keepitlow
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I know you feel as if my post came off as projecting; but as I read through you other responses here I bolded all of the things you said that parallel the experience I described.
Even if she did initiate contact a few times, based upon what I read here- you are still doing a lot for someone who at best: initiated contact a few times.
What did she message you when she returned to your life? A quick question about something? Was she telling you she missed you and wanted to see you immediately?
Which brings me back to my original analogy of tennis- even if someone served you a few times, how many balls would you continue to keep lobbing in their direction if they weren’t returning your hits?
Does sharing a new song really warrant a text back?
What if she hated the song?
You seem to really have an expectation that someone you have known 2 years is gonna put you in the same category of importance as her boyfriend?
Her man?
Most people want to be with their man more than anyone so being like: “Well she had all the time for her boyfriend, but it seems like she doesn’t have time for me” is a bizarre train of thought.
Have you ever been to her home?
More projecting. Yes I've been to her home twice. Both times she initiated. However pre covid I didn't like going there because she lives outside the city, it's a 2 hour journey.
I think you had an annoying experience with someone and you're trying to pin it on me. I can't relate to what you've described.