He also comes off like the type of man who will leave her to change the sh!tty diapers... maybe even the pissy ones, too.Um...no. This is a major red flag. The fact that even the toddler had to subdue this grown ass man for the chance to even hold her own sibling was odd. These are the types of men that like to be dramatic AF and show the world how they're such "good" dads, but when sh!t gets tough, he's off playing call of duty or some sh!t.
I can see where he’s coming from because they said you’ll be playing with the little girl and she’ll just smack you... that is not ok and she should be big enough to know better imo. Especially because she’s kindergarten age.I hate when people say "stop babying" a small child. Her daughter is 5 y/o or less. She is a baby fgs. You really wanna be harsh and express tough love with a small child?! A small child who is growing and learning about love and trust. GTFO with that BS.
That's gonna be a tough co-parenting situation if they are to breakup. He is stubborn and inflexible. Good luck
This.Mix match kids, baby daddies, baby mommas calls for a mix match existence.
We gonna have to agree to disagree here. I assume they reprimand her when she does something out of line. But this idea that the mom has to be a Drill Sarge to her kid who is still learning boundaries and in her formative years is nonsense.I can see where he’s coming from because they said you’ll be playing with the little girl and she’ll just smack you... that is not ok and she should be big enough to know better imo. Especially because she’s kindergarten age.
I mean, I’m not saying smack her or yell at her but you should be pretty firm about that because what if she hits the wrong kid... a lot of parents don’t play about theirs. I guess to me it comes off as her being too lenient because my little brother has never hit someone while playing as a joke and was taught boundaries early on.We gonna have to agree to disagree here. I assume they reprimand her when she does something out of line. But this idea that the mom has to be a Drill Sarge to her kid who is still learning boundaries and in her formative years is nonsense.
Tbh, he has no say, esp no man who hasn't even married the woman. (But that's another convo). He needs to calm down and allow the mom to raise her daughter as she deems fit.
This is honestly scary for the daughter. I don't trust that man with her. Imagine how he treats her when no one else is around. I hope her grandparents step in because the mother is oblivious of that man’s nasty attitude towards her baby girl. He's acting like the little girl is trying to kill her brother.
That poor little girl.. she is so adorable and innocent. May God protect both children in that home because that man is a ticking time bomb.
This is a great example of why women need to be more selective with who they have children with. The red flags are all there.
Maybe (if it's true she's lashing out - didn't see her behave anything other than perfect and extra careful in the clip) if she's hitting it's because she's being neglected and mistreated ever since her mom got knocked up again. If they are all living together they need some family therapy right now. But that would mean he would have to want to create a FAMILY, not just play king of the castle.I mean, I’m not saying smack her or yell at her but you should be pretty firm about that because what if she hits the wrong kid... a lot of parents don’t play about theirs. I guess to me it comes off as her being too lenient because my little brother has never hit someone while playing as a joke and was taught boundaries early on.
Technically he’s right, if they aren’t married. Lily is the moms daughter, not his. They won’t last cause he has a nasty ass attitude & the mom seems passive for now, but it won’t last.
I hope they watch that girl around him. He’s too stern, going on mean.
I felt bad when she was being nice giving her toy anyway to her brother and they were all shouting at her. They could of handled the situation differentThey were all all over that little girl, every one of them. I feel so sorry for that child.
And she was trying so hard, being so good, with 4 huge adults flipping out over her curiosity and excitement over her baby brother. I can't believe she didn't break down crying with all that tension in the room.
I don’t even feel like I’m even mad that didn’t want hold the new born because people are very delicate with their newborn usually.I died when he said the little girl will be playing with you and just smack you
I feel him on that some kids are demons