Foxxy Love
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Your brother sounds like he has some mental issues going on, and your mama is choosing him over everyone else allowing this.
Chile this is common in particular community. Black folks will sweep things under the rug and protect their male relatives despite their poor behavior especially at the expense of BW and children.What about your sister? Your mother won't kick him out "because he is her son"....so she is going to continue to let him stay in the house and beat your sister? I'm confused.
How can you give a FCK about A CHILD ABUSER????My sister is my most immediate concern of course. But I can see that my brother is getting worse. Before he becomes a full-fledged criminal, there needs to be some sought of intervention. Tough love, psychiatric care, I don't know how to go about it, but its affecting everyone. I used to really hate him for ruining my credit, but now I'm just confused. Its like should you push out and ostracize someone who clearly needs help in hopes that they "grow up" or what, you know? Because you also need to protect others from their bs
My mom will never do it, and our relationship is getting messy because she is tired of talking about him. Its like he is the elephant in the room, that everyone has grown to ignore.
Yes! This! fµck this man! He is beyond saving!!!This goes beyond just needing to be “straightened up”. He is beyond repair and belongs in the grave. It may seem harsh, but it’s because we’ve been conditioned to Be soft on abusive men despite the irreversible damage they do.