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No face, no case.
I am in my 20s btw.
I don't know where else to post this and have not ever spoke about this on LSA until now. I think my mom is jealous of me. I haven't let myself believe it until now. The reason is because she is my mom and your mom is supposed to love you right? Well Idk. My mom is always making backhanded compliments towards me. This has been a thing for YEARS. I could do my hair + makeup, look stylish and feel amazing. Then she will comment on something irrelevant to make my self esteem go down. I think they call it "negging" (on reddit). I don't know why she does this and she wonders why me and her aren't "close". I'm closer to my dad because he accepts me for who I am and its easy to talk with him about any issues I am having, which is crazy! I don't know if this is a common thing but does anyone have any advice for me? I recall being like 14 and trying to let her know that I want to improve our relationship and she went batsh*t crazy on me, and blamed me for our relationship not being close. How? you're the one who raised me... TF? It's not like I was a bad teenager and running the streets. I did everything right. A "good girl". Anyway, ever since then, I have never confided in her ever again. Should I just throw her to the side and never talk to her again or what? She always manages to make me feel terrible about myself every time I talk with her... I don't know why she does this.
I don't know where else to post this and have not ever spoke about this on LSA until now. I think my mom is jealous of me. I haven't let myself believe it until now. The reason is because she is my mom and your mom is supposed to love you right? Well Idk. My mom is always making backhanded compliments towards me. This has been a thing for YEARS. I could do my hair + makeup, look stylish and feel amazing. Then she will comment on something irrelevant to make my self esteem go down. I think they call it "negging" (on reddit). I don't know why she does this and she wonders why me and her aren't "close". I'm closer to my dad because he accepts me for who I am and its easy to talk with him about any issues I am having, which is crazy! I don't know if this is a common thing but does anyone have any advice for me? I recall being like 14 and trying to let her know that I want to improve our relationship and she went batsh*t crazy on me, and blamed me for our relationship not being close. How? you're the one who raised me... TF? It's not like I was a bad teenager and running the streets. I did everything right. A "good girl". Anyway, ever since then, I have never confided in her ever again. Should I just throw her to the side and never talk to her again or what? She always manages to make me feel terrible about myself every time I talk with her... I don't know why she does this.