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I'm 23 in college and met a guy at a bar. He said he was 27 and lived with his brother and sister and could we ever come out. I was wary but he was persistent. He begins to text me quite often, and asks can we hang out at either a hotel or his friends house since his brother is always there. We go to another bar and I get a peak of his ID and see that he's actually 35 and look him up at home and he's married with a pic of the wife as his profile pic. We've kissed and almost had xes but he didn't have a condom. He met his wife online and she traveled to his country to meet him and bought a house and pays all the bills while he cheats.... I'm devestated.
 

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You haven't slept with him and you didn't know he was married so how are you a side chick?? Just leave him alone OP. I don't know what other advice you're looking for. Nothing good comes out of dealing with a married man.
 

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"We go to another bar and I get a peak of his ID and see that he's actually 35"

Fake. This story has already been told. But anyway, why are you devastated about this situation when he told you he only wanted to use you for xes?

*this message will self destruct in an uncertain amount of time*
I feel like an idiot, I hate the idea of being used.
 

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You know if you walk away from this and never look back nobody will ever have to know about what you almost did.

Despite knowing all this y’all still love to run up here and tell us all your stupid decisions & spend your whole afternoon reading the comments of us dragging and judging you. Why? Why?

Grown ass women at that.
 
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I'm 23 in college and met a guy at a bar. He said he was 27 and lived with his brother and sister and could we ever come out. I was wary but he was persistent. He begins to text me quite often, and asks can we hang out at either a hotel or his friends house since his brother is always there. We go to another bar and I get a peak of his ID and see that he's actually 35 and look him up at home and he's married with a pic of the wife as his profile pic. We've kissed and almost had xes but he didn't have a condom. He met his wife online and she traveled to his country to meet him and bought a house and pays all the bills while he cheats.... I'm devestated.

Why are you devastated? This lying clown is no loss. Before you start getting comfortable, having feelings etc., investigate the men you meet. Block and end it all or you will be posting a thread that's worse than this...
 

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Why are you devastated? This lying clown is no loss. Before you start getting comfortable, having feelings etc., investigate the men you meet. Block and end it all or you will be posting a thread that's worse than this...
What about the wife?
 

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If you wanted to just walk away you would have, but instead here you are complaining about a situation you continue to involve yourself in......
 

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Ain't nobody gonna put no damn spell on you, call the wife just for saying some stupid crap like that lol
 

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Girl you're 23. You can find another guy who isn't a loser. Why would you want that energy in your life? Also, he threatened to have someone put a curse on you like leave his dusty ass alone and the wife probably knows that he cheats on her anyway.
 

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Girl you're 23. You can find another guy who isn't a loser. Why would you want that energy in your life? Also, he threatened to have someone put a curse on you like leave his dusty ass alone and the wife probably knows that he cheats on her anyway.
I was minding my business that day and he just came with nothing good at all.
 

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I'm 23 in college and met a guy at a bar. We go to another bar and I get a peak of his ID and see that he's actually 35 and look him up at home and he's married with a pic of the wife as his profile pic. We've kissed and almost had xes but he didn't have a condom. He met his wife online and she traveled to his country to meet him and bought a house and pays all the bills while he cheats.... I'm devestated.

You're in college and still don't know the difference between peek and peak?
 

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What about the wife?
Stay out of it. Mind your business. The man done told you that he will fµck you up if you chat. Have a sense of self preservation, nuh man!
You can only save yourself in this situation. Cape for yourself! A normal minded person whose wish wasn't to become a side chick would be grateful that they haven't given up the pussy to an unscrupulous man.
It's like you aint grateful. Don't seek no drama, now..you hear? Just take away yourself from this man. You have all the power to do if you keep your nosy self out of his bidness!
 

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What about the wife?
Stay out of it. Mind your business. The man done told you that he will fµck you up if you chat. Have a sense of self preservation, nuh man!
You can only save yourself in this situation. Cape for yourself! A normal minded person whose wish wasn't to become a side chick would be grateful that they haven't given up the pussy to an unscrupulous man.
It's like you aint grateful. Don't seek no drama, now..you hear? Just take away yourself from this man. You have all the power to do if you keep your nosy self out of his bidness!
 

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OP, this isn't your fault. He lied to you and is a fraud. Just cut his unfaithful potential cheating ass out of your life.

I remember a guy asked me out once and even after going out with him, he kissed me. We went out a couple more times only to find out later that the bastard had a girlfriend on the side but according to him, they were "taking a break".

Women are always blamed for men's deliberate mistakes.
 

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What about the wife?
Stay out of it. Mind your business. The man done told you that he will fµck you up if you chat. Have a sense of self preservation, nuh man!
You can only save yourself in this situation. Cape for yourself! A normal minded person whose wish wasn't to become a side chick would be grateful that they haven't given up the pussy to an unscrupulous man.
It's like you aint grateful. Don't seek no drama, now..you hear? Just take away yourself from this man. You have all the power to do if you keep your nosy self out of his bidness!
 

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So allegedly you sitting at a bar meeting men during an epidemic?

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This gives me Karey13 teas. Stop asking strangers on the internet to tell you how to feel for this non-issue. This entire story is tragic. You barely know this supposed man who lied about his age and he married and does not want you and at the same time threatening to put a root or something on you but you in total devastation and begging fonts to tell you what feelings to have for the wife. Please go read a book and hush Incog.
 

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People love being victims to situations they created themselves. Get the hell on while you still can.
 

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You didn’t even have xes. Move on and stop being an overdramatic person. There is nothing to be devastated about.
 

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He said it was only about xes and nothing deeper and if I tell his wife he will call someone in his family to put a spell on me. They've been married a little over a year.
Lmao WTF !! I'm sorry OP I lost it at him threatening to put a spell on you

Whats he gonna do , wave his hands above his hand with his magic wand and say" abrah ka dabra b!tch" lmfaoooooo

ETA , and Idc if his from Mars , no ones scared of his hocus pocus
 

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