I want to have a grown folks conversation about something I have been thinking about lately.
About a year ago I went on a blind date with this guy as a favor to a friend, I really liked him from previous conversations we had and he seemed cool. We went out and we were having a great time and then BAM! Out the blue (I dont remember how we got on the subject) he goes on a rant about women not knowing what they want in a man. Basically his position was that women needed a real man to teach them what they should be looking for in a mate. I immediately got defensive because I was offended. He was so fine too. I completely shut down and it was over. In other words, I was like take me home now! Its obvious you going through something and ah I cant help you. LOL.
We never saw each other again but I always think about him and that night because I keep thinking of all the sh!t I wish I said.
What I want to know is do you agree, disagree, or somewhat agree with his position? WHY?
AND
Do you know what you look for in a mate in terms of mentally, physically, spiritually, xesually, emotionally or even financially? If you have found the one what is it about them that attracted you to them?
About a year ago I went on a blind date with this guy as a favor to a friend, I really liked him from previous conversations we had and he seemed cool. We went out and we were having a great time and then BAM! Out the blue (I dont remember how we got on the subject) he goes on a rant about women not knowing what they want in a man. Basically his position was that women needed a real man to teach them what they should be looking for in a mate. I immediately got defensive because I was offended. He was so fine too. I completely shut down and it was over. In other words, I was like take me home now! Its obvious you going through something and ah I cant help you. LOL.
We never saw each other again but I always think about him and that night because I keep thinking of all the sh!t I wish I said.
What I want to know is do you agree, disagree, or somewhat agree with his position? WHY?
AND
Do you know what you look for in a mate in terms of mentally, physically, spiritually, xesually, emotionally or even financially? If you have found the one what is it about them that attracted you to them?