Thank you! The point of a relationship (at least for me) is to show me who you are so I'll know if you're marriage material. If y'all are just kicking it then you can't see how he'll be in a committed partnership. You'll only know him as a friend.I honestly don't understand this perspective at all. If they're not boyfriend and girlfriend, are they in an exclusive relationship or not? I always thought if a person can't be faithful during that stage, it's highly unlikely they'll change after marriage.