petitefille
General Manager
I think a guy who has his stuff together won’t be asking about what you do too deeply and won’t care how much you make. Don’t lie, but be vague, and flip the questions back to him. Men who actually love what they do and are proud of what they do will be happy to talk about it. Just pay attention... my man pays for everything and never asks me to pay... once in a while I will offer to pay and sometimes he’ll protest and I’ll insist. But in the first 2-3 months of dating, it never occurred to me to offer to pay and he never complained about it. He kept inviting me out multiple times a week and paying for it. I was able to gauge from that that he’s probably financially okay. After we got engaged, he shared his net worth and I was like DAMN. So yeah, pay attention to signs, they are definitely there. Men who are overly concerned with what you do and how much you make probably aren’t on your level.
ETA: I do want to add, even if you’re vague, still be on your guard because sometimes people can tell regardless. I dated a man who gave me the whole “I’m in the ______ industry” and left it at that. I didn’t push for details because it didn’t matter to me and I could tell he was wealthy from the beginning. After time, he revealed he was an exec at a major company. But even with being vague, I knew he was rich. So just be careful and protect yourself, because some people have bad intentions.
ETA: I do want to add, even if you’re vague, still be on your guard because sometimes people can tell regardless. I dated a man who gave me the whole “I’m in the ______ industry” and left it at that. I didn’t push for details because it didn’t matter to me and I could tell he was wealthy from the beginning. After time, he revealed he was an exec at a major company. But even with being vague, I knew he was rich. So just be careful and protect yourself, because some people have bad intentions.
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