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I just had to get this off my chest...I have a grown up crush on a guy that is kinda well-known in my city. I saw him at a concert, and I was just hooked. I've seen him around a few times, and I am just like a little girl! No one knows but you guys...

Have any of you had a grown-up crush??
 

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I just had one. I didn't do anything about it because he just broke up with a long time girlfriend and i think they're going to get back together and i don't want to be caught in the middle with that...but it was certainly fun to daydream

ETA: also it didn't seem like he would be into me
 

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I just had one. I didn't do anything about it because he just broke up with a long time girlfriend and i think they're going to get back together and i don't want to be caught in the middle with that...but it was certainly fun to daydream

ETA: also it didn't seem like he would be into me

That's how I feel about dude.
 

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I don't think there's anything wrong with having a crush on someone as an adult. *shrugs*
 

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LOL well it would be wrong for me to tell you to go for it when i won't...
 

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I feel like a little girl...haven't had this feeling since high school....Love it!
 

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I had a crush on the guy I'm dating now. Had a crush for 6+ years and I just told him the other day. He just looked at me and smiled. He's so cute...LOL I believe it was mutual because he even told me wtf I was wearing back then. He would go in and out of my life and I would always wonder. Well 2008 the wondering is gone.

We're both older and really get along well. I can really be myself with him and he is brutally honest, as I am. So we have a good time when we're together. I posted last week on how important it was to communicate with SO and got a lot of good feedback. I have since that post changed my ways. Thank you LSA and good posts like these that make you think about things you probably would never think about. If that makes any sense.

I don't know about tomorrow so I'm glad we both connected when we did.
 

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I have a crush on my husband! Does this count? LOL!
 

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I have mini crushes.. I'll have a crush on a guy for a day, so I'll flirt with him and talk to him.. but then the next day I'll be like :confused: WTF was I thinking? lol
 

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At first I was gonna say when you're an adult it's not called a crush it's called LUST.

I haven't had a crush in a long time... a new one anyway...
 

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God it's soooo sad to say..but i will use & abuse chris brown.. :fingers-crossed:I mean i will show that boy a whole nother version 2 his song..."take you down" :skywalker:

hahahaha!!!

...& the sad/funny thing is...i fell in love with that lil baby when mtv was playing his live viedo "take you down" & he took of his shirt...:good::camera:

Man i tell u what...hahahha... :stop:Call cps right the fucks now... Because i would take him & all 3 of his juvenile delinquent boys...down & drown'd each & eeerrrr last one of em!!! Yah hearrrd me!!!:love::fingers-crossed:
 

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I havent had a Crush/Lust since 5 years ago. Thats the only time I actually really been attracted to someone.
 

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I had a crush on our FED-EX guy for about 3 years before we started dating this year. We dated for 8 months. It didn't work out, though. Should've just left it at that..A CRUSH.
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God it's soooo sad to say..but i will use & abuse chris brown.. :fingers-crossed:I mean i will show that boy a whole nother version 2 his song..."take you down" :skywalker:

hahahaha!!!

...& the sad/funny thing is...i fell in love with that lil baby when mtv was playing his live viedo "take you down" & he took of his shirt...:good::camera:

Man i tell u what...hahahha... :stop:Call cps right the fucks now... Because i would take him & all 3 of his juvenile delinquent boys...down & drown'd each & eeerrrr last one of em!!! Yah hearrrd me!!!:love::fingers-crossed:


OK!!! Chris Brown would forget all about Pon de Replay when he get ahold of me!! I was lusting when "Run It" came out!!! He's only 3 years younger than me....
 

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i had one on a guy for years but had to get over him. i start getting crazy. calling all the time he will never answer his phone lol
 

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"It's just a little crush
Not like I faint every time we touch
It's just some little thing (crush)
Not like everything I do depends on you
Sha-la-la-la, Sha-la-la-la"

crushes can be innocent esp. when u no it's not gonna go anywhere
 

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"It's just a little crush
Not like I faint every time we touch
It's just some little thing (crush)
Not like everything I do depends on you
Sha-la-la-la, Sha-la-la-la"

crushes can be innocent esp. when u no it's not gonna go anywhere

Loved that song!!
 

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Yes indeedy i've had a crush on this one particular guy for a minute, however i can not indulge because i am married. I have never ever cheated on my husband and would never think of doing so but it's just something about this dude and i think he feels it too. anyway i just keep it at that cause most times it's best to keep things in your fantasy....
 

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[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nm_QilrHkh8"]YouTube - The Jets - Crush on You (1986)[/ame]
 

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Had a crush on this guy found out he had a girlfriend... oh well :disapointed:
 

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