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I am of the opinion that men with more than 50% of their IG posts being pictures of themselves are Narcissists

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People always say this like it’s some type of hot take. You’re allowed to post all the pictures of yourself that you want on your personal Instagram account. You’re not the Instagram police and you’re not a psychologist or psychiatrist. You don’t get to decide how many selfie’s other women post and you have the option to unfollow whoever you don’t want to see photos of.

it’s like some of you think you’re being forced to follow people and it’s weird.
 

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People always say this like it’s some type of hot take. You’re allowed to post all the pictures of yourself that you want on your personal Instagram account. You’re not the Instagram police and you’re not a psychology or psychiatrist. You don’t get to decide how many selfie’s other women post and you have the option to unfollow whoever you don’t want to see photos of.

it’s like some of you think you’re being forced to follow people and it’s weird.
I don't disagree about a person posting what they want on their profile... it is their profile after all

Defensive much?
 

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I don't disagree about a person posting what they want on their profile... it is their profile after all

Defensive much?

You asked for thoughts and opinions and so you got one.

you’re not in the medical field to be trying to say people are narcs for posting photos of themselves on their social media.
Don’t ask for opinions if you don’t really want em.
 

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Honestly if you don't post pictures of yourself on IG ... it's kinda weird if you actually post pictures. I don't post pictures on my IG, but if ANYONE had an IG and had 0 pictures of themselves but other things I would think he/she is weird.
 

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I feel it makes them look vain and effeminate. I can't be into any man who thinks they are finer and prettier than me.
 

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You asked for thoughts and opinions and so you got one.

you’re not in the medical field to be trying to say people are narcs for posting photos of themselves on their social media.
Don’t ask for opinions if you don’t really want em.
You're giving me hit dog holler teas.

I didn't say there was something wrong with someone who posts pictures of themselves here and there... but if I check someone's profile and I see nothing but their face and not much of a caption to offer other than "look at me I'm cute", that leads me to think what I think.

I don't have to be in the medical field to offer what is my assessment, just like you don't get to decide how someone reacts to or assesses something.
 

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This might be unpopular but I do find men into social media a turn off I actually prefer dudes who aren't too into social media or keep it low-key like those dudes that only post memes
 

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You're giving me hit dog holler teas.

I didn't say there was something wrong with someone who posts pictures of themselves here and there... but if I check someone's profile and I see nothing but their face and not much of a caption to offer other than "look at me I'm cute", that leads me to think what I think.

I don't have to be in the medical field to offer what is my assessment, just like you don't get to decide how someone reacts to or assesses something.

Nah now you’re trying to spin it cause you look goofy calling people narcs for posting photos on their sh!t. You enjoy the rest of your day ma’am


Tag me in your next mental health assessment. Maybe it’ll make more sense than this one.
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This might be unpopular but I do find men into social media a turn off I actually prefer dudes who aren't too into social media or keep it low-key like those dudes that only post memes
Agreed...they look like broke bums with too much time on their hands.
 

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IG was made for attractive ppl. All the stipulations around the use of IG and other social media are the ramblings of average and below average looking ppl
 

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And...women aren't?
If you're posting pics 24/7, I'm going to think that you have no life. I don't want to hang around ppl who are constantly posting something.
 

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I mean I prefer for my men not to be on social media but ..... Wait what’s supposed to be posted on their Instagram if it’s not pictures of themselves ?????
 

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I feel it makes them look vain and effeminate. I can't be into any man who thinks they are finer and prettier than me.
so women can have a page full of pictures of themselves but it's weird if men do?

Yall take social media too serious, I see social media as a platform to share and document experiences of yourself and I don't find it weird if men choose to do the same.
 

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I hope ladies wouldn't judge if I was the type of dude to post many selfies of myself.

Some photos like this...
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Or this...
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Or this...
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Or like that...
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Tyrese - How You Gonna Act Like That

Calling myself...
Mr. Sexy
Every time I scroll through my IG Page.
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If I had a IG page.
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:peace
 

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Or maybe they just aren't insecure and actually like the way they look Lmao! The number one sign of a weirdo with no life is a social media page with hardly any pictures of themselves.
 

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Most people’s IGs consist of pictures of themselves, so I don’t agree with this. Now I do agree that people who consistently post pictures of just themselves are insecure or narcissistic (you know the type, they have to post at least 3 pictures of themselves weekly. There’s is no way possible that you need that much validation, definitely a red flag)
 

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That one font 000Hoemisha or whatever her name is wants to talk sh!t than block people before they can see what their last response is.

Maybe because I hit one of their sensitive, insecure... dare I say it, narcissistic nerves?

And I stole some of your alleybux @007misha Have a nice life.
 
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Most people’s IGs consist of pictures of themselves, so I don’t agree with this. Now I do agree that people who consistently post pictures of just themselves are insecure or narcissistic (you know the type, they have to post at least 3 pictures of themselves weekly. There’s is no way possible that you need that much validation, definitely a red flag)
The bolded is what I'm talking about here
 

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Or maybe they just aren't insecure and actually like the way they look Lmao! The number one sign of a weirdo with no life is a social media page with hardly any pictures of themselves.
I have pics of concerts, sporting events, nature, trips, restaurants. Things I have done, etc.

I hate having my picture taken.
Does that make me a weirdo?

It’s a rhetorical question
 
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Love the double standards, but what about women who post pictures of themselves? Are they not vain? They aren't narcissists, too?



Ridiculous.

We all know alot of those "social sciences" studies are BS anyway.
 

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You're not off base at all. I've dealt with a male and female narcissist in the past and both of their social media pages were mostly selfies.

Most narcissists are all about vanity/image especially if they are attractive.
 

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Honestly both men and women that only have selfies/pics of themselves on their IG give me narcissistic teas. Where’s the friend pics, family pics, pics of other sh!t going on in your life? But that’s just me lol
 

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Love the double standards, but what about women who post pictures of themselves? Are they not vain? They aren't narcissists, too?



Ridiculous.

We all know alot of those "social sciences" studies are BS anyway.
Thank you!
I personally feel, irregardless of gender, that documenting every second of your life isn't healthy.
 

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I have pics of concerts, sporting events, nature, trips, restaurants. Things I have done, etc.

I hate having my picture taken.
Does that make me a weirdo?

It’s a rhetorical question
And I'm pretty sure you are in most of them. I was responding to a person saying it's odd to have pictures of yourself but not a page full of nothing but memes.
 

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And I'm pretty sure you are in most of them. I was responding to a person saying it's odd to have pictures of yourself but not a page full of nothing but memes.
I’m in none of the pictures. I don’t do selfies
You won’t find my face on Instagram maybe Facebook but it wasn’t me taking the photo and I didn’t post it

Alright, I went back and looked. I lied.
There is one photo of me in a group where you can pick me out.
There are three others where you’d have to search real hard to find me.
 

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I’m in none of the pictures. I don’t do selfies
You won’t find my face on Instagram maybe Facebook but it wasn’t me taking the photo and I didn’t post it
Ok girl. If that's how you choose to operate your socials that's you. I told you what type of pages I was referring to in my last post. Not what you are describing.
 

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I’m baffled by how this article and the study say nothing about women. Let’s include this thread topic too.
Most dark triad research only talk about men…now that’s weird


Just stoking flames to the notion that something is wrong with men who take pics of themselves, who put effort into how they look. But it's ok when women do it!

Then you wonder why so many men let themselves go and look like slobs.
 

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