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Can someone explain the logic? If you don’t want them just leave them alone and go your way!
It’s like the moment they find out your moving up and on here they come! Tf?
 

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I agree 100%. If you know you don't want a person, just leave them be. And once that person moves on, be happy for them! Don't try to act like you suddenly want them because now they're thriving. That sh!t makes no sense!
 

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I agree 100%. If you know you don't want a person, just leave them be. And once that person moves on, be happy for them! Don't try to act like you suddenly want them because now they're thriving. That sh!t makes no sense!
Amen, I hope anyone I used to LIKE do try to get with me if I ever FIND SOMEBODY!
 
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I agree 100%. If you know you don't want a person, just leave them be. And once that person moves on, be happy for them! Don't try to act like you suddenly want them because now they're thriving. That sh!t makes no sense!
It does to ME!
Y'all lack a basic understanding of human nature and hypergamy.
FOH...If an ex starts coming UP financially and I am single...I'm sliding back around to see what's really hood! His money still my money and IDGAF...well...not all the exes but one in particular that has high income potential...is half-way there.
I wish I WOULD not make a strategic move.
 

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You made a similar thread back in April. But I have always gotten this.
I like when ppl keep up with my crazy posts and threads lol ..... don’t worry the madness will continue!
How you doing today? You feeling better?
 

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It does to ME!
Y'all lack a basic understanding of human nature and hypergamy.
FOH...If an ex starts coming UP financially and I am single...I'm sliding back around to see what's really hood! His money still my money and IDGAF...well...not all the exes but one in particular that has high income potential...is half-way there.
I wish I WOULD not make a strategic move.
Nope I don’t. Never really knew the term hypergamy until I came across it on here.Wait...... how close was you an this ex( married? Engaged? Just in a relationship?) how is their money automatically yours? If you came up would your money automatically be theirs?
 

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If I can’t have you, nobody can logic me thinks. Entitlement.

Exactly what I was going to say. And "If I can't have you, nobody will" rarely ends up well for the person in movies. Can't see it ending well in real life either.
 

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Nope I don’t. Never really knew the term hypergamy until I came across it on here.Wait...... how close was you an this ex( married? Engaged? Just in a relationship?) how is their money automatically yours? If you came up would your money automatically be theirs?
What's understood ain't gotta be explained...

HAHA just kidding...
 
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It's mental illness. As much as it's difficult to get such people out of your face, just push through and move on anyway.
 

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What's understood ain't gotta be explained...

HAHA just kidding...

But we broke up for what we both now realize were superficial reasons and we'd have been much more financially stable growing a couple of business ventures TOGETHER versus apart as well as he doesn't trust anyone else with long-term financial decisions like home ownership, investments etc. I have the business acumen and he has the industry/street acumen to get the sh!t done. Nothing illegal, legitimate business operation with employees. He got something I need, I got something he need...he wanted more time but I bounced.

Sometimes men have to get back out in these dating streets to realize that MOST women are only with them for what they can provide...just like ME, but MOST women aren't worth it, depending on the man's social circle.

Attractive men with cash on hand of just on the cusp of hitting six-figures+ attract a lot of birds...when it is time to circle back around...you gotta get rid of them birds by any means necessary.

Again, It depends on your circle but his six-figures plus mine = where we both prefer to be as far as household income and lifestyle goes...

People don't realize how hard it is for black people to find a life partner/spouse whom they actually LIKE/LOVE AND makes the damned money...and I'm not in the WAG/baller hoe network so whatever middle class dude making the most with the best personality that ain't hard on the eyes is where a b!tch better be in this recession.

Think long term...
Ok
 

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Men like this just either want to keep tabs on you because they're possessive - wanna save you for later...

OR they're literally just mentally ill and bitter
 

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That sounds possessive. Maybe it's an ego thing I don't know what goes on in the heads of those types of people.
 

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Can someone explain the logic?
You're supposed to be moved and touched by their "confusion". If it works, you'll take yourself off the market while you wait for him to "mature". He'll continue to stop by, "torn" by his feelings towards you, but still not being in a position (financially, spiritually, mentally, whatever you'll fall for) to be all of the man that you deserve.
 

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