incogneato
No face, no case.
Exactly what it says. My husband has been cheating for the past year and a half. He said he stopped talking to the woman. He never did. I tried everything. I gave him more xes. I didn’t argue. I allowed him and his mom to convince me to make a baby (We don’t have children, but recently started trying). I tried everything to save my marriage.
Well today I found his Zelle receipt of him sending her 200.00 on Tuesday while we were away working on our marriage. I called him and asked him why couldn’t he be honest with me. He says I’m tired of this back and forth. It’s stressful to me. You’re working with the ops (the other woman) and y’all can continue to work together because I don’t want to be with none of y’all. I will continue to pay the bills but I can’t do this anymore. I paused because prior (for months) I kept asking him if he wanted to be with her since she makes him happy. I told him in the end your happiness means a lot to me even at the expense of my own. He said he wanted to save his marriage. Foolishly, I believed him, I don’t know why. Now, I found proof of him lying to me he’s ready to call it quits. I wish I had the money to pay for a divorce. I don’t want anything from him so the divorce will be smooth. I know God will eventually provide a way for me to pay for it.
I should have left when I first found out in January, but there was a part of me that wanted to believe he will change. I’m in therapy due to all the trauma I’ve experienced. I’m on the road to healing. I’m not upset. I’m hurt, mentally exhausted, physically drained. He sucked the life out of me. Him and his woman they won. I give up. I’m not here to see who can stay the longest or who can endure the most pain. I’m so very very very tired. God will get me through this. Before, I was afraid, but I’m not afraid any longer. It’s time to let go.
Well today I found his Zelle receipt of him sending her 200.00 on Tuesday while we were away working on our marriage. I called him and asked him why couldn’t he be honest with me. He says I’m tired of this back and forth. It’s stressful to me. You’re working with the ops (the other woman) and y’all can continue to work together because I don’t want to be with none of y’all. I will continue to pay the bills but I can’t do this anymore. I paused because prior (for months) I kept asking him if he wanted to be with her since she makes him happy. I told him in the end your happiness means a lot to me even at the expense of my own. He said he wanted to save his marriage. Foolishly, I believed him, I don’t know why. Now, I found proof of him lying to me he’s ready to call it quits. I wish I had the money to pay for a divorce. I don’t want anything from him so the divorce will be smooth. I know God will eventually provide a way for me to pay for it.
I should have left when I first found out in January, but there was a part of me that wanted to believe he will change. I’m in therapy due to all the trauma I’ve experienced. I’m on the road to healing. I’m not upset. I’m hurt, mentally exhausted, physically drained. He sucked the life out of me. Him and his woman they won. I give up. I’m not here to see who can stay the longest or who can endure the most pain. I’m so very very very tired. God will get me through this. Before, I was afraid, but I’m not afraid any longer. It’s time to let go.