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Awalou

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My auntie owes me 500 dollars since August of 2018. She said she was going to give me back the money before the winter semester ends and more. Guess what ..... she has not given me anything yet. I asked her for the money, she told me she did not have it and she is struggling to pay her bills. But how did she get money to go to Paris for Christmas? If I did not ask I would not have known she was going to Paris. She has not contacted me since then. I normally spend Christmas at her house because my mom is in Africa. She did not even bother to wish me a Merry Christmas. She did not even bother to check on me and where I was going to spend Christmas. She always says that family should support each other and check on each other. This relationship is very one-sided because I know she checks on all the other family members. Since my Dad passed away the relationship between me and my Dad's family is kinda one-sided. Everybody says my Dad was a good man. He took care of all my aunties and uncles and they all lived in his house at some point. Damn nobody wished me a Happy Christmas. So if I do not send them a message they will not bother to contact me. Damn!!!!!!!
 

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I'm so sorry. Accept that you probably won't get the money back. That way you can move on and cut off contact with her for the time being.
 

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People get real funny when they owe you money I don't know why they do that. It's like you are the bad guy when it's them that is fµcked up. Chalk it up to a gift because it will be a miracle if you ever get it back. Consider it her birthday and Xmas presents for the rest of her life so don't ever give her sh!t else and if she asks tell her you can't loan her more until you get the $500 back. Don't ask for the money again just make a mental note. See how she treats you going forward.
 

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She’s avoiding you because she owes you money. Either accept that you’re not getting it back or take her to small claims court. Don’t lend money you’re not prepared to lose.
 

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This is exactly why, I will never lend anyone money. I don’t care how bad their situation is. If they don’t have it, they weren’t meant to have it.
 

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Sever those ties and make room for people who will value you for simply being you.
 

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