Pryman
Laid Back
I also use to work with a girl who sounded a lot like the girl in the video, but she was light-skinned...a perfect honey-tone. I heard she eventually had a nervous breakdown. She may have had one before she started working with us. She was very cute, and looked young for her age. She had Caribbean roots, and often talked about her relatives there. She was from the hood in DC, but very religious. She sounded like she may have grew up in Catholic school. When I told her the Bible was hard to understand, she gave me a copy of "The Living Bible", because it was easier to read. I read it all the way through. I still have that Bible.
Yes she was a good girl, and everybody liked her, but she had a tendency to go off sometimes, like the girl in the video. I remember she was very close to this quiet brown-skinned married Puerto Rican brother who also worked with us, who barely spoke english. We all thought they were doing something, and they probably were. Years after I left, I heard she got close to this other married brother we worked with...God bless his soul. It was out that she was actually involved with him. He was darker than the girl in the video, and his mother was even darker than him. He looked young for his age, and his mother looked too young to be his mother. They looked more like siblings. I heard he use to be a school teacher. He was probably a Sunday school teacher, and that's what probably helped attract her to him. He was a very cool headed brother. But when he had to call it off, I understand that sent her into a nervous breakdown.
I myself, found out she was a little too emotional the hard way, when I once asked her out. That's when she went off on me like the girl in the video...lol. About a half hour later, she sounded like she wanted to change her mind. But by that time, I was saying to myself, "That's okay"...lol. But we still had a good friendly relationship. Somewhere down the line she gave me a copy of the Bible that I mentioned earlier. I remember she went off on me again years later, when during a general conversation about relationships, I told her that people don't really know what they want until it's there. I wasn't talking about her, but I think that's the way she took it. It wasn't like I sounded angry at anybody when I said this to her. I was actually thinking about this short girl who I dated before, who I had no ideal I would kinda fall in love with....some girl who I was hurt by, and she was hurt by me. Back to my co-worker, I guess me asking her out years ago was still in her subconscious. Because like I said, when I talked about people not knowing what they wanted until they have it, she turned even more into the girl in that video on me...lol. She was like, "I know what I want", "Can't nobody tell me I don't know what I want", "Because I know what I want!!!". And she was getting louder and louder. I was trying my best to relate what I was saying to a different scenario, without talking about another woman, but she wasn't backing down. I had to let the conversation go, which I seldom do.
I never shared anything about this on the job, or the fact that I once asked her out in the past, until my last week on the job. That's when I found out she went off before on a few other brothers over nothing as well. She was a nice girl though, however very depressed most of the time. I also found out she was older than me, but I never found out by how many years. I hope she's doing okay today, wherever she is.
Yes she was a good girl, and everybody liked her, but she had a tendency to go off sometimes, like the girl in the video. I remember she was very close to this quiet brown-skinned married Puerto Rican brother who also worked with us, who barely spoke english. We all thought they were doing something, and they probably were. Years after I left, I heard she got close to this other married brother we worked with...God bless his soul. It was out that she was actually involved with him. He was darker than the girl in the video, and his mother was even darker than him. He looked young for his age, and his mother looked too young to be his mother. They looked more like siblings. I heard he use to be a school teacher. He was probably a Sunday school teacher, and that's what probably helped attract her to him. He was a very cool headed brother. But when he had to call it off, I understand that sent her into a nervous breakdown.
I myself, found out she was a little too emotional the hard way, when I once asked her out. That's when she went off on me like the girl in the video...lol. About a half hour later, she sounded like she wanted to change her mind. But by that time, I was saying to myself, "That's okay"...lol. But we still had a good friendly relationship. Somewhere down the line she gave me a copy of the Bible that I mentioned earlier. I remember she went off on me again years later, when during a general conversation about relationships, I told her that people don't really know what they want until it's there. I wasn't talking about her, but I think that's the way she took it. It wasn't like I sounded angry at anybody when I said this to her. I was actually thinking about this short girl who I dated before, who I had no ideal I would kinda fall in love with....some girl who I was hurt by, and she was hurt by me. Back to my co-worker, I guess me asking her out years ago was still in her subconscious. Because like I said, when I talked about people not knowing what they wanted until they have it, she turned even more into the girl in that video on me...lol. She was like, "I know what I want", "Can't nobody tell me I don't know what I want", "Because I know what I want!!!". And she was getting louder and louder. I was trying my best to relate what I was saying to a different scenario, without talking about another woman, but she wasn't backing down. I had to let the conversation go, which I seldom do.
I never shared anything about this on the job, or the fact that I once asked her out in the past, until my last week on the job. That's when I found out she went off before on a few other brothers over nothing as well. She was a nice girl though, however very depressed most of the time. I also found out she was older than me, but I never found out by how many years. I hope she's doing okay today, wherever she is.
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