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Keke Palmer: "I don’t believe in girlfriend and boyfriend. I’m single till I’m married. Let’s just kick it until you ready."

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I honestly don't understand this perspective at all. If they're not boyfriend and girlfriend, are they in an exclusive relationship or not? I always thought if a person can't be faithful during that stage, it's highly unlikely they'll change after marriage.
Thank you! The point of a relationship (at least for me) is to show me who you are so I'll know if you're marriage material. If y'all are just kicking it then you can't see how he'll be in a committed partnership. You'll only know him as a friend.
 

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This is the type of thing someone with relationship problems would use as am excuse to feel “empowered”.
 

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Is this going to be a 2021 remix of the long ass thread “if you aren’t married you’re single” .. and other subsequent variations of it ? I wish Keke the best in her relationship endeavors.
 

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She fµcked someone else and instead of being called a cheater. She would rather send this message out.
 

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After dealing with men who still want to “kick it” after years, or men who have multiple baby mamas, and yet still aren't ready for marriage, I can understand her sentiment. :disdain

When short term xes is often the #1 goal for a lot of men, it makes the dating pool even colder.
Jeannie Mai married a man with two baby mamas and he married her.
 

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This is how you end up in some polyamory shizznit. Don't be mad when you end up in a harem with sisterwives
 

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I honestly don't understand this perspective at all. If they're not boyfriend and girlfriend, are they in an exclusive relationship or not? I always thought if a person can't be faithful during that stage, it's highly unlikely they'll change after marriage.

Thank you! The point of a relationship (at least for me) is to show me who you are so I'll know if you're marriage material. If y'all are just kicking it then you can't see how he'll be in a committed partnership. You'll only know him as a friend.
All of this. I get the concept of single until married in theory, but I’m not built for it. How someone conducts themselves as a boyfriend/girlfriend, is a good indicator of the kind of spouse they will be. I wouldn’t want to get engaged to a man who was seeing other women the previous week. We both need to know we can be content with solely one another before marriage.
 

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Ya'll get offended by people who say the same sh!t ya'll day. It's so bizarre.
 

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Itd be more convincing if she hadnt moved at least one dusty "not boyfriend" into her whole house.
 

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She is against men trying to lock her down knowing they don't want to marry her. You know the type. They string women along and want all the benefits of a wife without the marriage title.
 

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I disagree. There’s no point in being a relationship then or “claiming” someone if you still consider yourself single. By legal definition, absolutely, you’re still “single” but if we are exclusively seeing each other, no, I’m not single. That means you don’t entertain others. Several fonts made a similar thread a while ago.
 

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Such an outdated, conservative mentality, very American as well. Glad I'm European, and living in 2021. Marriage is not a "goal" in and of itself here - thank god, because it's not for everyone (for most actually, if you look at the divorce statistics). And personally, I have no interest in it. But, to each their own.
 

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I feel sis on this one but then I'm into the poly dating thing so my view is a bit skewed lol
 

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So basically one of those white boys told her he doesn’t believe in labels and let’s “go with the flow”
 

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I disagree. There’s no point in being a relationship then or “claiming” someone if you still consider yourself single. By legal definition, absolutely, you’re still “single” but if we are exclusively seeing each other, no, I’m not single. That means you don’t entertain others. Several fonts made a similar thread a while ago.
I thought that was her whole point though. Like your first sentence would be the mind set of the man who she is saying she is not willing to entertain. shrugs shoulder
 

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Why some of yall acting brand new?? Isn't this is what yall preach to the women in jane doe alley? I swear some yall some flip floppin weirdos.
 

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Ya'll get offended by people who say the same sh!t ya'll day. It's so bizarre.
THISSSS BROOO!! And them acting daft like they don't get that its a figure of speech. Obviously, she knows she's dating when shes seeing someone but she's saying that she's not putting all her eggs in one basket or putting her all in when it's not reciprocated. Like everyone should! DURRRR!!!
 

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LOL. I remembered this post as soon as she revealed her pregnancy when all the birds were trying to defend her having a baby without being married. "Everybody doesn't want to be married". That's what they always say when defending a woman who decided to become a baby mama.

Yes. Everybody doesn't want marriage. But Keke DID want marriage and she settled for being a baby mama.

I started to go back and find this post when the birds were screaming that "Everybody doesn't want marriage crap" but I didn't feel like scrolling back a long time.
 
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