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Is it serious for y’all? What if he was tall with narrow triangle shoulders like the one on the left?



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I do...
I hate those weird shoulders like the ones on the left. The one on the right is a little too wide in proportion to his torso imo. But overall I like the right one better.

I also hate when men have those fragile looking waist/torso and their thighs stick out the most.

Or when their shoulders, are squared in, their arms are somehow defined but more petite.
 
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....LOL. Men with big heads and no shoulders and shrunken bodies look weird IMO. It’s not a dealbreaker but I’m not into men with no shoulders.

Huge shoulders and a tiny little head ain’t it either though. LMAOO.
 

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I love me some wide, broad shoulders. Of course they have to be in proportion with the rest of their body, they won’t look good with a little pea head on top of wide ass shoulders. But seeing a man with masculine broad shoulders has always done so for me
 

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People judge these things?
Same can be said about height though. Theyre a physical characteristic. I’ve always heard about the preference for broad shoulders, so yes it’s a thing. There are even men online asking if any workout routines can fix their “issue”. However, I’ve seen many of these tall men with very narrow triangle shoulders. Tall builds don’t necessarily come with broad shoulders.
 

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I’ve always had a thing for broad shoulders, my bf has them.
If a man had shoulders like the guy on the left or Kid Cudi, absolutely not. Because then their shoulders would be even narrower than mines and that’s just weird.
Only normal sized and broad for me.
 

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I didn’t know ppl paid attention to shoulders like this to be honest. That’s…different.
You never heard of women swooning over broad shoulders? Where have you been friend???
actually, Both men and women find broad shoulders to be more attractive, with most research showing that it's the most important aspect of the male physique. Women were asked about the most important feature on a man and they overwhelmingly chose broad shoulders. Broad, well-defined shoulders have always been considered a sign of strength and masculinity.
Not only do broad shoulders make you look strong but the wider you are up top, the leaner you appear at the waist, creating that V-shape that is desirable to women.

Thing is, not all tall men have broad shoulders.
 

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Narrow shoulders look frail and makes me think he has bad genes. It's on par with bad teeth, wide hips and weak chins for me.
 

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It's not a big deal, but I notice. Broad shoulders look good on men, especially if their head is proportional.

I actually notice a lot about men. It's the subtle things that make them attractive overall.
 

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I dated a half-PR, half-black dude who's mother was really tiny with narrow shoulders and his father was also short with narrow shoulders like a LOT of Ricans...he was also 5'6...it didn't last.

He was also sterile, I see it as some kind of genetic defect in men...I don't want sons with narrow ass shoulders who will get passed the fµck over for top spots in sports like football and basketball...NO.

The worst thing a short man can do is have narrow ass shoulders. Its super unattractive when they wear suits and dress clothing.

ICB y'all don't LOOK at a man's shoulders...broad shoulders are equated with masculinity and virility.
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Y'all really outchea dating dudes with narrow ass shoulders?! Hell NAH!
 

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It’s important. I don’t like narrow shoulders, they even look bad on women. Shoulders should be proportional. Men with broad shoulders are very attractive.
 

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Well some women judge because they have broad shoulders and they know a lot of insecure men will call them linebacker or something.

Men know when their features are considered feminine or unattractive. And they try to belittle women for features they think they should have. Like they call women with broad shoulders and who are tall "manly" for a reason. They're more manly than them!
 

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Damn! I dated this one dude who was attractive, a pretty boy. But when I saw him with his shirt off I noticed something was kinda off about his body shape — it wasn't something I was used to seeing so I couldn't exactly put my finger on what was wrong.

Now after seeing those pics I realize he had shoulders like the man on the left! It's not something that's a dealbreaker for me but its something that kept throwing me off and looked strange. I didn't realize he had weak shoulders. I prefer broader shoulders.
 

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I love my husbands wide shoulders...his arms, his back. Actually I love everything about him. He works out every day, i keep telling him not to let his arms get so big that he can't lay them flat at his sides.
 

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I’ve never really paid attention, but now I just noticed most men I’ve been attracted to have broad shoulders. Or just regular shoulders, but not like the man on the left. But that’s a petty dealbreaker lol.
 

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LMAOOOOO I promise you I never seen any triangle shoulders until today. I don’t even pay attention to man shoulders.
 

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Lmao personally I like moderate. Not to narrow not too wide. Ultimately the most important think is their face and vibe. And I prefer not too skinny because I do not want to hug and cuddle mostly bones! That seems painful lol
 

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