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What do you want? If you just want someone to choose you, go for it. If you are looking for someone to earn you, then move on past this and him.
 

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What are your concerns? What's wrong with him?
He’s very young-minded. Like we are young but he’s like the stereotypical Gen Z boy. & he doesn’t have a good track record with women. I don’t really know the extent of what happens in his relationships but I swear he always has someone new on his arm & it’s weird but he just passes them off as his friends
 

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I can guarantee he wants that "trial run" to include xes, and when the 3 months is up, he'll say it was a mistake and you should remain friends. He trying to finesse you out of your pucci. Please don't fall for this.
 

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He’s very young-minded. Like we are young but he’s like the stereotypical Gen Z boy. & he doesn’t have a good track record with women. I don’t really know the extent of what happens in his relationships but I swear he always has someone new on his arm & it’s weird but he just passes them off as his friends
He gay. Move on lol
 

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What do you want? If you just want someone to choose you, go for it. If you are looking for someone to earn you, then move on past this and him.
Yeah if I’m gonna be in a relationship I want it to be earned and long term. That’s why I’ve never actually dated anyone because the guys my age just can’t seem to provide that
 

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I can guarantee he wants that "trial run" to include xes, and when the 3 months is up, he'll say it was a mistake and you should remain friends. He trying to finesse you out of your pucci.
I was actually thinking this too. But I was hoping he wouldn’t be that fuckboyish
 

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he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid

no elationship status in sight but he already have this many demands wtf. You said you feel weird about it shouldn't he be the one putting in the effort to help put your mind at ease
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You are not a subscription service, and the fact that he would suggest this dumb sh!t to you should tell you that he has little respect for you and your time. Tell him to fµck off without telling him to fµck off by leaving him completely alone.
 
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Seems like you already know what the answer truly is. He's on some fuckshit and you know it. Leave him where he is.
 

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Relation trial run? Lord. Im getting old. Isnt that what we use to call dating? I wouldnt do it, it’s already starting difficult
 

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Alright so there’s this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years who wants to do a “relationship trial.” He brought this up because he told me that he likes me and he wants me to give him a chance because I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him. His idea is that we do it for 3 months and if I’m not feeling it then we could just pretend it never happened and go back to being just friends. The thing is, he moved across the country for college. I’m taking online classes and I’m getting my own place soon and he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid especially if I don’t even know if we’d work out. But he has family here so he’s always gonna be coming back but still. Idk.

I feel like for a “relationship trial” us being long distance wouldn’t really give us a chance to actually “experience” each other. Also, he could easily put on a facade for those 3 months. He doesn’t really have a good track record with relationships but you never know unless you try, I guess. Would you do it? Do you think it could work? I just don’t wanna feel like I wasted my time because one of his “rules” is that I treat it as an actual relationship and don’t talk to anyone else
I think it’s fair enough because most people don’t do that they rush into it and then it turns into a I hate my baby daddy / baby momma situation. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Give it a go.
 

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no elationship status in sight but he already have this many demands wtf. You said you feel weird about it shouldn't he be the one putting in the effort to help put your mind at ease
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Lol yes. This boy literally typed out of a bunch of rules for this thing like he’s doing me a favor
 

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He should jut say he wants to fµck for 3 months and go. What the hell is a relationship trial run? Just plain stupid. Stop being friends with that fool.
 

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Why would you even ask this Q here let alone to yourself?

Date someone local, who you like and who is a decent match up for you. He doesn’t have a good trial record, wants you to move half way across the country and he is essentially a relationship hopper. Move on.
 

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Block him w/o any explanation. Trial period? Does he think you are a pair of shoes or a magazine subscription? The nerve of this man....
 

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Lol yes. This boy literally typed out of a bunch of rules for this thing like he’s doing me a favor
I hope you're not taking this little boy and his little demands serious about to stop your whole life for what. The fact that you made a thrend and didn't just write lol have me worried
 

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He’s very young-minded. Like we are young but he’s like the stereotypical Gen Z boy. & he doesn’t have a good track record with women. I don’t really know the extent of what happens in his relationships but I swear he always has someone new on his arm & it’s weird but he just passes them off as his friends

Yeah no. Who even suggests a trial relationship? A man whose fµcked up one too many times. Don't even bother with this guy period. Continue on with your original plans with school and getting your own place.
 

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I’m getting the vibe that you have a crush on him. So I will say this..... he’s not really your friend babe. Sounds to me like he’s a manwhore and he knows that you like him and is using it to his advantage. I see that you said you have never been in an actual relationship and you want to be in one that is long term. This one ain’t it. You’ll find somebody that you really click with but don’t let that hoe use you
 

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You don't even sound interested in doing this...women don't need to consider everything just because a man asked, the answer seems clearly no. Also moving etc is a damn commitment and lastly this man will definitely NOT be "friends' with you if you end this 3 month contract. He isn't really friends with you now because clearly he considers you a conquest. And he shows bad character by not being upfront and saying I want a relationship with you and if you are not interested I'll back off. He's coercing you into a relationship and that is weird and a red flag.
 
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I was actually thinking this too. But I was hoping he wouldn’t be that fuckboyish
Yes, some men are. You're a young college student, with a future. Some dudes get a kick out of derailing the lives of young women who are trying to better themselves. I'm not saying 100% that your friend is like this, but he is asking for an awful lot for him to basically kick the tires.
 
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Alright so there’s this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years who wants to do a “relationship trial.” He brought this up because he told me that he likes me and he wants me to give him a chance because I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him. His idea is that we do it for 3 months and if I’m not feeling it then we could just pretend it never happened and go back to being just friends. The thing is, he moved across the country for college. I’m taking online classes and I’m getting my own place soon and he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid especially if I don’t even know if we’d work out. But he has family here so he’s always gonna be coming back but still. Idk.

I feel like for a “relationship trial” us being long distance wouldn’t really give us a chance to actually “experience” each other. Also, he could easily put on a facade for those 3 months. He doesn’t really have a good track record with relationships but you never know unless you try, I guess. Would you do it? Do you think it could work? I just don’t wanna feel like I wasted my time because one of his “rules” is that I treat it as an actual relationship and don’t talk to anyone else
Huh?? Why not just try dating like normal people
 

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Alright so there’s this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years who wants to do a “relationship trial.” He brought this up because he told me that he likes me and he wants me to give him a chance because I’ve expressed my concerns about possibly pursuing a relationship with him. His idea is that we do it for 3 months and if I’m not feeling it then we could just pretend it never happened and go back to being just friends. The thing is, he moved across the country for college. I’m taking online classes and I’m getting my own place soon and he wants me to move closer to him and transfer to his school but I think that’s so stupid especially if I don’t even know if we’d work out. But he has family here so he’s always gonna be coming back but still. Idk.

I feel like for a “relationship trial” us being long distance wouldn’t really give us a chance to actually “experience” each other. Also, he could easily put on a facade for those 3 months. He doesn’t really have a good track record with relationships but you never know unless you try, I guess. Would you do it? Do you think it could work? I just don’t wanna feel like I wasted my time because one of his “rules” is that I treat it as an actual relationship and don’t talk to anyone else

no
Like obviously no. I wouldnt even trust him to be honest.
 
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I personally don't date friends. If yall been friends for years and its been strictly platonic why would you even consider it? When women start dating their friends it screams desperate to me. Its too many fish in the sea to start dating a "friend".
 
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I hope you're not taking this little boy and his little demands serious about to stop your whole life for what. The fact that you made a thrend and didn't just write lol have me worried
This. And that boy probably has a bunch of little girls on campus that he is messing with. It’s very weird that he waited until after he left to go after her
 

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Damn are you Hulu or Netflix?! Some kind of friend.... you already know he got a bad track record, why even entertain the thought?? HE wants YOU to move where he at for subscription dating?? Nah bruh don't fall for that bs cause if it doesn't work out you gone be stuck there & he'll be flaunting his new piece around campus- "friendship" be damned!!
 

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I personally don't date friends. If yall been friends for years and its been strictly platonic why would you even consider it? When women start dating their friends it screams desperate to me. Its too many fish and the sea to start dating a "friend".
I feel like that’s the best way. I want to be with someone that I consider to be a friend first because they’d know me better and I’d know them better and they’d be less inclined to treat me badly
 

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Damn are you Hulu or Netflix?! Some kind of friend.... you already know he got a bad track record, why even entertain the thought?? HE wants YOU to move where he at for subscription dating?? Nah bruh don't fall for that bs cause if it doesn't work out you gone be stuck there & he'll be flaunting his new piece around campus- "friendship" be damned!!
Yeah, now that I’m getting other feedback it’s like a DUH thing but I was having thoughts about him being my friend so I don’t expect him to be like that with me. But I see that’s not always the case
 

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I can guarantee he wants that "trial run" to include xes, and when the 3 months is up, he'll say it was a mistake and you should remain friends. He trying to finesse you out of your pucci. Please don't fall for this.
I was honesty wanting to ask him about this but I felt awkward because he didn’t mention it. I’ve never had xes though and he knows that and he knows my views on it so idk
 

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Wtf is a relationship trial run?? Tell his ass to sign up for a dating sim and leave him alone
 

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