My boyfriend got another girl pregnant

Should I stay with him?

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Hey LSA! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now and we have been doing really well in our relationship. We have been making plans to live with eachother in the future and moving out of state together. So he went silent on me this weekend and then he calls me telling me some girl is saying he got her pregnant. Mind you she is 8 months along. He told me about her before and said she was a friends with benefit situation, and that she wanted to make it into a relationship so he left her.

He didnt cheat. But still I am not sure if I want to stay with him knowing he has a baby on the way. He told me he doesnt want to be with her and that he want to be with me. I told him Im not positive we could be together if the babybis actually his, and suggested we could be friends. He said no because he wouldn’t be able to handle him seeing me with other guys.

Also since he told me this, he has not responded to any of my calls or texts and I am starting to feel like all of this trouble isnt worth it. Especially because I have been so loyal to him and he knows I have more options. I just really like him but he is just making it difficult for me to handle being together right now. Why am I doing all of the fighting? Should I stay?

Any advice?
 
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OT: Who gifted incog with all the Thot gifts, lmaooooo!! ETA: Nevermind I see who it was. :skull:

Anyway, personally I would part ways, but you're going to do what you want to do any way, so good luck.
 
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I personally wouldn’t stay but this happened to one of my friends and they stayed together and eventually got married. Do what you feel like is right for you though.
 
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Incog, read the writing on the wall, ok? Six months is absolutely not long enough, to even have conversations regarding moving in together....and out of state? On top of that disaster, he's ignoring you. At this point, you're begging for his attention and for all you know, he's entertaining someone else....THAT is why you're being ignored.

WALK AWAY, before you make a bigger fool of yourself over him.

Might want to Google "future faking" and help yaself.
 
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From the title alone, I guess I'm sorry this is happening to you. I stopped reading after finding out y'all only been together 6 months! I also saw a line saying he hasn't responded to any of your calls. Those two facts would make me leave him alone. I'm kinda cold so it dont take much for me to drop men.
 
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Just the title of this post alone, are you fucking serious? Why the fuck haven’t you washed your hands of him? Go ahead and be a step mom have fun with that shit and his cheating ass. Some of you on here are beyond pathetic. Wtf.
 
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he knows I have more options. I just really like him but he is just making it difficult for me to handle being together right now. Why am I doing all of the fighting?
You just answered your own question. GO with your gut feeling. You don't feel good about it already. He is not answering your calls or text. Do you want to be in a difficult situation and waste your time for years to come? You sound young and you stated you have options. You can go and find another man and in the future create your own family.

You only been with him for 6 months. This may be a blessing in disguise.
 
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If the paternity results come back positive and you stay with him despite the fuckery, the only one ima feel sorry for is the baby.

Ask yourself this OP: if you found out you were pregnant after you began dating him, what would his reaction have been??
 

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