BaldheadedStepchild
Condi's golden child. She/her♡
Yo shes def gonna be on the new season of Snapped or Deadly Women
He needs to go into hiding
He needs to go into hiding
account suspended. did she look like this?
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Honesty, I’ve acted like this but to a far less extreme version ( deep depression when he broke up with me, constantly asking his friends about him, one time I actually visited his job ) but I never destroyed his stuff , threatened him with a knife, posted entire tapes etc. but one strange thing I noticed is that men find this type of behavior enticing, I was suffering from untreated trauma , and when I began to improve I noticed my relationships with men would be described as of being “boring”. Hell the same guy I showed borderline obsessive behavior towards even noted he didn’t want to continue dealing with me again because I was less “passionate”.
he needs to file a restraining order and press charges, but something tells me he won’t . This woman sounds like she suffers from severe mental illness, as well as the fact that he has more than likely put up with this behavior and probably behind the scenes was at some point enabling it. I mean the fact that she got his number not once, not twice , but EIGHT times??? And in one video he is smiling while she has a knife as if it’s a joke. He needs to get the hell out of dodge ASAP.
Men love neurotic , psychotic women until it literally kills them sad to say. I always was curious as to why the belief that men love crazy women always is somewhat true .
So if a woman got knocked by a man two or three times and came out and said that this man was abusive towards her throughout their relationship, would you say she wasn’t a victim, because she stayed in a dysfunctional situation and brought children into it.The nutcase in the OP claimed he knocked her up two, three times. If it’s true you are telling me that a man who is willing to bring a child/multiple children into the dysfunction is somehow a victim?? That he has no say in the women he choose to impregnate? The fact is, a lot of people like chaos and dysfunctional behavior until it bites them in the butt like it did this man. I’m sure she revealed herself to be a LOON early on in the relationship but instead of distancing himself like a well-balanced, well-intentioned human being he continues to sleep with her unprotected...make that make sense.
Because I was responding to someone else’s opinion. Take your ass on somewhere girl. Is it you boo? You da the one threatening to kill ya self?I didn’t make it seem like you were blaming the woman. You made it seem that way.
Back to my original comment, at that moment, you only berated the woman.
Sis you hit it allll on the nail!!!! It seems like bipolar due to the impulsivity and quick to anger. I think it did exacerbate her symptoms. Either way she needs to get help and his hands aren’t clean of this situation either.Guys love this (malleable) combo... until they're (1) humiliated all over town (2) whacked.
The thing is all this is not really over the man. She's simply mentally ill. I've seen this before.
I have a theory relationships exasperate noticeable signs of mental illness because (1) people develop a sense of ownership over their partner (2) women release a sizable amount of oxytocin during orgasm and other "love/happiness" chemicals are dopamine and serotonin.
Mental illnesses are mostly just chemical imbalances, so I can imagine that endorphins and the other chemicals fluctuating while thinking about or interacting with a romantic partner can be a lot for mentally ill people. This girl needs mood stabilizers pronto.
Honestly, I wish people took mental health more seriously. Especially in the black community.
Exhibit A. Sick of BW romanticizing trauma like this. This sort of speak is too common.
The girl is extremely mentally ill, she would have acted the same with any man who'd let it go on long enough.
Her psychotic ass behavior is no ones fault but her own.
Men who stay playing around with unhinged women (even marrying/having children with them) get no sympathy from me.
Yep.But when y'all see a man on the receiving end of crazy, the capes come out, even when it's clear he wants to be there and likes the crazy attention he gives her.
Exactly he wants to create a web of women fighting for him. I know a man JUST like him, exactly like him.Yep.
The fact that he kept “talking to” other women and she would find them and threaten them, and he would do it AGAIN shows the kind of evil BS he’s on. No decent person would expose other people to that drama.
Agreed.I was trying to prove a point. Whenever a woman is in a relationship that pans out terribly, it NEVER fails, there is half the comment sections telling her she should have chose better and that women needs to vet these men carefully. All I’m saying is that the same needs to apply to men as well.
You preaching right now!Yeah I think it’s because insecure men love to see a woman who loves him more than she loves herself...it’s an ego boost. A lot of (internally low self-esteem but externally arrogant-false bravado) men love a woman who loves him more and acts crazy to prove it because it makes them feel wanted
Speak for yourself.But this is how 90% of our culture relationships are this is how 90% of us was born from
Guys love this (malleable) combo... until they're (1) humiliated all over town (2) whacked.
The thing is all this is not really over the man. She's simply mentally ill. I've seen this before.
I have a theory relationships exasperate noticeable signs of mental illness because (1) people develop a sense of ownership over their partner (2) women release a sizable amount of oxytocin during orgasm and other "love/happiness" chemicals are dopamine and serotonin.
Mental illnesses are mostly just chemical imbalances, so I can imagine that endorphins and the other chemicals fluctuating while thinking about or interacting with a romantic partner can be a lot for mentally ill people. This girl needs mood stabilizers pronto.
Honestly, I wish people took mental health more seriously. Especially in the black community.
Exhibit A. Sick of BW romanticizing trauma like this. This sort of speak is too common.
The girl is extremely mentally ill, she would have acted the same with any man who'd let it go on long enough.
So if a woman got knocked by a man two or three times and came out and said that this man was abusive towards her throughout their relationship, would you say she wasn’t a victim, because she stayed in a dysfunctional situation and brought children into it.
So people who stay in dysfunctional situations are deserving of whatever abuse they endure, got it!
I’m sure her family already knew about this dark side of her personality.Woah! Wtf did I just stumble upon?! This is some crazy sh!t. This woman is psychotic. Where tf is her family at? She needs some serious help before she ends up hurting somebody. I'm scared for this guy. She's dangerous.
If it wasn’t for social media, a lot of abuse would continue to happen undiscovered.Why is all of this on Twitter though?
Speak for yourself.But this is how 90% of our culture relationships are this is how 90% of us was born from
Did sis mean ‘instigator’…That girl is joking but she brave. I wouldn’t test that psycho
Exactly! If this was the other way around people would be saying "oh well, she chose him" but because it's the dude now he's a helpless victim, who they hope can get help. When it's a woman they don't understand what domestic violence victims go through, and why they just can't leave but now that it's a man they totally understand and wishes this young man can get free of her evil grip.
She said she would accuse him of rape, tell people he had HIV etc... but somehow she's still pregnant by him how does that work? So I guess the rape thing is true since he's posting like he's disgusted with her and trying to get away but she still ends up pregnant by him. I guarantee you he's talking to her like they're still together until he wants "to leave" then watches her start to act crazy.
If the roles were reversed y'all would have no sympathy for a women who CHOSE not to leave and stayed in dysfunction like this guy. I can think of countless women celebs who are in the similar situations and they still stay and y'all call em a bird and keep it moving.
But when y'all see a man on the receiving end of crazy, the capes come out, even when it's clear he wants to be there and likes the crazy attention he gives her. He only keeps receipts so when he is ready to stop playing this game he can get away with the possibility of her going to jail and being the "crazy ex" they all have. Also so if she goes to the police first he has evidence on why he had to do XYZ.
They're both two crazy people in a relationship, both need mental help and self esteem.
Quoting for emphasis lol"wHy dO i HavE to LoVe mySeLf FirsT?!"
This is why.
THIS! All the way!I don't feel sorry for him AT all.
He should have stopped fµck!ng her a long time ago. He should have stopped fµck!ng her after she got the tattoo. But as you can see by the video he continued to slide in her raw. He deserves what he gets.
Men aren't stupid. They know an emotionally unstable woman when they see one. They just don't have the integrity to not run up in her raw. They are selfish and secretly love the attention and admiration.
This is why you don't fµck men too soon. This is why you don't allow them access to your body/womb/creation energy. See how well he looks? How much sympathy he is getting? And look at her. He literally sucked the life out of this girl.
"wHy dO i HavE to LoVe mySeLf FirsT?!"
This is why.
I made a thread on this and people tried to drag meI hate that people learned the word “narcissist”
Girl stfu I obviously mean I’m annoyed by the word in general. It gives off TI when he throws in a freshly learned word he saw in the thesaurus and then misuses and abuses.Someone can be a narcissist without having NPD. Y'all are weird trying to gatekeep words
Damn, she got the BPD bad
Homeboy needs to move to another state fr.
This.How did she keep getting his new phone number? Please. He was still fµck!ng her. He loved tormenting this mentally ill girl until it got too real.
THIS.Look at how on Twitter more dumb girls are throwing themselves at him. He is enjoying every bit of this! Men love to see women break down over them, it's all fun and games usually until the woman they are with starts really raising hell. I don't feel sorry for his ass. He wanted the attention instead of going to the police. Choose better next time.