KindIntruder
MVP
I'd say it's hypocritical if you don't subscribe to the idea traditional/biological gender roles, and it's not if you do. Tbh, asking how much money someone makes just like that, specially in the first few dates, just feels a bit gauche for me no matter the gender and it probably means the person is just looking for a bag... Nobody likes to feel like a goods and services provider when looking for love and companionship. On the other hand, I'm not American and the last time I went on a first date was about half a decade ago when I was 23 so maybe I'm the one that's out of touch, lol.