cases like this, and really THEY were the problem. They didn't want to set any boundaries, then when their man went overboard would get mad.

Plus, THEY did not want to leave even if they had family and friends, both encouraging them to leave and willing to provide support.
 

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wow some people really just do not love themselves. like, i dead can’t understand how one would allow and/or justify such treatment.

i’d be DAMNED if i love anyone more then i love myself, tf???? (besides my child, obviously.)

this sh!t triggered me because i have a friend in a marriage like this and it’s so frustrating to hear about when she just will NOOOOOOT fµck!ng leave and i just don’t understand!!!

i hate weak people.

/rant :triumph:
 

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I know the song goes "the first cut is the deepest" but I think for a new mother in this situation it's the second cut, because he's likely already presented selfishness, but now it hurts more because he's hurting you twice over with the baby in tow.
 

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Hell, some of these women who are married are doing it all by themselves.
That's why I said what I said, it was bait for the fonts who, at every opportunity, LOVE to comment on married people and so far, you're the first catch. :laugh

You'll probably get a hundred thanks for your post, I'm the one who gave you that lol. :laugh
 

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No. Absolutely not. I was doted on and pampered. I did a postpartum lie-in for several weeks. My husband did school drop off and pickup for seven weeks and did the grocery shopping and pickup and major housework (older kids helped as well). I had relatives give us gift cards to restaurants so we didn’t have to cook for the first week or two and we ordered takeout and he cooked dinner for the first several weeks.
 

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I've seen this happen. I had a friend who had a baby and came home cooking meals for her husband the next day. We aren't friends anymore.

That couldn't be me.
 

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Hell no, I haven’t experienced this. MOST, not all, women know they’re having babies by assholes.
 

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I think these women picked the wrong husbands. These women aren't surprised or they shouldn't be. How a woman procreates with someone who won't help her is the real question.
 

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