I am getting married next week and I just found out my husband to be has been contacting his ex jump-off as recently as today. We plan to have a whole life together and I know he never had feelings for her but, I am not sure what to do. Do I go ahead with my family to be and let that die out, or do I leave him alone.
What would you all do. I would hate to leave and then be in the same situation with the next man. I am 30 and I don't have kids yet. I REALLY love him and I am confused. I was coming from his house last night and someone stopped in the middle of the street to look at me, I have a feeling it was her. I don't know if he called and then asked her about it or what. But we have cell phones on my plan, and I looked today and saw the number. Now his phone is turned off.
The thing is we were not having xes. I called myself trying to wait for marriage and to lose weight and be celibate in a relationship. I am not a virgin and we have had xes 3 times before, in 2.5 years. I feel like this is my fault. I also feel that this is my fault because I gained weight and I have been slow to lose it. I gained like 80 pounds and he likes a woman who is not fat. The woman has a big stomach but she is a size 12. I am a 18. I'm fly, don't get me wrong but, I need advice on what would you all do?
What would you all do. I would hate to leave and then be in the same situation with the next man. I am 30 and I don't have kids yet. I REALLY love him and I am confused. I was coming from his house last night and someone stopped in the middle of the street to look at me, I have a feeling it was her. I don't know if he called and then asked her about it or what. But we have cell phones on my plan, and I looked today and saw the number. Now his phone is turned off.
The thing is we were not having xes. I called myself trying to wait for marriage and to lose weight and be celibate in a relationship. I am not a virgin and we have had xes 3 times before, in 2.5 years. I feel like this is my fault. I also feel that this is my fault because I gained weight and I have been slow to lose it. I gained like 80 pounds and he likes a woman who is not fat. The woman has a big stomach but she is a size 12. I am a 18. I'm fly, don't get me wrong but, I need advice on what would you all do?