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Is it okay for a 19 year old girl to hook up with a 24 year old guy?

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But! On the other hand, I do find it a bit strange when the guy is the older one in the relationship, so idk. 19 and 24 ain't too bad though, they are both still young. That age difference wouldn't matter in 5 years.
 

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Why the hell are you asking us? Do what you want. I don’t understand some of you younger millennials...you don’t need the internets permission. Be your own person. My lord.
 

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I'm glad I wasn't on lsa around that time because that's all I'd be doing. Never thought it was a problem and that's all I was attracted to. At 21 I didn't think it was bad being with a guy 29+.
 

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Does this age difference sound weird. I am not looking for a relationship but I want to hook up with him. He is fine as hell, I am hoping to smash :love:

It's legal but you gone let a guy smash just cuz you think he fine NVM you not getting into a relationship with him but part of me says what about his character.
 

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Op is about to have her entire life fµcked up.

I sincerely hope that young lady has some old heads in her life that she can talk to outside of this space because some of the things she’s posted in the last couple of weeks are a little concerning especially when it doesn’t seem from the outside looking in like she’s taken any time to work on herself. If she wants to fµck she’s gonna fµck but I hope she realizes casual xes right after a breakup at her age is a potential recipe for disaster. That age difference isn’t much and ultimately doesn’t matter but the emotional maturity or lack of it definitely does.
 

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It’s not okay for someone as mentally fragile as you to be entertaining the idea of xes with anyone at this moment. You just came out of a relationship where a guy was buying you a promise ring who then cheated and now you jumping into xes with some random. You need to be focusing on studying and doing well on your finals. You were just upset about not doing so well on a quiz.
I want better for you juicy.

Lmfao I agree with what you’re saying but I HATE how this website can get so personal :cry: it’s like you guys know OP in real life just from like 1 thread she posted... her occupation, her love life, her age, and now her xes life looool

Anyway OP, I say do what you want. I don’t think the age gap is a big deal although the fact that you had to come on here to ask for approval means that you’re probably not completely comfortable with it? I say communicate with him properly, use protection and gaurd your feelings. Never let him have the upper hand
 

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Why the hell are you asking us? Do what you want. I don’t understand some of you younger millennials...you don’t need the internets permission. Be your own person. My lord.

OP makes the most mundane threads “how do I go to the bathroom?” “How do I walk across the street to the store?” And people are really on here telling her to go fµck someone. Why? So two days later she can tell us she’s in love then three days later tell us she’s cold hearted.

The girl is a mark. Easy to swindle. Easy to finesse. She’s simple and doesn’t know nearly as much as she thinks she does.. the type that winds up in prison because a man talked her into doing some wild sh!t.

If anything encourage her to get a therapist, real life friends, and some discernment.
 

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No, I can care less about my ex. I have already gotten over the situation so I am not worried about either one of them. There's nothing wrong with me hooking up with this guy and I am not doing it to make him jealous. I don't even have his number anymore, my number is changed, and I am hooking up because I want too.
Stay in school.
 

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OP makes the most mundane threads “how do I go to the bathroom?” “How do I walk across the street to the store?” And people are really on here telling her to go fµck someone. Why? So two days later she can tell us she’s in love then three days later tell us she’s cold hearted.

The girl is a mark. Easy to swindle. Easy to finesse. She’s simple and doesn’t know nearly as much as she thinks she does.. the type that winds up in prison because a man talked her into doing some wild sh!t.

If anything encourage her to get a therapist, real life friends, and some discernment.
She gets on my damn nerves!
 
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Wow. I really need to read a font‘s post history before posting a comment. She must be very uneducated about xesual health and protection if she had multiple pregnancy scares. Women with low self-esteem shouldn’t even date. I bet the reason why this guy is trying to hook up with her is because he can smell her insecurities and knows she’s an easy prey who will do about anything if he presses the right buttons.


Please OP, take a break from men. You have enough on your plate already. Focus on your studies and your mental health and educate yourself about safer xes. If you continue like this you will end up a teen mom and don‘t think your hookup partner will stick around to play family.
Who even knows if anything she posts about is true. She is an attention seeker. She literally comes on here once a week with a new chapter to her urban lit novel. I don't believe a thing this poster writes.
 

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The thing is Op makes multiple threads about her love life, the thought process that she has in said love life as well as her educational life and family life .

It’s easy for anyone with a brain to know how the OP thinks because she will literally tell you in every thread that she makes. The only reason I know her love life and educational life is because she uses LSA as a diary instead of speaking to a therapist that could help her through her thought process instead of posting here.

It would be evil of me to tell her, someone who can’t even communicate to men without the permission of the internet to go and fµck this man.
Lmfao I agree with what you’re saying but I HATE how this website can get so personal :cry: it’s like you guys know OP in real life just from like 1 thread she posted... her occupation, her love life, her age, and now her xes life looool

Anyway OP, I say do what you want. I don’t think the age gap is a big deal although the fact that you had to come on here to ask for approval means that you’re probably not completely comfortable with it? I say communicate with him properly, use protection and gaurd your feelings. Never let him have the upper hand
 

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The thing is Op makes multiple threads about her love life, the thought process that she has in said love life as well as her educational life and family life .

It’s easy for anyone with a brain to know how the OP thinks because she will literally tell you in every thread that she makes. The only reason I know her love life and educational life is because she uses LSA as a diary instead of speaking to a therapist that could help her through her thought process instead of posting here.

It would be evil of me to tell her, someone who can’t even communicate to men without the permission of the internet to go and fµck this man.
Yeah I know, I’m just saying it’s funny how we can all know that much about people through threads and how information carries over. I don’t pay attention to who posts what so I always get surprised when fonts bring up things that other fonts have said in other threads. I won’t even lie, I’ve said a lot about my life in different threads too but I just don’t remember what other fonts say about themselves cause I rarely read the names.
I said this same thing in another thread when two fonts said something about Megan the Stallion being ugly then another font brought up the fact that one of them had her kids taken away and the other font was an escort
 

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op, don't do it.

5 years may not be much to some, but dating older men "casually" can fµck you up. i've seen it happen and its happened to me.

they make you feel like you're more mature than you actually are and if that relationship ends and you take that attitude into a relationship with a man closer to your age - it can be a recipe for disaster. for instance, you may get comfortable having unprotected xes with him because he has experience "pulling out". then you move on to another guy closer to your age who doesn't have that experience (but thinks he does) and now you're knocked up.

just protect yourself and seek counseling outside of the internet - like from a therapist or close family member/mentor with sense. go down to the health dept and get birth control if you're not already on it and don't let him convince you to not use condoms.
 

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I can't do it with your threads anymore I swear to god

It's like watching a train wreck in real time

Please stay away from men for a while and go to therapy PLEASEEEEE
 

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Just use protection and dont get pregnant.

Nothing wrong with wanting to just smash. One day you will be older and committed and you might wish you would have smashed some super fine men when you were young and single.
 

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Well I was 19 when I met my ex who was 27 at the time so like....

My ex was/is a man-child btw. It was like I was the grown adult in the relationship and he was the teenager.
 

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