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Men see woman who have xes with them outside of a relationship as desperate

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If you have xes with a man outside of a relationship, hes gonna see you as desperate.

Same thing with a man who is in the friend zone. Women see him as lame and desperate for sticking around when she doesnt give him xes
 

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But if you’re sex!ng him outside of a relationship do you care how he sees you. Clearly you don’t think he’s worthy to make your man and only good enough for some dick.
 

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Well I guess I must be desperate even tho mine booked a trip for us soon.

Yeah real desperate.

Not every Women wants a relationship right off the bat even if she’s intimate with him also.

I was in a draining relationship two years ago… I’m not in any hurry to be tied down without making sure the red flags check out.
 

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Learn something new everyday.

I have to tell this to all my girlfriends who fµcked the first night then married him.

This is shocking info!
 

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Not saying youre desperate or not. But thats how men see you.

They wont admit it cuz then theyre cockblocking themselves

They look at you like dang she just throwing this pussy at me i guess ill see whats up w that
Well I guess I must be desperate even tho mine booked a trip for us soon.

Yeah real desperate.

Not every Women wants a relationship right off the bat even if she’s intimate with him also.

I was in a draining relationship two years ago… I’m not in any hurry to be tied down without making sure the red flags check out.
 

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Not saying youre desperate or not. But thats how men see you.

They wont admit it cuz then theyre cockblocking themselves

They look at you like dang she just throwing this pussy at me i guess ill see whats up w that
Men know from the first couple dates if they can see themselves with you. Intimate or not.

Some Boys may look at Women as desperate but they never had any intentions of doing right by her anyway from the beginning. Boys think like this not real Men.

Ya, read/listen to anything and apply it to all.
 
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They generally rationalize any and everything as being a negative towards a woman vs. not realizing they aren’t relationship material.
 

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Women still care what men think? The same ones that will get married and cheat on the wedding night.

If you have to police your vagina, play games, beg for commitment, wait 97 days, pretend you like sports or whatever, just get a vibrator.
 
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You have a man with grills on and Bantu knots as your profile pic but I’m supposed to take your opinion seriously??

Nah I’m good lol
 

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Or maybe she just wants dick and nothing else and he's just her dirty little secret that she would never care to show off in the open. Ever think of that?
 

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But if you’re sex!ng him outside of a relationship do you care how he sees you. Clearly you don’t think he’s worthy to make your man and only good enough for some dick.
Mmm there's a font on here who's having xes with someone who told her he's "not ready for a relationship" even after she asked. A lot of women have xes with men because they think it'll bring them closer to a relationship. It rarely does.
 

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But if you’re sex!ng him outside of a relationship do you care how he sees you. Clearly you don’t think he’s worthy to make your man and only good enough for some dick.
Tell that to the Romance Alley and Jane Doe Alley fonts who wanna fµck into relationships
 

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Mmm there's a font on here who's having xes with someone who told her he's "not ready for a relationship" even after she asked. A lot of women have xes with men because they think it'll bring them closer to a relationship. It rarely does.
That’s different she actually wants a relationship from the jump. (I saw that thread also).

I never first start talking to a guy with out letting him know that’s what I’m looking for in the end of whatever relationship we develop because I know I look for red flags out the gate.
 

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These sweeping generalizations kill me. Each and every person is different. And if a guy or girl isn’t interested in taking things to the next level, xes isn’t going to change that. I hate how everything is seen from a male’s viewpoints. Women can also just want xes and nothing more. Or juggle multiple xesual or non-xesual relationships.
 

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But if you’re sex!ng him outside of a relationship do you care how he sees you. Clearly you don’t think he’s worthy to make your man and only good enough for some dick.
I know I’m probably gonna be called a pick-me for this but most of the time if a woman could have a relationship with these men outside of friends with benefits or hookups then they would.

Most of the time it’s the other way around
 
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It’s truly sad how much it bothers random ppl that some women are not pressed for relationships and enjoy casual xes. We exist and are perfectly fine, it must be miserable constantly yearning after men and putting their worthless opinions on pedestals. I call up n!ggas when i want, how I want and where I want and they jump. Sometimes i respond to their texts others i don’t and they JUMP
 

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It’s 2021 and y’all still talkin about what men think like we give af lmao

It’s so sad, these fonts in here agreeing and trying to gameify dating all the time are usually the ones who have the most trouble finding someone to be in a relationship with. But they care so much about what men think.

Like if you wanna have xes with someone, do so safely. Who cares whether a relationship comes out of it or not? Is HE worth being in a relationship with? Y’all are always trying to measure a woman’s worth but will let any old dusty man be with you if given a chance. Now that’s what’s desperate.
 

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Mmm there's a font on here who's having xes with someone who told her he's "not ready for a relationship" even after she asked. A lot of women have xes with men because they think it'll bring them closer to a relationship. It rarely does.
Truth. And whole time not having one orgasm. It’s such a shame.
 

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As long as that D is hitting my spot and those cashapps are hitting my bank account, he can think whatever he wants. Idc! I’m sure I have my thoughts about what his “is” as well…
 

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That's weird. I never seen a woman I had xes outside of a relationship as desperate.
 

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Men would rather coerce women into having xes than have women immediately consenting. Anything outside of that you're a hoe. They see it as some kind of victory if they manage to convince a woman to have xes with them, like they've conquered something
 

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You know what I might have agreed with you if I hadn’t gone through the opposite not too long ago.


I consider myself very prudish and have only slept with men within a relationship but I was like let me try something different and the guy ended up asking me to be his girlfriend the same night we slept together.... so I guess it depends on the guy OP
 

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Mmm there's a font on here who's having xes with someone who told her he's "not ready for a relationship" even after she asked. A lot of women have xes with men because they think it'll bring them closer to a relationship. It rarely does.
Right, we’re not gonna sit here and act like the majority of women are having xes outside of a relationship because THEY don’t see the guy as worthy to be her man. It usually is, majority of the time, the other way around. Most of these threads on here are women who are being intimate with men and trying to navigate around the fact that they do not have the upper hand in the situation despite the fact that they’re sleeping with him (and giving him many other things that he didn’t earn).

Idk about men seeing us as DESPERATE simply for having xes outside of a relationship though. I think they only see us as desperate when they KNOW that we’re sleeping with them to try to change their minds about being exclusive. Outside of that, I don’t think so. Women who can actually be in a true FWB situation and not try to use it as a side door into a relationship don’t come off desperate at all. But MOST TIMES, that’s not the case. Are there women that can do it? Yes. But are they few and far between? Also yes.
 

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Not saying youre desperate or not. But thats how men see you.

They wont admit it cuz then theyre cockblocking themselves

They look at you like dang she just throwing this pussy at me i guess ill see whats up w that
That says more about him than her. He must have low self esteem if he thinks her wanting to fµck means she's easy. A self drag if you will
 

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Not saying youre desperate or not. But thats how men see you.

They wont admit it cuz then theyre cockblocking themselves

They look at you like dang she just throwing this pussy at me i guess ill see whats up w that

Don’t let them fool you, they care when they realize the damage they’ve done to themselves physically and psychologically. It’s usually around mid late twenties when they begin to break down mentally.
 

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This may be true for some, but it works out for others. I have slept with men before a relationship and ended up in long-term relationships. I have friends who do the same things and it's 10 years single for them, different strokes for different folks.
 

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Case by case thing. Honestly I know it’s hard when you’re a horny 20 something that wants experience but seriously...

...dating men without physical intimacy is a game changer and will make you see men a LOT differently.
 

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I’ve heard a lot of men say this. And while that might be true for them, I don’t think every man thinks the same. Also, most of these ****** are not a prize anyways.
 
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If you have xes with a man outside of a relationship, hes gonna see you as desperate.

Same thing with a man who is in the friend zone. Women see him as lame and desperate for sticking around when she doesnt give him xes
Desperate for what? Dick or relationship?
 

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