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Have you ever dated a man who was way too close to his mom?

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I think for me it was more so his mom didn’t want anyone to get in between them two. I remember at his probate, when people were taking pictures of us she got in the middle and said I’m the mother and I want pics with my son first. We have since broken up and even in our break up she was very vocal and “tried” to be helpful, only making the situation worse.
 

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He's almost 50 and he's still a mama's boy. He just moved in back with her. It was just too much because he actually expected me to be his second mother.
 

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My friend is currently going through this right now. its a mess smh . i told her to break it off because this lady do to damn much. He run back and tell him mama everything! like girl if u dont put your foot down. i told her its only gonna get worse. and guess what it has. only been together for like 5 months . im praying for her
 

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A mama’s boy? Yes plenty. I’m currently single, so you can assume how it went.:joy:
 

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No i never have but i'm mad close to my mom. Like mad close. That lady is my everything. But my mom she is mad cool. She doesn't try to sabotage sh!t. She stays in her lane. Any dude i am with has to understand i will be taking care of my moms when it comes down to it.
 

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Ugh yes and she had control over his whole bank account and everything. We almost came to blows arguing so much about her attachment lmao glad that's over
 

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I asked LSA this and everyone e said I should be happy that dude was close to his mom and caring.

I drew the line at him sleeping over his moms for 2 weeks cause she was lonely meanwhile she got a whole boyfriend
 

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I didn't think so at the time because she lived in another country, but years after we broke up (we're still friendly) he married a woman who looks exactly like his mom. And yes, his wife looks just as old as her.
 

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See i always get the opposite... Where the man has issues with their mom or abandonment from their mom so... I don't know how a momma's boy would be. We might bond over the fact that we are both so close to our moms.
 

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There is no such thing as too close to mom in my opinion. I would find it sweet.
Maybe there are some examples that could change my mind...
 

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Not me but my cousin did. She learned. They're divorced now.
Pretty much. You can never compete with a d@mn mom and should never have to. Its sick and my exes mom was a key player in why we arent together anymore. Its really his fault because who would choose their mother or allow her to come between who keeps him warm at night??
 
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I asked LSA this and everyone e said I should be happy that dude was close to his mom and caring.

I drew the line at him sleeping over his moms for 2 weeks cause she was lonely meanwhile she got a whole boyfriend
People get it confused. There is honoring and respecting your mother, and then there is the other s#it.
 

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Nope. Made that mistake in high school (which is more understandable). You can get a feel for people early in the talking/flirty stage & if there is too much, or too little affinity for mama. I'm all about balance & not into extremes. If a red flag goes off & my intuition says ummm...Sugar step back & reassess this situation you bet your ass I do.​
 

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Married one once for about 2 years. Couldn’t stand his mother and quickly started resenting him. What kind of pussy bows down to everything his mother says and expects me to as well? Like literally, this sentence flew out of his mouth:

“You need to listen to me and let me control you so my parents know I’m in charge of you and aren’t ashamed of me.” HUH?

Fastest divorce ever after that.

Ive been remarried for 10 years and if his mother looks at me sideways, he checks her hard. I’M HIS #1, while he still is able to show his mother how much he respects and loves her. He just won’t play into her bµllsh!t if it concerns me in any way.

To ME, that is a partner and I could never look twice at a mommas boy again. Nothing is worth the amt of disrespect she will put you through, with his allowance. You’ll never have a partner and will always be on defense mode. NOPE.
 

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I didn't think so at the time because she lived in another country, but years after we broke up (we're still friendly) he married a woman who looks exactly like his mom. And yes, his wife looks just as old as her.

Well they say most men marry their mothers lolĺ
 

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Yes! Never again! It’s emotional ince$t with how these mama boys behave with their mamas. There has to be a boundary with any relationship but especially with family as it’s so easy for them to overstep it. They belong with their mamas until they learn to grow up. I wouldn’t wish one on my worst enemy
 

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I broke off my engagement to a man like this because he wouldn't reprimand his mom when she disrespected me one time too many. She was so afraid he would stop being a part her life, that she succeeded in alienating him and me.
 

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Like hes a grown man and still hasnt taken his mouth off the boob

My current guy is very close w his mom
They travel, go out to eat and concerts together .: which is nice..
I haven’t met her yet and there’s no dad/husband in the pic
 

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In college, I dated a guy for a year I felt was much too close to his mother. He visited his mother at least 3x weekly and regularly did housework and chores for her when she had a whole husband to do them.

There were times when we were nearby where she would come up with fake 'emergencies' that would require him to come over and check them out ASAP. Without me.

Toward the end of the relationship when she was shady towards me and disliked me, he started to keep her in check and then she REALLY disliked me lol. The sad thing is we were really alike actually -- stern, stubborn, adventurous, eager to learn and excitable etc. She picked up on that and saw me as competition.

I think in her mind she had bred her ideal man -- (My ex was very tall, tan, and conventionally handsome with sandy blonde hair --- her husband was a short trollish real estate agent.) The whole thing felt very incestuous.

Luckily for her he was toxic in many other ways due to her trash ass parenting skills so I dropped him. According to others he pined after me for YEARS after that. I know that ate his girlfriend-mom up!
 

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OMG yes , this fool even slept with his mother in her bed sometimes. She was always up in our business , Bish even called me one time to ask me if I was cheating on him Baaaaaaaaaaah TF. Yeah I’m in my forties now this happened in my 20s , saw the headline and just had to comment LMFAO . I dumped that ass with the quickness LOL
 

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