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Men see woman who have xes with them outside of a relationship as desperate

Brenda Leigh

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Men would rather coerce women into having xes than have women immediately consenting. Anything outside of that you're a hoe. They see it as some kind of victory if they manage to convince a woman to have xes with them, like they've conquered something

They really can be so disgusting.
 

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I don't think desperate is necessarily the right word but a lot of the time, the respect goes down. What makes it worse is that VERY often women try to use xes, even children as a bargaining chip into a stable romantic relationship and it rarely works out. They think because the man keeps coming back (for xes) and gives them some pillow talk that the relationship is evolving, but it's on a hamster wheel.

We all know couples who slept together the first night and are still together, but those situations are rare. More often than not the OP is right, a FWB/Fuckbuddies situation is the female equivalent of The Friendzone.
 

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"Who cares what men think"
"Youre a male-lidentified pick me
"You worship men"


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Its almost like... we're straight or something.
 

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there's a font on here who's having xes with someone who told her he's "not ready for a relationship" even after she asked. A lot of women have xes with men because they think it'll bring them closer to a relationship. It rarely does.
Tell that to the Romance Alley and Jane Doe Alley fonts who wanna fµck into relationships
Right, we’re not gonna sit here and act like the majority of women are having xes outside of a relationship because THEY don’t see the guy as worthy to be her man. It usually is, majority of the time, the other way around. Most of these threads on here are women who are being intimate with men and trying to navigate around the fact that they do not have the upper hand in the situation despite the fact that they’re sleeping with him (and giving him many other things that he didn’t earn).

Idk about men seeing us as DESPERATE simply for having xes outside of a relationship though. I think they only see us as desperate when they KNOW that we’re sleeping with them to try to change their minds about being exclusive. Outside of that, I don’t think so. Women who can actually be in a true FWB situation and not try to use it as a side door into a relationship don’t come off desperate at all. But MOST TIMES, that’s not the case. Are there women that can do it? Yes. But are they few and far between? Also yes.
Im tryna put yall on game





Desperate for what? Dick or relationship?
Just desperate, period.
 

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A cut buddy is a cut buddy. Some men are just not sensual so they shouldn't be dating women who they don't want a relationship with period.
 

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But if you’re sex!ng him outside of a relationship do you care how he sees you. Clearly you don’t think he’s worthy to make your man and only good enough for some dick.
Lmfao is that why the children out of wedlock rate is at 77.7%
Women just love to struggle and stay in poverty alone?? Nice spin
 

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If you have xes with a man outside of a relationship, hes gonna see you as desperate.

Same thing with a man who is in the friend zone. Women see him as lame and desperate for sticking around when she doesnt give him xes
Oh ok.
 

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how everyman thinks according to o.p.:

i was planning on asking for her hand in marriage; but, we had xes after only 6 months of dating so now i refuse to propose to that desperate hoe.
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i was planning to just use her as a one-nite-stand; but, she says she will make me wait until marriage so i will propose to her tomorrow.
 

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Women still care what men think? The same ones that will get married and cheat on the wedding night.

If you have to police your vagina, play games, beg for commitment, wait 97 days, pretend you like sports or whatever, just get a vibrator.
Yes. This thinking makes for great male/ female interactions. I guess us Black women should just jump into bed with any man who probably hates us, doesn't respect us, doesn't even know our middle name, and will abandon us after an orgasm and pregnancy.......oh wait.
 

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If you have xes with a man outside of a relationship, hes gonna see you as desperate.

Same thing with a man who is in the friend zone. Women see him as lame and desperate for sticking around when she doesnt give him xes
First part is true. Second part is questionable.
 

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Mmm there's a font on here who's having xes with someone who told her he's "not ready for a relationship" even after she asked. A lot of women have xes with men because they think it'll bring them closer to a relationship. It rarely does.
This is the most common thing.
 

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