So I saw this movie last night where Ryan Goslings character said something that made me think.
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- Men are more romantic than women because men resist marriage our whole lives until we meet that one girl and say "I'd be an idiot not to marry this girl"
- Women just seem to choose the best option available because she feels like she should settle down. "Well, he's got a good job"
I can't personally agree all the way. I know guys that enter relationships and get married just because they get tired of chasing girls in the club, and when the girl they're with starts demanding commitment they just kind of go along with it. But I'd still be interested in hearing this from womens perspective, since ya'll are from Venus and all.
Do you think there is something to it? I think some women have a more mechanical view of relationships and marriage. I see in some threads here that a lot of you talk about relationships as an exchange (commitment, money, xes, security, "I'm not going to give him this until he's done that", etc.) instead of just going along with the flow of things.
I also saw this study ( http://www.mensfitness.com/women/dating-advice/are-you-her-back-plan) that said half of married women have a plan B. Kind of like when my man Big Seans ex fiance just married her homie on the same date she was supposed to marry Big Sean. Statistics show that women more often initiate marriages, but that they also initiate divorce 70% of the time. Was marriage just one of those things they had to do in order to maintain their facade? ( https://www.washingtonpost.c om/ne...hy-women-are-more-likely-to-initiate-divorce/)
Is Ryan right or wrong about women and romance?
[video=youtube;dFTVvNWwzjs]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFTVvNWwzjs[/video]
- Men are more romantic than women because men resist marriage our whole lives until we meet that one girl and say "I'd be an idiot not to marry this girl"
- Women just seem to choose the best option available because she feels like she should settle down. "Well, he's got a good job"
I can't personally agree all the way. I know guys that enter relationships and get married just because they get tired of chasing girls in the club, and when the girl they're with starts demanding commitment they just kind of go along with it. But I'd still be interested in hearing this from womens perspective, since ya'll are from Venus and all.
Do you think there is something to it? I think some women have a more mechanical view of relationships and marriage. I see in some threads here that a lot of you talk about relationships as an exchange (commitment, money, xes, security, "I'm not going to give him this until he's done that", etc.) instead of just going along with the flow of things.
I also saw this study ( http://www.mensfitness.com/women/dating-advice/are-you-her-back-plan) that said half of married women have a plan B. Kind of like when my man Big Seans ex fiance just married her homie on the same date she was supposed to marry Big Sean. Statistics show that women more often initiate marriages, but that they also initiate divorce 70% of the time. Was marriage just one of those things they had to do in order to maintain their facade? ( https://www.washingtonpost.c om/ne...hy-women-are-more-likely-to-initiate-divorce/)
Is Ryan right or wrong about women and romance?