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I want to leave. Preferably internationally but the way COVID is going I may be out of luck but I want to relocate somewhere there is life and a better selection of dates. I currently left GA and moved to a city here in Florida and I do not like it here one bit. I have been here since November and I still have not yet bagged a nice fling, a relationship and I haven't fully explored. I feel like it is the area where I am at because when I was in GA there seemed to be a better selection of men, I had flings, and fun. It also might have been the city I was living in GA is my college city. I graduated back in 2015 and remained there due to a job so I had better connections and knew the ins and the outs than I do in the area I am in now.

Sometimes I miss GA but I know I need the growth to move on. I am just not feeling where I am at right now. It's a disaster to my mental health. I have made friends here but nothing spontaneous has happened in my life yet while here. Just the same old boring ass men on the apps
 

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For a change of scenery but this has to be the biggest mistake ever.
Have you considered going to meet ups based off hobbies you like? It might take a little longer but you'd be able to meet a lot of potential boyfriends more organically that way.
 

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If it’s Florida that you are in, don’t walk, listen to that voice and run

ETA: I only read the title, then saw it is FL. My sentiment remains.
 

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Have you considered going to meet ups based off hobbies you like? It might take a little longer but you'd be able to meet a lot of potential boyfriends more organically that way.
Sadly the meet ups in the area aren't centered around black ppl
 

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I'd probably just go to another major city. Maybe Texas could be a place to look into if you're trying to remain in the south? I'm not sure what you're looking for in a place to relocate to besides the social aspect. As for meeting guys, maybe try it out in person rather than the apps? Also (just something to think about), maybe think about why you feel discontent with where you live beyond all of what you've mentioned. Sometimes when we move around looking for things to anchor us, it may just be ourselves that are lacking some security.
 

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I've heard Dallas, TX is a nice city. It's not too far from Houston so that's two major cities you will have.
 

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If it’s Florida that you are in, don’t walk, listen to that voice and run

ETA: I only read the title, then saw it is FL. My sentiment remains.
Agreed.

Fl is hell on earth, for alot of reasons.

OP, Maybe marathon run sprint don’t run out this horrible place ASAP. Don’t wait another moment, start looking and planning today.

Been here too damn long and would have ran like the wind blows if not for family obligations.

Do yourself a favor and save yourself.

Life is surprisingly short.
 

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