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Whoaa...the end.

You gotta talk about parenting styles with your partner before bringing kids into the world.
 

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He's just talking sh!t because the cameras are there and the baby was JUST born. He'll adjust as he gets used to be a father. His corny ass was just showing off.
 

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I hate when people say "stop babying" a small child. Her daughter is 5 y/o or less. She is a baby fgs. You really wanna be harsh and express tough love with a small child?! A small child who is growing and learning about love and trust. GTFO with that BS.

That's gonna be a tough co-parenting situation if they are to breakup. He is stubborn and inflexible. Good luck
 
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Um...no. This is a major red flag. The fact that even the toddler had to subdue this grown ass man for the chance to even hold her own sibling was odd. These are the types of men that like to be dramatic AF and show the world how they're such "good" dads, but when sh!t gets tough, he's off playing call of duty or some sh!t.

The way he was talking about that little girl made me uncomfortable. I would never be with a man that could barely stand the sight of my child. Lily is a bird for getting with this man.
 
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He's definitely wildin especially when he was going off about the "his son" "his son" rant but that's nothing a lil restoralax won't humble.

My question is whats this hairstyle he's rocking??
 

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Um...no. This is a major red flag. The fact that even the toddler had to subdue this grown ass man for the chance to even hold her own sibling was odd. These are the types of men that like to be dramatic AF and show the world how they're such "good" dads, but when sh!t gets tough, he's off playing call of duty or some sh!t.
He also comes off like the type of man who will leave her to change the sh!tty diapers... maybe even the pissy ones, too.
 

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Reason number 101 why you don’t have kids with people who already has kids “ she’s Lilly’s daughter”, “that’s my son”. Theres a YouTuber who’s engaged to a single mom and refers to the kid and “her ( name) daughter”.
 
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This is honestly scary for the daughter. I don't trust that man with her. Imagine how he treats her when no one else is around. I hope her grandparents step in because the mother is oblivious of that man’s nasty attitude towards her baby girl. He's acting like the little girl is trying to kill her brother.
 

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This the kind of man who will abuse the child who isnt his
He dont like that Lil girl keep him from around her
 

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I hate when people say "stop babying" a small child. Her daughter is 5 y/o or less. She is a baby fgs. You really wanna be harsh and express tough love with a small child?! A small child who is growing and learning about love and trust. GTFO with that BS.

That's gonna be a tough co-parenting situation if they are to breakup. He is stubborn and inflexible. Good luck
I can see where he’s coming from because they said you’ll be playing with the little girl and she’ll just smack you... that is not ok and she should be big enough to know better imo. Especially because she’s kindergarten age.
 

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He doesn't like the little girl. He resents her, especially now that "his son" is here. Her mother needs to check him quickly. I wouldnt have done it.
 

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Mix match kids, baby daddies, baby mommas calls for a mix match existence.
This.

Now I understand a lot more 30 years later why my father kept his kids with women he dated and kids with women he married separate 90% of the time except shared sports activities and holidays.

I've only celebrated the birthdays of my half-brother that I was raised WITH in the same house as my Dad and his 2nd wife...
 

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That poor little girl.. she is so adorable and innocent. May God protect both children in that home because that man is a ticking time bomb.

This is a great example of why women need to be more selective with who they have children with. The red flags are all there.
 

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I can see where he’s coming from because they said you’ll be playing with the little girl and she’ll just smack you... that is not ok and she should be big enough to know better imo. Especially because she’s kindergarten age.
We gonna have to agree to disagree here. I assume they reprimand her when she does something out of line. But this idea that the mom has to be a Drill Sarge to her kid who is still learning boundaries and in her formative years is nonsense.

Tbh, he has no say, esp no man who hasn't even married the woman. (But that's another convo). He needs to calm down and allow the mom to raise her daughter as she deems fit.
 

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Technically he’s right, if they aren’t married. Lily is the moms daughter, not his. They won’t last cause he has a nasty ass attitude & the mom seems passive for now, but it won’t last.
I hope they watch that girl around him. He’s too stern, going on mean.
 

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I would have cussed him smooth out. If I was with him our relationship wouldn’t last.
 

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This relationship will not last. He seems like he would be physically abusive to the entire family. The way he kept cussing at the end and all she could say was yeah says it all
 

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We gonna have to agree to disagree here. I assume they reprimand her when she does something out of line. But this idea that the mom has to be a Drill Sarge to her kid who is still learning boundaries and in her formative years is nonsense.

Tbh, he has no say, esp no man who hasn't even married the woman. (But that's another convo). He needs to calm down and allow the mom to raise her daughter as she deems fit.
I mean, I’m not saying smack her or yell at her but you should be pretty firm about that because what if she hits the wrong kid... a lot of parents don’t play about theirs. I guess to me it comes off as her being too lenient because my little brother has never hit someone while playing as a joke and was taught boundaries early on.
 

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Aww the little girl is adorable and you could tell she was so excited to have the baby around. If she really does go from playing to smacking people that's a lack of discipline from the mother but she seemed like a normal, sometimes rambunctious little kid. He's definitely an asshole through and through, he looked like if those cameras were off and that was a private conversation with family/friends he would've either snatched her up, hit her, or gotten in her face about what he's going to do with "his son." But looking and listening to him it's not surprising. He got the lightskinneded son of his dreams so of course he doesn't want anyone touching the boy or claiming him. He gets to vicariously live all his lightskin't fantasies through this boy so he wants to make sure nothing happens to him. I'm sure this isn't the first time she's seen his controlling side based on her reaction at the end of just getting quieter and quieter so she knows if you lay down with dogs you get fleas.
 

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That little girl is so sweet and precious. Her voice is so angelic and adorable. She's going to be a good big sister I can tell. No comment on the performative clown.
 

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This is honestly scary for the daughter. I don't trust that man with her. Imagine how he treats her when no one else is around. I hope her grandparents step in because the mother is oblivious of that man’s nasty attitude towards her baby girl. He's acting like the little girl is trying to kill her brother.

They were all all over that little girl, every one of them. I feel so sorry for that child.

And she was trying so hard, being so good, with 4 huge adults flipping out over her curiosity and excitement over her baby brother. I can't believe she didn't break down crying with all that tension in the room.
 

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That poor little girl.. she is so adorable and innocent. May God protect both children in that home because that man is a ticking time bomb.

This is a great example of why women need to be more selective with who they have children with. The red flags are all there.

Yep. If I were the grandparents I'd be be letting him know that I have my eye on him and he will regret mistreating either of my grandbabies in any way, shape or form. And I'd be buying my daughter a backbone since apparently she was born without one.
 

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I mean, I’m not saying smack her or yell at her but you should be pretty firm about that because what if she hits the wrong kid... a lot of parents don’t play about theirs. I guess to me it comes off as her being too lenient because my little brother has never hit someone while playing as a joke and was taught boundaries early on.
Maybe (if it's true she's lashing out - didn't see her behave anything other than perfect and extra careful in the clip) if she's hitting it's because she's being neglected and mistreated ever since her mom got knocked up again. If they are all living together they need some family therapy right now. But that would mean he would have to want to create a FAMILY, not just play king of the castle.
 

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Technically he’s right, if they aren’t married. Lily is the moms daughter, not his. They won’t last cause he has a nasty ass attitude & the mom seems passive for now, but it won’t last.
I hope they watch that girl around him. He’s too stern, going on mean.

he proposed to her. But he will truly never feel like it’s his child. You can tell In the tone
 

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They were all all over that little girl, every one of them. I feel so sorry for that child.

And she was trying so hard, being so good, with 4 huge adults flipping out over her curiosity and excitement over her baby brother. I can't believe she didn't break down crying with all that tension in the room.
I felt bad when she was being nice giving her toy anyway to her brother and they were all shouting at her. They could of handled the situation different
 

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But what’s crazy to me how he acts like he knows more about a baby rather than a woman who say there and basically raised it by her self with her mom. Acting like his child is something special
 

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I died when he said the little girl will be playing with you and just smack you

I feel him on that some kids are demons
 

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I died when he said the little girl will be playing with you and just smack you

I feel him on that some kids are demons
I don’t even feel like I’m even mad that didn’t want hold the new born because people are very delicate with their newborn usually.

I just feel bad because you know these children will be treated differently. He wants to marry the mother etc and should of took “step daddy” role since he wanted to be with her and should of thought about it before even dating her etc .

the little girl prob going to act even more out of control because he will clearly mention and slip out when he’s mad “ MY child” “ MY child”
 

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Sigh. Black Men go to White Women who tolerate this sh!t because they know damn well most Black Woman will punch them dead in the throat the minute they got out of pocket with their kid.
 

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