I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him.
He’s very young-minded. Like we are young but he’s like the stereotypical Gen Z boy. & he doesn’t have a good track record with women. I don’t really know the extent of what happens in his relationships but I swear he always has someone new on his arm & it’s weird but he just passes them off as his friendsWhat are your concerns? What's wrong with him?
He gay. Move on lolHe’s very young-minded. Like we are young but he’s like the stereotypical Gen Z boy. & he doesn’t have a good track record with women. I don’t really know the extent of what happens in his relationships but I swear he always has someone new on his arm & it’s weird but he just passes them off as his friends
Yeah if I’m gonna be in a relationship I want it to be earned and long term. That’s why I’ve never actually dated anyone because the guys my age just can’t seem to provide thatWhat do you want? If you just want someone to choose you, go for it. If you are looking for someone to earn you, then move on past this and him.
I was actually thinking this too. But I was hoping he wouldn’t be that fuckboyishI can guarantee he wants that "trial run" to include xes, and when the 3 months is up, he'll say it was a mistake and you should remain friends. He trying to finesse you out of your pucci.
he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid
I think it’s fair enough because most people don’t do that they rush into it and then it turns into a I hate my baby daddy / baby momma situation. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Give it a go.Alright so there’s this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years who wants to do a “relationship trial.” He brought this up because he told me that he likes me and he wants me to give him a chance because I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him. His idea is that we do it for 3 months and if I’m not feeling it then we could just pretend it never happened and go back to being just friends. The thing is, he moved across the country for college. I’m taking online classes and I’m getting my own place soon and he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid especially if I don’t even know if we’d work out. But he has family here so he’s always gonna be coming back but still. Idk.
I feel like for a “relationship trial” us being long distance wouldn’t really give us a chance to actually “experience” each other. Also, he could easily put on a facade for those 3 months. He doesn’t really have a good track record with relationships but you never know unless you try, I guess. Would you do it? Do you think it could work? I just don’t wanna feel like I wasted my time because one of his “rules” is that I treat it as an actual relationship and don’t talk to anyone else
Lol yes. This boy literally typed out of a bunch of rules for this thing like he’s doing me a favorno elationship status in sight but he already have this many demands wtf. You said you feel weird about it shouldn't he be the one putting in the effort to help put your mind at ease
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I hope you're not taking this little boy and his little demands serious about to stop your whole life for what. The fact that you made a thrend and didn't just write lol have me worriedLol yes. This boy literally typed out of a bunch of rules for this thing like he’s doing me a favor
He’s very young-minded. Like we are young but he’s like the stereotypical Gen Z boy. & he doesn’t have a good track record with women. I don’t really know the extent of what happens in his relationships but I swear he always has someone new on his arm & it’s weird but he just passes them off as his friends
Yes, some men are. You're a young college student, with a future. Some dudes get a kick out of derailing the lives of young women who are trying to better themselves. I'm not saying 100% that your friend is like this, but he is asking for an awful lot for him to basically kick the tires.I was actually thinking this too. But I was hoping he wouldn’t be that fuckboyish
Huh?? Why not just try dating like normal peopleAlright so there’s this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years who wants to do a “relationship trial.” He brought this up because he told me that he likes me and he wants me to give him a chance because I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him. His idea is that we do it for 3 months and if I’m not feeling it then we could just pretend it never happened and go back to being just friends. The thing is, he moved across the country for college. I’m taking online classes and I’m getting my own place soon and he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid especially if I don’t even know if we’d work out. But he has family here so he’s always gonna be coming back but still. Idk.
I feel like for a “relationship trial” us being long distance wouldn’t really give us a chance to actually “experience” each other. Also, he could easily put on a facade for those 3 months. He doesn’t really have a good track record with relationships but you never know unless you try, I guess. Would you do it? Do you think it could work? I just don’t wanna feel like I wasted my time because one of his “rules” is that I treat it as an actual relationship and don’t talk to anyone else
Alright so there’s this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years who wants to do a “relationship trial.” He brought this up because he told me that he likes me and he wants me to give him a chance because I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him. His idea is that we do it for 3 months and if I’m not feeling it then we could just pretend it never happened and go back to being just friends. The thing is, he moved across the country for college. I’m taking online classes and I’m getting my own place soon and he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid especially if I don’t even know if we’d work out. But he has family here so he’s always gonna be coming back but still. Idk.
I feel like for a “relationship trial” us being long distance wouldn’t really give us a chance to actually “experience” each other. Also, he could easily put on a facade for those 3 months. He doesn’t really have a good track record with relationships but you never know unless you try, I guess. Would you do it? Do you think it could work? I just don’t wanna feel like I wasted my time because one of his “rules” is that I treat it as an actual relationship and don’t talk to anyone else
This. And that boy probably has a bunch of little girls on campus that he is messing with. It’s very weird that he waited until after he left to go after herI hope you're not taking this little boy and his little demands serious about to stop your whole life for what. The fact that you made a thrend and didn't just write lol have me worried
I feel like that’s the best way. I want to be with someone that I consider to be a friend first because they’d know me better and I’d know them better and they’d be less inclined to treat me badlyI personally don't date friends. If yall been friends for years and its been strictly platonic why would you even consider it? When women start dating their friends it screams desperate to me. Its too many fish and the sea to start dating a "friend".
Yeah, now that I’m getting other feedback it’s like a DUH thing but I was having thoughts about him being my friend so I don’t expect him to be like that with me. But I see that’s not always the caseDamn are you Hulu or Netflix?! Some kind of friend.... you already know he got a bad track record, why even entertain the thought?? HE wants YOU to move where he at for subscription dating?? Nah bruh don't fall for that bs cause if it doesn't work out you gone be stuck there & he'll be flaunting his new piece around campus- "friendship" be damned!!
What?Just off this alone I can tell you were raised by a hood rat, your brothers and sister must not have the same father. View attachment 2556952
I was honesty wanting to ask him about this but I felt awkward because he didn’t mention it. I’ve never had xes though and he knows that and he knows my views on it so idkI can guarantee he wants that "trial run" to include xes, and when the 3 months is up, he'll say it was a mistake and you should remain friends. He trying to finesse you out of your pucci. Please don't fall for this.