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she already had her sonI really hope this guy is not using Shalom. Been watching her videos since I was a teen. I pray that she has a safe pregnancy and eventually they get married.
she already had her sonI really hope this guy is not using Shalom. Been watching her videos since I was a teen. I pray that she has a safe pregnancy and eventually they get married.
Cute baby and she looks beautiful.
She has given birth . The baby looks a split image of the fatherI really hope this guy is not using Shalom. Been watching her videos since I was a teen. I pray that she has a safe pregnancy and eventually they get married.
Yeah, I don't follow her like that, but I know most Nigerian women would ideally won't to marry someone from their tribe, or if not then the mindset that it is okay along as it is still black (at least in my family). But admittedly, Nigerian men are not always caring and soft like how some of this yt men can be, and I wonder if she had bad experiences with Nigerian/black men, but I do notice that black women who do have scaring or things like that tend to get with lighter skinned or yt guysmaybe some will agree or not, but i could just tell that she wasn’t gonna be with someone.. black/nigerian. her preference seems to be white or light skinned. based on that video she did revealing her scars to some guy who was her crush, i figured that was her type.
she then ends up pregnant by some guy she hasn’t known that long? she also mentioned that she was “trying” beforehand and only got pregnant by her now boyfriend, seems a bit sus to me but like someone mentioned before, shalom seems like she just wants to be loved
Baby has husband's colouring but her headshape, I wonder how he would look like when he is a few years old
BFFRBut admittedly, Nigerian men are not always caring and soft like how some of this yt men can be,
He definitely is using her. Not only that she is the provider in the relationship. This isn’t going to end will.I really hope this guy is not using Shalom. Been watching her videos since I was a teen. I pray that she has a safe pregnancy and eventually they get married.
Fixed it for you babe .Baby has boyfriend's colouring but her headshape, I wonder how he would look like when he is a few years old
He definitely is using her. Not only that she is the provider in the relationship. This isn’t going to end will.
All I can say is only time will tell, and this is the happiest Shalom has been since her mom passed. I really hope this guy is the one for her, even though I was skeptical at first myself it's bad vibes to be negative about someone else's relationship. You have to also remember that Shalom is a burns victim, and it took her a lot of come out of her shell and be comfortable in terms of dating a lot of men are shallow and won't see past that so maybe she feels that her options are limited so rushed into this. Taking this into consideration you have to understand and kind of give her a pass for this. I wish she could have took it slower and didn't have the baby so quickly, and took the boyfriend as practice tbh.All I know her man ain’t never gonna marry her lmaoo she gonna be Shameless Maya in a year or 2 .
Her son really came out looking like his daddy lolll these biracial kids not looking biracial anymore they taking the strong genes.
Fixed it for you babe .
That’s not really true lol Miles , Yara, and Zendaya etc all have black fathers but are in the fairer skin tone as well. Even Diddy’s current biracial daughter is on the fair side and looks Asian so does Jennie Mai’s daughter so I think currently biracial kids are taking their mother’s skin tone no matter how dark their father may be.All I can say is only time will tell, and this is the happiest Shalom has been since her mom passed. I really hope this guy is the one for her, even though I was skeptical at first myself it's bad vibes to be negative about someone else's relationship. You have to also remember that Shalom is a burns victim, and it took her a lot of come out of her shell and be comfortable in terms of dating a lot of men are shallow and won't see past that so maybe she feels that her options are limited so rushed into this. Taking this into consideration you have to understand and kind of give her a pass for this. I wish she could have took it slower and didn't have the baby so quickly, and took the boyfriend as practice tbh.
IMO most biracial people who have white fathers tend to come out looking fairer compared to ones who have black fathers. You are what your father is after all.
I never said all do, I said most tend to look more white passing if their father is white. And I'm talking about IRL people I have met not celebrities.That’s not really true lol Miles , Yara, and Zendaya etc all have black fathers but are in the fairer skin tone as well. Even Diddy’s current biracial daughter is on the fair side and looks Asian so does Jennie Mai’s daughter so I think currently biracial kids are taking their mother’s skin tone no matter how dark their father may be.
Also, you can be happy for Shalom but the truth is the truth lol her man is really not benefiting or itching to make her his wife lol he’s comfortable with her being the baby mama. Most men kinda know if they want you as a wife or a baby mama. I don’t see them getting married at all.
Once you have a man’s child before marriage, they don’t feel obligated to marry you lol. Only a small minority might do so but majority of them won’t .
Yara Shahidi's dad is not black. He's from the middle east.That’s not really true lol Miles , Yara, and Zendaya etc all have black fathers but are in the fairer skin tone as well. Even Diddy’s current biracial daughter is on the fair side and looks Asian so does Jennie Mai’s daughter so I think currently biracial kids are taking their mother’s skin tone no matter how dark their father may be.
Also, you can be happy for Shalom but the truth is the truth lol her man is really not benefiting or itching to make her his wife lol he’s comfortable with her being the baby mama. Most men kinda know if they want you as a wife or a baby mama. I don’t see them getting married at all.
Once you have a man’s child before marriage, they don’t feel obligated to marry you lol. Only a small minority might do so but majority of them won’t .
Sis I wasn't talking about middle eastern fathers in the first place. My original post said biracials with white fathers tend to be fairer/white passing than biracials with black fathers.Yara Shahidi's dad is not black. He's from the middle east.
How do you know?He definitely is using her. Not only that she is the provider in the relationship. This isn’t going to end will.
I am shocked that Shalom a Nigerian girl would allow herself to get pregnant before getting married. The African culture is strict about thatHe really did lock her down quick. I mean she has a nice house with lovely garden, steady big income (i assume).and if he's a struggling musician,/dj that's a home for free.
I always fail to understand how a woman can get pregnant less than a year after meeting someone..do you even really know the person? (especially that he was away a lot). But the gal did ask him for a baby for Christmas and that must've been 5 months after meeting! I would love to know what his family and friends really trully think about the situation.
I heard someone say about women protecting our wombs and it made sense to me...if you're gonna have a baby, make sure the foundations are well laid/secure, ideally in a marriage coz a bf is just a bf. (Ofcourse different story for women to choose to have a baby alone).
Anyway..my 2 cents...sorry if I'm rumbling on.
Shalom isn't a traditional Nigerian girl, she is actually more Americanized tbh.I am shocked that Shalom a Nigerian girl would allow herself to get pregnant before getting married. The African culture is strict about that
I am shocked that Shalom a Nigerian girl would allow herself to get pregnant before getting married. The African culture is strict about that
Two things can be right at the same time. I have a cousin who was born in the states and is Americanized, but still had a traditional African wedding. At the end of the day it’s all about how the African parents raised their children in the states.Shalom isn't a traditional Nigerian girl, she is actually more Americanized tbh.
Well tbh Shalom's mom passed before she even had a boyfriend and a baby, I'm sure the idea of marriage and having a traditional wedding would have been pushed upon her if she was still here. Her family do not live with her so she's more free spirited to do as she pleases.Two things can be right at the same time. I have a cousin who was born in the states and is Americanized, but still had a traditional African wedding. At the end of the day it’s all about how the African parents raised their children in the states.
Having WLS at 150 lbs is insane. Why not just go get lipo? She has permanently altered her stomach for life.*Cough*Cough- Latest Video @13:30
No one saw that she said she had weightloss surgery? I think she is such a beautiful girl (at her heaviest & now) but she comes off very very naive. I know she suffers from insecurities due to scars and depression but having WLS when you are 20lbs overweight?
5'3 and ONLY 150lbs! She would not have been approved for it over here in the US. She was way too small. She went to MX. I really hope she gains some wisdom over the next few years, she has a baby to raise.
Patricia Bright also had weight loss surgery and she was pretty slim. Actually I think she said she had it done twice.*Cough*Cough- Latest Video @13:30
No one saw that she said she had weightloss surgery? I think she is such a beautiful girl (at her heaviest & now) but she comes off very very naive. I know she suffers from insecurities due to scars and depression but having WLS when you are 20lbs overweight?
5'3 and ONLY 150lbs! She would not have been approved for it over here in the US. She was way too small. She went to MX. I really hope she gains some wisdom over the next few years, she has a baby to raise.
That’s crazy. Are you sure we are talking about the same thing here? WLS is a serious procedure that requires a lot of approvals and appointments before you can get the surgery. I know several people who have had it done and they had to speak to a therapist first along with other things like nutritionist etc. They’re cutting your stomach open and making it smaller.Patricia Bright also had weight loss surgery and she was pretty slim. Actually I think she said she had it done twice.
Exactly I just had surgery last Sunday and the process was longThat’s crazy. Are you sure we are talking about the same thing here? WLS is a serious procedure that requires a lot of approvals and appointments before you can get the surgery. I know several people who have had it done and they had to speak to a therapist first along with other things like nutritionist etc. They’re cutting your stomach open and making it smaller.
If you had WLS done twice, that is super risky. Idk what doctor would even do that. Especially on a patient under 200 lbs. It means she went back to eating unhealthy after the surgery and stretched her stomach back out.
That’s what I’m saying. It’s giving eating disorder. Why on earth does someone her size need WLS? A couple months of working out would do her just fine. This new wave of smaller girls going to different countries to get WLS is scary. I’m only referring to them as smaller because the surgery is traditionally only for obese people.Exactly I just had surgery last Sunday and the process was long
You have to speak to a nurse, nutritionist and psychiatrist multiple times before they sign off on your file
Attend seminars, read a thick ass book, demonstrate that you can successfully stick to a healthy lifestyle
Shalom wouldn’t have been approved which is why she drove to Mexico to get it done
You need to have a bmi over 40 to be considered. This is just sad
Shalom explained in her vlog that she was experiencing really heavy periods that lasted 40 days and was so bad that she had to go the hospital for a blood transfusion. From then she watched a YouTuber who had a similar experience and thought she may also had PCOS so she went to a doctor for a diagnosis and they confirmed she had it, she was prescribed medication which also wasn't working to help regulate her symptoms.When did she have the surgery? Looking at her social media pics, she could hit the gym and be fit and toned in 30 days or less.
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What's going on here Educatedwiseone this quoite is from the riding on little d thread lol
I got eating disorder vibes from her long ago. I remember watching her Snapchat stories and she would talk about “occasional bingeing”. When she would do clothing hauls she would announce she got all her clothes in a size small. She didn’t announce her sizes when she was bigger though. Speaking as someone with an eating disorder, I’m very perceptive to these subtleties.That’s what I’m saying. It’s giving eating disorder. Why on earth does someone her size need WLS? A couple months of working out would do her just fine. This new wave of smaller girls going to different countries to get WLS is scary. I’m only referring to them as smaller because the surgery is traditionally only for obese people.
I think her boyfrinds parents live where there are very few black people so thats probably why they were acting unsure about the food.Just watched Shalom's vlog. It was nice. She had a small group of girlfriends over for a Valentine's get together. It was cute. Nyma was there! It was cool spotting her. She looked great. Very slim and trim. She looks so tall but I remember seeing somewhere she's maybe like 5,2 or 5,3. And so was one of those twins. Ashley Alissa? Not the one who had a blonde short cut years ago.
The baby's paternal grandparents flew over from England. Shalom loved having them around to meet her son. It made her sad to know that he won't meet her mom or have grandparents on her side to get to know. This was the first time I ever heard Shalom mention her own father. He's in Nigeria and she does not have a good relationship with him. The baby may never meet him. So she's glad he will at least have active grandparents on his dad's side. They're planning to visit England in early fall with the baby.
Because the UK has tons of Nigerians, I was actually surprised that her man's parents hadn't heard of Nigerian cuisine before. I don't know, they seemed very apprehensive about it. It could be that British demeanor or they don't really interact with others outside their circle. That egusi is Shalom's man's favourite meal. Well now they have some exposure because their grandbaby is half Nigerian.
Her older sister moved out. It's just her, her man, her son, and younger sister now.
Her older sister moved out. It's just her, her man, her son, and younger sister now.