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The problem is that lots of black men seem to be giving everything they have to white women. And every other woman who isn’t black.I've heard alot of women say they just don't have the personality or assertiveness that they like. That black men typically have.
THANK YOU!!!It's honestly embarrassing..black women limit themselves this much to men that generally would wife up a snail if it had an ass.
I would date a white man. I don’t discriminate but my preference is a black man.Answer the question.
I think the ancestors would be happy with thatabsolutely not. My goal in life is to die never kissing a white man or ever seeing a white man's dick in person.
Wouldn’t that just mean no man has earned that right? For the black that show they “undeying devotion maybe they haven’t experienced themselves the hate that black men spew. They’re more likely just attracted to black men and can’t see themselves with anyone else society today is so internet social that half the time we pass up a potential near us.In my opinion there is nothing wrong with only dating black men. Most races of people prefer their own. However with the way things are in the black community, I will never understand this undying loyalty to men that have publicly said in large numbers they prefer other women. We have black women thinking marriage is oppressive and being a baby mamma is liberating.
And this is because statistically there aren’t enough black men to go around, they know this and a lot of them leverage it. And when you put standards up such as height, money, education, attraction, marriage, values, children, colorism etc you quickly realize how few black men there really are. Talk all you want but over half of today’s black women will die never being married if they’re waiting on a special type of black man to save them.
There are 70 million more men than women in this world, so by sheer numbers if you open your options you’re more likely to find a good man that fits your standards. Not saying he has to be white, there’s plenty of Asian, Arabic, Indian men that love black women. But when I hear black women state their undying loyalty to men that realistically have not earned it nor do they feel the same way, I feel bad for y’all. Because statistically most of you will not get the “king”. It’s impossible based on the number of black men that fit the bill. and if anything giving respect to men that haven’t earned it shows they don’t have to and they will not act better when you reward them with everything for nothing.
It’s impossible for a black woman not to see the hate black men post for us in the media. Perhaps if she has the “preference” phenotype it just doesn’t effect her but she notices.Wouldn’t that just mean no man has earned that right? For the black that show they “undeying devotion maybe they haven’t experienced themselves the hate that black men spew. They’re more likely just attracted to black men and can’t see themselves with anyone else society today is so internet social that half the time we pass up a potential near us.
So awood, you're ls from what I remember. You don't consider yourself the preference ? Why not ?It’s impossible for a black woman not to see the hate black men post for us in the media. Perhaps if she has the “preference” phenotype it just doesn’t effect her but she notices.
You’re coming up with a what if scenario but even if you took all the black men back from preferences we still outnumber them.
maybe lower the standard just like how women are broadening their options? Yeh? If you are a black women with a Asian, latino African or white man. More chances than not there will be colorism with your children. Until society is one accord with one another, leaving behindyou put standards up such as height, money, education, attraction, marriage, values, children, colorism etc you quickly realize how few black men there really are.
Asian, Arabic, Indian men that love black women.
There are no what if scenario these situations happened and are happening. Total difference. I hope if you see a black man that meets all your criteria’s you don’t pass him up for something trivial. Cause from the fonts on here I’m seeing it A LOT. sh!t is petty.It’s impossible for a black woman not to see the hate black men post for us in the media. Perhaps if she has the “preference” phenotype it just doesn’t effect her but she notices.
You’re coming up with a what if scenario but even if you took all the black men back from preferences we still outnumber them.
I'm light skin but not racially ambiguous(think Chloe Bailey,Raven Simone etc lighter but don't look like biracials), I would say I'm treated better than most darker skin women, but the fact that is happens at all is concerning.So awood, you're ls from what I remember. You don't consider yourself the preference ? Why not ?
maybe lower the standard just like how women are broadening their options? Yeh? If you are a black women with a Asian, latino African or white man. More chances than not there will be colorism with your children. Until society is one accord with one another, leaving behind
Judgement or ethnic race and skin color we’re far from that.
The values you’re referring to sound like it’s coming through media you’re hearing on the internet, radio and television. If you watch more Tv and radio I’ll take it more seriously but honestly if you’re going by social media accounts they can larp as what ever they want. Even then that isn’t values.
money. Now how i look at money is that it comes and goes. It’s not something you should value in a relationship cause you aren’t looking at them for what they are. But what they can provide for you. Which is nice but. Someone can spoil to the end of your life time but can be kicking you up your ass. On top of that like I said before money comes and goes so one minute I could be a making 100k and could lose it all in a instant. Case in point the Covid pandemic. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high now? Why people aren’t getting married? Funny but not funny at the same time.
attraction is subjective which goes back to preference a black women could see a high value black man that checks all the list on her “perfect man’s list” but one thing that doesn’t stick is him not being x y or z whether it be her preference to race a certain height, his manhood the list goes on.
to me you’re using statistics that don’t equate to the numbers of todays age. The only stat on how many black males vs females are from 2018. That’s outdated. But I’ll try to see if I can find a more recent up to date version.
You took what you wanted out of my statement and ran with it like a triggered pantsy, Never once did I say " Do not date black men", I said consider your options because It is okay to have standards for your partner.There are no what if scenario these situations happened and are happening. Total difference. I hope if you see a black man that meets all your criteria’s you don’t pass him up for something trivial. Cause from the fonts on here I’m seeing it A LOT. sh!t is petty.
From your experience dating interracial , do other people see you as unambiguous?I'm light skin but not racially ambiguous(think Chloe Bailey,Raven Simone etc lighter but don't look like biracials), I would say I'm treated better than most darker skin women, but the fact that is happens at all is concerning.
Exactlyyy what kind of garbage comment was that? I will NEVER lower my standards just to be able to say I have black love. Black men are not the only race of men In the world. It’s funny because what folks consider high standards is just the bare minimum but sadly the bare minimum is a lot to black menYou haven't quoted any statistics to refute what I'm saying so really all of this is an opinion. I never said ALL black men are anything. Just that the number of black men that fit the bill of what black women are looking for is not that high. Money is important, money pays bills and supports children. No one is a gold digger look up the cost of housing and child care in America.
You're advocating for lowering standards just so that we can say our man is black? Black men aren't lowering their standards to be with black women, they just aren't, almost a quarter of black men that marry(2017 stat), marry outside of their race and mixed women are considered black by the census so who knows truly how many black men marry their own.
I've been called redbone and light skin by white guys but they don't question if one of my parents is non-black. I have 4A hair and pretty black features. both of my grandmothers were creole/light skin and I have 2 dark skin grandfathers which led to me having a dark skin parent and a brown skin parent and I'm generally on the border between light skin and light brown, but I can get brown in the summer.From your experience dating interracial , do other people see you as unambiguous?
We act like white women and asian women don't have even higher standards, because most of them are going for the richer black men. Black women have the lowest standards as a collective.Exactlyyy what kind of garbage comment was that? I will NEVER lower my standards just to be able to say I have black love. Black men are not the only race of men In the world. It’s funny because what folks consider high standards is just the bare minimum but sadly the bare minimum is a lot to black men
you can do what ever you want, you said that there are not just white men, but there are Asian, Indian, Arabic that love black women how have they earned that right? Half the time with interracial couples like that, just like with black men . it becomes a thing you teach your child ( if you have children) about society in terms of colorism/ and being color struck. Also a side note You named 3 black men off the top of your head. that were with what you classified as black women or women of color. Am I right?You're advocating for lowering standards just so that we can say our man is black? Black men aren't lowering their standards to be with black women, they just aren't, almost a quarter of black men that marry(2017 stat), marry outside of their race and mixed women are considered black by the census so who knows truly how many black men marry their own.
why would they question it. You show “your self” around a white woman and a asian woman. Which to me already tells who you are affiliated with. Nothing wrong with that though.I've been called redbone and light skin by white guys but they don't question if one of my parents is non-black. I have 4A hair and pretty black features.
I think you’re just trolling at this point, the person asked me if white people think I’m racially ambiguous and I answered them. Me having a white friend and an Asian friend shows nothing, am I only supposed to have black friends? Comparatively yes I am light skin, I am however not biracial or biracial passing.you can do what ever you want, you said that there are not just white men, but there are Asian, Indian, Arabic that love black women how have they earned that right? Half the time with interracial couples like that, just like with black men . it becomes a thing you teach your child ( if you have children) about society in terms of colorism/ and being color struck. Also a side note You named 3 black men off the top of your head. that were with what you classified as black women or women of color. Am I right?
> Exactlyyy what kind of garbage comment was that? I will NEVER lower my standards just to be able to say I have black love. Black men are not the only race of men In the world. It’s funny because what folks consider high standards is just the bare minimum but sadly the bare minimum is a lot to black men.
@Evanoelle there are “black women” that have stated on here that either A. I don’t want to be with or is questioning to be with this man because height, penis size, xes, weight, money, education. Etc the list goes on. My question to that is all those Barriers that place on a man. Have you found one yet still? Will broadening the horizon be truly different? Honestly believe it comes down to preference then afterward settling even though it’s not what you thought it was going to be. No man or women is 100% perfect in every way possible. Women want that but it’s not the case.
why would they question it. You show “your self” around a white woman and a asian woman. Which to me already tells who you are affiliated with. Nothing wrong with that though.