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No face, no case.
Idk if it’s my personality or something that I’m doing wrong...but I stay attracting friends that don’t care to talk or keep in touch until I hit them first and/or invite them out somewhere. I only have 1 friend (that doesn’t even live in the same city as me unfortunately- she’s a childhood friend from my hometown) that will call me/text from time to time, the rest will just stay mute until I talk to them. It makes me feel a little frustrated that I always have to make more effort to keep friendships alive. It’s strange because these friends in question are always up to hang out when I invite them and we have a good time when we do.
Ever since I moved to a new city in high school all of the friends I have made have been like this tbh. So when we would stop seeing each other everyday the friendships would eventually die and we would drift apart bc I would get tired of the one sidedness and feeling like a beg.
I want to make more friends that are willing to put in more effort but I don’t know where to begin. Especially now that I’ve graduated college and we’re in a pandemic. Has anyone been in this situation and how did you get out of it? I’m 23 if that matters
Ever since I moved to a new city in high school all of the friends I have made have been like this tbh. So when we would stop seeing each other everyday the friendships would eventually die and we would drift apart bc I would get tired of the one sidedness and feeling like a beg.
I want to make more friends that are willing to put in more effort but I don’t know where to begin. Especially now that I’ve graduated college and we’re in a pandemic. Has anyone been in this situation and how did you get out of it? I’m 23 if that matters