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No face, no case.
So my longtime sisterhood group seems to be crumbling. One in the group (I will call her Friend A), I have never really warmed up to. I am really only cool with her because she is a friend of my friend who is also in the group so I tolerate her. I had issues with her a few years ago when we went on vacation and every time we would go out to eat, she would be nasty and rolling her eyes at the waiter/waitress and she always finds something wrong. Then she had nerve to tell me which way to go on our road trip and looking at my gas hand when she did not put in on any gas as she was having hard times. So fast forward to a few months ago, she wanted to have a gathering and the rest of us were not quite comfortable as covid was still floating around. It was her birthday and she wanted to do high contact activities (nail salon, etc) and we were not feeling it and we told her upfront so we did not go but of course wished her happy birthday. We were also going to have a meet up two weeks ago at a restaurant but one of the girls couldn’t make it and she told us upfront because she had to go out of state. So now one of the other ladies birthday is coming up and we are doing a small lunch and we are feeling a little bit safer since we are vaccinated. Friend A has all of a sudden got quiet and told one of the other girls that she isn’t feeling any of us anymore and how she doesn’t like how people cancel.
I don’t get it as we are all women in our 30’s with lives. I have no problem when friends cancel as long as they tell me upfront and do not stand me up. If they cannot make it, I do something for me. I’m just venting.
I don’t get it as we are all women in our 30’s with lives. I have no problem when friends cancel as long as they tell me upfront and do not stand me up. If they cannot make it, I do something for me. I’m just venting.