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Last summer I casually dated this guy who I actually liked, but I had abruptly stopped talking to him around October 2020. We went on a couple of dates and he expressed that he was interested in more than just ''dating''. I agreed to another date but we never set up a date for that.
I know this is a sh!tty thing that I have done, but I had my reasons. I was really depressed and I suddenly was hit with some childhood trauma. I ended up having a nervous breakdown. While going through this I was also in graduate school and I was really really worried and stressed to the max. I was clinically hospitalized in december of 2020 and stayed there for four weeks. After I got out I slowly started to focus on my studies and I managed to graduate. This was last week actually.
I wanted to tell him the reason in January but I was afraid he will judge me or hold this against me at some point idk.
Anyway, at this point I don't think he will ever be interested in me but that's not even the point anymore. I don't want to lay out all of this out, but I genuinely just want to apologize and tell him that it was not him. I just want closure for myself, I have been thinking about him for the past few weeks.
Should I sent him an apology or just let it go? Is it selfish to contact him to apologize after he moved on with his life?
I know this is a sh!tty thing that I have done, but I had my reasons. I was really depressed and I suddenly was hit with some childhood trauma. I ended up having a nervous breakdown. While going through this I was also in graduate school and I was really really worried and stressed to the max. I was clinically hospitalized in december of 2020 and stayed there for four weeks. After I got out I slowly started to focus on my studies and I managed to graduate. This was last week actually.
I wanted to tell him the reason in January but I was afraid he will judge me or hold this against me at some point idk.
Anyway, at this point I don't think he will ever be interested in me but that's not even the point anymore. I don't want to lay out all of this out, but I genuinely just want to apologize and tell him that it was not him. I just want closure for myself, I have been thinking about him for the past few weeks.
Should I sent him an apology or just let it go? Is it selfish to contact him to apologize after he moved on with his life?