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My boyfriend got another girl pregnant

Should I stay with him?

  • Hell no

  • Yes, you’ll make a good step mom


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Who are you? Internet person lol
you have THE MOST posts on LSA, 200,000+ posts, thats absolutely insane. ive been on some forums in my life and never seen a number like that. i saw some people on here with 20k and thought they were crazy, you blow them out the water

edit: the fonts have clarified its not one person :oops: you can stop quoting me now:ROFLMAO: still keeping this up as its funny af
 
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I mean if you want to wait a month for the baby to be born to find out if the baby is his you could do that. But if it is his baby, are you ready to be a stepmom?
 

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Yall have never been in a relationship and it shows
Babygirl, you don’t love yourself... and it shows. :arrogant

You’re willing to carry a lot for a man you’ve only known 6 months. I’m not sure what encouraging advice you were seeking, but some of us value ourselves more and would leave a man for less. I wish you the best of luck in this RelAtiOnShiP.
 

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you have THE MOST posts on LSA, 200,000+ posts, thats absolutely insane. ive been on some forums in my life and never seen a number like that. i saw some people on here with 20k and thought they were crazy, you blow them out the water
Incogneato is a general account where any and everybody can post embarrassing info or posts that might identify them.

Go to Ask Alley forums and you'll see a lot of Incogneato threads/posts. It can be any font thats posting
 

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you have THE MOST posts on LSA, 200,000+ posts, thats absolutely insane. ive been on some forums in my life and never seen a number like that. i saw some people on here with 20k and thought they were crazy, you blow them out the water
Incog isn’t ONE font. Everyone can use incog, dear. Lol
 

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Not gonna lie, this EXACT thing happened to me (except I think I was 4 months in).

I was very young, very stupid, and listened to the advice of others. "Oh, he's a good guy, he was upfront, give it a chance"

Based on experience, I'ma tell you that you're too early in this relationship to deal with the bµllsh!t that you're about to encounter. Wish his poor decision-making ass and his ratchet pregnancy-hiding baby momma the best and move on with your life.
 

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I think it just depends on how serious you want to be. If you think this is a marriage match, I'd rethink it, just because everytime he pays child support it is ultimately money that could be used to support you and your household/future kids.

If you just want a boyfriend to have fun with and companionship it is not a big deal.
 

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you have THE MOST posts on LSA, 200,000+ posts, thats absolutely insane. ive been on some forums in my life and never seen a number like that. i saw some people on here with 20k and thought they were crazy, you blow them out the water
Please read the rules before you embarrass yourself any further. Incogneato is any font that wants to post anonymously. It's not just 1 person.
 

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I mean if you want to wait a month for the baby to be born to find out if the baby is his you could do that. But if it is his baby, are you ready to be a stepmom?
They are so the paternity test now so We will know sooner than that. I dont want to be a stepmom. I feel like I have too much to offer to put up with all that.
 

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you have THE MOST posts on LSA, 200,000+ posts, thats absolutely insane. ive been on some forums in my life and never seen a number like that. i saw some people on here with 20k and thought they were crazy, you blow them out the water
Baby... Incog is a feature to hide your font. The 200k posts are from hundreds of different fonts.
 

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you have THE MOST posts on LSA, 200,000+ posts, thats absolutely insane. ive been on some forums in my life and never seen a number like that. i saw some people on here with 20k and thought they were crazy, you blow them out the water
Shhhh! Anyone can be incogneato. See that Posting as Anonymous underneath the reply box? Select that and your post will be incogneato and not your username.
 

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Hey LSA! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now and we have been doing really well in our relationship. We have been making plans to live with eachother in the future and moving out of state together. So he went silent on me this weekend and then he calls me telling me some girl is saying he got her pregnant. Mind you she is 8 months along. He told me about her before and said she was a friends with benefit situation, and that she wanted to make it into a relationship so he left her.

He didnt cheat. But still I am not sure if I want to stay with him knowing he has a baby on the way. He told me he doesnt want to be with her and that he want to be with me. I told him Im not positive we could be together if the babybis actually his, and suggested we could be friends. He said no because he wouldn’t be able to handle him seeing me with other guys.

Also since he told me this, he has not responded to any of my calls or texts and I am starting to feel like all of this trouble isnt worth it. Especially because I have been so loyal to him and he knows I have more options. I just really like him but he is just making it difficult for me to handle being together right now. Why am I doing all of the fighting? Should I stay?

Any advice?
Many of you need to be sitting in a therapist's chair working on your self-esteem instead of in relationships. This is just so sad.
 

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I never accuse people of trolling bc life can be crazy. But this is some kind of stupid and I truly think this is a troll
 

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I am waiting on the paternity test results.

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Incogneato is a general account where any and everybody can post embarrassing info or posts that might identify them.

Go to Ask Alley forums and you'll see a lot of Incogneato threads/posts. It can be any font thats posting
oh ok im new here. thought it was all the same person lmaoooo because they all sound like the same person
messy af
 

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You’re literally signing up to care for the baby - per your Op you said y’all want to live together.
 

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I never accuse people of trolling bc life can be crazy. But this is some kind of stupid and I truly think this is a troll
How is this stupid? This is not something I could control. Literally nothing else was wrong. This cane out of nowhere. Im not a troll.
 

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Girl if you don't leave that man and find someone else with less baggage. The fµck is wrong with you?

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How is this stupid? This is not something I could control. Literally nothing else was wrong. This cane out of nowhere. Im not a troll.
The CIRCUMSTANCES are out of your control but you do have the ability to determine how YOU will react to it. Don’t be a victim.
 

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He’s already handling this in an immature way. He’s saying he wants to be with you versus his own seed, and you should find that disgusting and sad. Why would you want to be with someone that will deny their own child? That’s not a good person.
 

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im blessed cuz im not in the same predicament as you :cool::drink:island and if that ever did happen id have the self esteem to dip and not even make such a stupid thread
Of course not because you would never be able to get of keep a man. So of course you would never have any experiences regarding relationships. Go home Roger.
 

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He’s already handling this in an immature way. He’s saying he wants to be with you versus his own seed, and you should find that disgusting and sad. Why would you want to be with someone that will deny their own child? That’s not a good person.
He said he wants to be with me and take care of the kid but he doesnt want to be with the baby mother. I suggested he should try to work things out with her.
 

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I guess. They say it takes a village and you fitting to be the village idiot. All y’all should take a group photo in matching colors after paternity has been establish.
Please exit my post. Idk why y’all come in here trying to fight people on the internet. Have a blessed Tuesday sir.
 

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Leave him, it’s not worth it. 6 months is nothing in the grand scheme of things. Don’t fall for the sunken cost fallacy!
 
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Yeah Im sure he was still fµck!ng the fwb while he was with you.

Men lie and they lie a lot. They will say anything to make themselves look good even when though they are foul. I find it funny how he just tossed the other girl and all of a sudden he finds out she is pregnant months later. The sh!t sounds like a lie!

Save yourself the headache and leave.
 

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