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I know this guy since about 3 years. At the beginning he was interested in me romantically and I told him I prefer to be friend only, which he accepted and said he had no problems with.
I met him at a moment I got separated from a long term relationship and just moved in my new flat. I did not know about a lot of things, how to put curtains or to get the furniture to look like real furniture after buying them. As you know most of them arrive into pieces and need work to look like a table, or a bed or cupboard.
Anyway this guy did most of these things for me and we were friends. He would come when I needed help to fix things. We also spoke about different things, had debates, and I used to Ask him advice about the guys I met and different family stuff like a real friend.
1st drama: he worked in a furniture store. When I moved out I did not kept any of my former furniture and I threw or gave most away. They were organizing a special day at his work and he said I should come and he could even get me an additional discount if I buy. So I went there as I was looking for a sofa. I said hello, as he was busy with a client, I started to speak with his coworker. When I went back to him, he was very cold and asked me why I was talking to his coworker, I told him I spoke to whoever I want and I was just being polite.
So I left as I did really felt uncomfortable with his tone, he later apologize and we got on good terms again.
2nd drama: I received a call from him telling me I saw him on the bus and did not say hello. I said no I did not see you, otherwise why wouldn't i have said hello? And I got angry and hung up on him, and stopped taking his calls. Later on I was cooking dinner and I heard the door bell. I openned it was him and he said "as you did not pick up my calls I came directly to speak with you". I said "first don't ever come to my place without asking again and don't bring drama here". He said "you said I was welcome whenever I wanted". I told him I was being polite when I said it and to not take everything at 1st dégrée, which I know he knew very well. And even if I said so I am the only one paying rent so I decide who can come and when.
He later apologized and we were once again friend.
3rd drama: He started acting as if he was very busy, like I would call him, and instead of talking to me or spending some time on the phone as we used to do, he would say he was very busy and would call me later, and this later never arrived. He would then 3/4 days later send me a text as if he did not said anything and would just say "hi, how are you? how are things? I confronted him the first time he did it, saying I did not like it and it was not respectful, he said a quick sorry but he did it again like twice. He never apologized for not calling back. He did that 3 times in total. And now I have just decided to not answer his calls and not even his texts. I will block him, but its funny to see him sending whatsapp, calling, texting and I just don't answer and keep paying him dust.
Whats wrong with some people?
I met him at a moment I got separated from a long term relationship and just moved in my new flat. I did not know about a lot of things, how to put curtains or to get the furniture to look like real furniture after buying them. As you know most of them arrive into pieces and need work to look like a table, or a bed or cupboard.
Anyway this guy did most of these things for me and we were friends. He would come when I needed help to fix things. We also spoke about different things, had debates, and I used to Ask him advice about the guys I met and different family stuff like a real friend.
1st drama: he worked in a furniture store. When I moved out I did not kept any of my former furniture and I threw or gave most away. They were organizing a special day at his work and he said I should come and he could even get me an additional discount if I buy. So I went there as I was looking for a sofa. I said hello, as he was busy with a client, I started to speak with his coworker. When I went back to him, he was very cold and asked me why I was talking to his coworker, I told him I spoke to whoever I want and I was just being polite.
So I left as I did really felt uncomfortable with his tone, he later apologize and we got on good terms again.
2nd drama: I received a call from him telling me I saw him on the bus and did not say hello. I said no I did not see you, otherwise why wouldn't i have said hello? And I got angry and hung up on him, and stopped taking his calls. Later on I was cooking dinner and I heard the door bell. I openned it was him and he said "as you did not pick up my calls I came directly to speak with you". I said "first don't ever come to my place without asking again and don't bring drama here". He said "you said I was welcome whenever I wanted". I told him I was being polite when I said it and to not take everything at 1st dégrée, which I know he knew very well. And even if I said so I am the only one paying rent so I decide who can come and when.
He later apologized and we were once again friend.
3rd drama: He started acting as if he was very busy, like I would call him, and instead of talking to me or spending some time on the phone as we used to do, he would say he was very busy and would call me later, and this later never arrived. He would then 3/4 days later send me a text as if he did not said anything and would just say "hi, how are you? how are things? I confronted him the first time he did it, saying I did not like it and it was not respectful, he said a quick sorry but he did it again like twice. He never apologized for not calling back. He did that 3 times in total. And now I have just decided to not answer his calls and not even his texts. I will block him, but its funny to see him sending whatsapp, calling, texting and I just don't answer and keep paying him dust.
Whats wrong with some people?