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So my grandfather has been a huge role in my life, seeing as I had no father growing up. I used to adore him until lI grew up and saw what a misygonistic POS he is.
He treats all the women in the family like sh!t. He has made my grandma cry, humiliated her in front of us with degrading jokes-scratch that he has done that with all the women in the family. He talks to us crazy and if you call him out on it, he gets mad like you should've never said anything in the first place. He has particularly tried to come for me because I'm not afraid to tell him when something isn' funny or when he is being rude. He basically said, "How can the youngest with no man or friends be tryna tell me what to do." And when I stopped talking to him for weeks for that comment he tried to come back like nothing was wrong.
He ridiculed me and made me CRY when I shaved my head. Called me all kinds of lesbians and dikes and some other stuff I try not to remember.
He made a sick joke about me and my stepdad basically, "Don't wear shorts around the house, your DADDY *he said it in sly voice* could be watching through the camera." He laughed and when me and my grandma told him that was gross to even laugh about he flipped the script, "Hold on, you know what I meant. DOn't take it out of context."
He coddles the men of the family, they are always laughing and joking, I asked him as he ever talked nasty to them the way he has to us. Of course he said yes but I'm sure he never has. The men in the family are weak and have always depend on women.
My grandfather has only had smoke for the women, the ones that actually come to his rescue to drive him around or cater to him when he's sick.
Some will say because he was a boomer and grew up in that tough era that that's his nature but I'm sure there are plenty of grandpas who are kind and nurturing. Of course we have our moments of laughter but he's like a ticking time bomb. It can be peaceful then he says a fµcked up joke and if you don't laugh or correct him he comes for you and will try to break you down.
The women have talked about it and we all feel the same way but no one has really has respectfully told him about himself except for me. My mom has but she is the "black sheep" because she has always butt heads with him so he'll ignore her for weeks.
Again the men don't say anything because he is always Kiki-ing it up with them. They use him for money and for outings. They are never around to move anything but when it's time for hooters and tits, they're there.
I just needed to vent because he recently tried to fear monger me about my car. "You need to get that light bulb changed, someone could run into you or the cops could stop you." And proceeds to say, "It's not that serious, it's just alight it can easily be fixed." I was like, than why are you making it seem like its life or death. I didn't even know about the light because obviously I can't see the back of the car.
Anyway, this man. Part of me can't wait till he passes, hopefully before my grandma because she has been STUCK in the house doing whatever he wants to do. No adventures, n having fun, just same old routine she expressed she wish she could break out of.
He treats all the women in the family like sh!t. He has made my grandma cry, humiliated her in front of us with degrading jokes-scratch that he has done that with all the women in the family. He talks to us crazy and if you call him out on it, he gets mad like you should've never said anything in the first place. He has particularly tried to come for me because I'm not afraid to tell him when something isn' funny or when he is being rude. He basically said, "How can the youngest with no man or friends be tryna tell me what to do." And when I stopped talking to him for weeks for that comment he tried to come back like nothing was wrong.
He ridiculed me and made me CRY when I shaved my head. Called me all kinds of lesbians and dikes and some other stuff I try not to remember.
He made a sick joke about me and my stepdad basically, "Don't wear shorts around the house, your DADDY *he said it in sly voice* could be watching through the camera." He laughed and when me and my grandma told him that was gross to even laugh about he flipped the script, "Hold on, you know what I meant. DOn't take it out of context."
He coddles the men of the family, they are always laughing and joking, I asked him as he ever talked nasty to them the way he has to us. Of course he said yes but I'm sure he never has. The men in the family are weak and have always depend on women.
My grandfather has only had smoke for the women, the ones that actually come to his rescue to drive him around or cater to him when he's sick.
Some will say because he was a boomer and grew up in that tough era that that's his nature but I'm sure there are plenty of grandpas who are kind and nurturing. Of course we have our moments of laughter but he's like a ticking time bomb. It can be peaceful then he says a fµcked up joke and if you don't laugh or correct him he comes for you and will try to break you down.
The women have talked about it and we all feel the same way but no one has really has respectfully told him about himself except for me. My mom has but she is the "black sheep" because she has always butt heads with him so he'll ignore her for weeks.
Again the men don't say anything because he is always Kiki-ing it up with them. They use him for money and for outings. They are never around to move anything but when it's time for hooters and tits, they're there.
I just needed to vent because he recently tried to fear monger me about my car. "You need to get that light bulb changed, someone could run into you or the cops could stop you." And proceeds to say, "It's not that serious, it's just alight it can easily be fixed." I was like, than why are you making it seem like its life or death. I didn't even know about the light because obviously I can't see the back of the car.
Anyway, this man. Part of me can't wait till he passes, hopefully before my grandma because she has been STUCK in the house doing whatever he wants to do. No adventures, n having fun, just same old routine she expressed she wish she could break out of.